Am I really making this up?

[Kat13Rid]

Recently, my ex boyfriend messaged me over facebook saying that my facebook status's were 'freaking people out' but the majority of them have been either bible verses or christian song lyrics. He then said he was confused as to why the reason for breaking up with me confused me.
We discussed things, and he told me the whole story around why he broke up with me. Which still doesn't quite make sense to me but that's beside the point.

After telling me the whole story. I told him that I just wanted to hug him, and told him that I loved him and trusted him, which he didn't expect. I also told him, that I was afraid, because for quite some time now, I believe that he is the one, and this feeling has grown.
I told him that I had had a vision, it was of our future. I also told him of several dreams I had that he was in.
I very much believe that both the vision and dreams are from God.

I suppose my mistake was in telling him. But after telling him he began to accuse me of making things up, that what I had seen were not from God. That what I'm doing is just a foolish attempt to change what had happened, or that I'm connecting meaningless things together to convince myself that it's not over.
He told me that my heart is lying to me, because the heart is fickle, that it tries to lie and deceive.
That goes against everything I have learned. The heart is the dwelling place of God. It only lies and deceives when it is corrupt.

I know nobody can truly say whether I'm making it up or not, but myself and God.
But I kind of want to know what other's have to say. Because I feel like it's only me and one or two people who believe that I'm not making this up.
I am also at a loss of what to do. I know I need to focus on God, but I don't know what else. I realize that I need somebody to talk to about this, but I don't know who or where to go.

 

[AbbysAunt]

Hi Kat13Rid

Hebrews4:12
For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

God knows your heart and how much you love this man....do you know deep inside your heart without a doubt that God gave you these visions and dreams of a future with this person...I believe God does and can do this for us and if you say He did this for you then
im going to believe you.

your ex-boyfriend was taken completely by suprise and it scared him when you confessed your feelings the way you did...that's why he is saying what he is and acting how he is as well. So, now the question is what do you do now...i'll give you the best advice I can...for now you need to step back and leave things alone and let God deal with your exboyfriend...if you are to have any future with him he needs to find the salvation of our Lord and God needs time to work on him. Its not in our timing but in God's timing that things will come to pass and if it is meant to be with you and your ex then in our Lord's perfect timing He will return this man to you...right now you keep praying for your ex and his salvation, stay in the word and pray for yourself that you stay strong in our Lord and lean not on your own understanding but always lean on God and know that He knows what is best for you and your ex.

If you need to talk you can pm anytime and most times in the evening im in the chatroom too. God bless you.

 

[messianicjew]

"Who can understand the human heart? There is nothing else so deceitful; it is too sick to be healed." /Jer 17:9

The visions you've had could be from God. But they could also be wishful thinkings from your heart. Please be careful and seek God in prayer.

I know of a number of unhappy marriages and struggling marriages, even when both are Christians, that are regretting they ever get married, but stay together and work on their marriage to make it work (I tell couples like that "David and Bat Sheva came off on a bad start too with the adultery and the murder - still God eventually blessed that marriage").

I also know of a Christian woman who was very much in love, and the marriage ended in divorce anyway (he left her) - and as she looked back she says that "anything I saw or felt or heard I took as a sign from above - I guess I just interpreted things the way I wanted to"

I don't want to scare you away - the dreams you've had might come from God, but it's also very possible that they don't. Be careful. Choosing who to marry is the single most important decision you'll ever make.

 

[startist]

exactly

I totally agree with AbbysAunt..step back, pray and let God work..

and if anyhow this guy was sent from God, then he'll be back but this time with God on his side.

take care