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Early Light Devotional
Accepting Criticism
| Proverbs 10:17-18
Psalm 10:17-18 (King James Version)
17LORD, thou hast heard the desire of the humble: thou wilt prepare their heart, thou wilt cause thine ear to hear:
18To judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that the man of the earth may no more oppress
Nobody likes criticism. It’s rarely fun and it’s often unsolicited. Many times, we reject our critic’s words because of the harsh spirit in which they were spoken.
Yet God can take even a wrong attitude, bad timing, or poor tone of voice and still tell us something we need to hear. That’s why we are wise to pay attention when people critique us. Criticism—invited or not—forces us to examine ourselves and take notice of weak areas. This helps us discover who we really are and avoid unnecessary mistakes. If we fail to listen, our potential for mental, emotional, and spiritual growth is limited.
However, that is not to say all opinions are valid. It is important to respond well and evaluate criticism correctly. First, do not immediately reject the comment, blame the person, or defend yourself. Instead, consider what was said, and ask God if He’s trying to tell you something. Then, thank the person for his interest in you, and explain that you’ll reflect on his observation. If he was sincere, he’ll be appreciative, but if his intentions were negative, this will disarm him. Next, evaluate the criticism and determine what exactly is under scrutiny—your beliefs, your character, God? Finally, view this as an opportunity for growth, and—if necessary—apologize.
Jesus died on the cross for our sake, so we as believers are certain of His approval. When we remember this, the disapproval of others will take on less significance and cause less hurt. Then, as we learn to respond correctly, we’ll be blessed to find ourselves growing
Accepting Criticism
| Proverbs 10:17-18
Psalm 10:17-18 (King James Version)
17LORD, thou hast heard the desire of the humble: thou wilt prepare their heart, thou wilt cause thine ear to hear:
18To judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that the man of the earth may no more oppress
Nobody likes criticism. It’s rarely fun and it’s often unsolicited. Many times, we reject our critic’s words because of the harsh spirit in which they were spoken.
Yet God can take even a wrong attitude, bad timing, or poor tone of voice and still tell us something we need to hear. That’s why we are wise to pay attention when people critique us. Criticism—invited or not—forces us to examine ourselves and take notice of weak areas. This helps us discover who we really are and avoid unnecessary mistakes. If we fail to listen, our potential for mental, emotional, and spiritual growth is limited.
However, that is not to say all opinions are valid. It is important to respond well and evaluate criticism correctly. First, do not immediately reject the comment, blame the person, or defend yourself. Instead, consider what was said, and ask God if He’s trying to tell you something. Then, thank the person for his interest in you, and explain that you’ll reflect on his observation. If he was sincere, he’ll be appreciative, but if his intentions were negative, this will disarm him. Next, evaluate the criticism and determine what exactly is under scrutiny—your beliefs, your character, God? Finally, view this as an opportunity for growth, and—if necessary—apologize.
Jesus died on the cross for our sake, so we as believers are certain of His approval. When we remember this, the disapproval of others will take on less significance and cause less hurt. Then, as we learn to respond correctly, we’ll be blessed to find ourselves growing
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