Advice/counseling

[Winnie madijeng]

Hey.. my name is winnie.. for the rest of my life I thought my life was normal but just different. I am a loving person always putting my self in someone’s situation, I get hurt easily, I have too much fear when it comes to someone’s feelings. I don’t like to see someone surfing or hurt... I am that person who always think a lot sometimes my over thinking becomes too much, and struggle to sleep at night. I always bottles my feelings so that I don’t hurt the next person. I hate disappointing others... I have big dreams which I’m scared to tell others about because sometimes they scare me. So sometimes I refare my thoughts as my “ daemon s” because I can’t control them... I think I need a counseling

 

[Ivar]

@Winnie madijeng
Did your father have an active role in your life?
Are you a sociable person?
Do you consider yourself introvert or extrovert?
Are you able to share your dreams on here?

 

[Teresa V]

I think we can help if you could be more specific

 

[Brad Huber]

Hey.. my name is winnie.. for the rest of my life I thought my life was normal but just different. I am a loving person always putting my self in someone’s situation, I get hurt easily, I have too much fear when it comes to someone’s feelings. I don’t like to see someone surfing or hurt... I am that person who always think a lot sometimes my over thinking becomes too much, and struggle to sleep at night. I always bottles my feelings so that I don’t hurt the next person. I hate disappointing others... I have big dreams which I’m scared to tell others about because sometimes they scare me. So sometimes I refare my thoughts as my “ daemon s” because I can’t control them... I think I need a counseling

You need the guidance of the Holy Spirit. It sounds like you are being a doormat for all those who wish to step on you and abuse you. If you are a christian, you were made for much greater things... MUCH greater things. Being submissive is good to a parent or husband (if indeed you are female which I am assuming by the name) for the most part, but not even always to them. For if you are a christian, you are a child of the King of the whole universe, and you should not let yourself be treated badly.

As to bad thoughts, we all have them. Sometimes its all us creating those bad thoughts, but usually its evil spirits putting those thoughts into our minds, whispering evil things, wanting us to focus on them, and to claim those thoughts as our own. That is totally wrong, its not evil of you, that evil spirits send evil thoughts to you, but it is only evil if you act upon those evil thoughts, doing the things those thoughts tell you to do. Likewise, if you spend a lot of your own thoughts continuing to think about those evil thoughts (but not act on them), its sort of a minor sin, because you choose to spend your time thinking about them, when you should be rejecting those thoughts as from evil spirits and refuse to think on them. But you can be forgiven thinking to much on those thoughts, because you are much weaker spiritually than Jesus, and He knows that, and will forgive you if you ask Him, but you have to grow stronger in the spirit to defeat those thoughts as quickly as they come into your mind. I glady pray for you!

 

[Thankful Pat]

Thank you for this. I am feeling the same way, and just a little lost. It's hard for me to ask for help. I am praying for you too!