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Are you overweight?

ThatGuy

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So many Christians live such unhealthy lives, and then they blame the devil for getting sick or dying when their diet consists of fried foods and other junk. Anyway back on topic, before I was saved I was a big man, and by big I mean I am 6'2'', and I weighed a solid 265 lbs. Texas sized to the fullest, but thank God there came a point where I really had a desire to lose weight, and in a matter of months I dropped down to a low of 196 lbs, which at my height is very skinny. Right now I am at about 218 lbs which is my normal weight, but still trying to get into better shape. Also I want to get married so that is also motivation to stay in shape. But I'd like to hear from other Christians on this site on this topic.

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I heard a sermon this Sunday evening where the preacher made a comment where he said, "Your body is a stewardship from God, and he is going to expect a return".

I have to wonder what book he was preaching out of...because it certainly was`nt the Bible...:rtm:

(sorry, its difficult to take "preachers of the gospel" seriously who preach things that have nothing to do with the gospel of Jesus Christ) :character:


In Gods kingdom, the body [FLESH]profits nothing...zero...zip...nadda...:dirol:

God said so.

"If you want to enter the kingdom of God, you must be born again." - Jesus Christ
 
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Hey thanks for posting this topic! Well I heard a few different preachers talk about this before. Joyce Meyer and Joel Osteen to be specific. Joel Osteen talked about how our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit and we need to take care of our temples.

Most people think that means no smoking, drinking or tatoos but what we eat really impacts our body. Joyce Meyer has a book titled "Look great, feel great". I'm dying to buy the book, but i think it talks about how the food we eat directly effects how we feel physically.

And it's so true. I personally feel physically drained when I eat fast food. It tastes soooo good, but then an hour later, I'm ready for a nap! And when your walking around this world feeling physically drained, you can't be the leader and preacher to others in the way you want to be!

Now as for God asking for our bodies back, I don't think the bible says that. BUT God does expect for us to keep our temples clean
 
Fellowservant reformatted the system (ask him why he hadta do that haha) so I have`nt got e-sword handy...but lets see if I can get this right...


I Peter 1:18-20 Forasmuch as ye know that you were not redeemed with corruptible things, silver or gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers; but with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot; who was verily foreordained before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you!

Unless any have a body thats not corruptible, like mine... :bot:
God is not looking for any returns of our spots and blemishes...thank God!
 
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If the topic was`nt about God expecting a return from our flesh...(expect to return mine all bent out of shape and used up...and i`m almost there lol)...:sadface:

....then I`d be on board...I AM a health nut ...:groupwave:
 
Ok then, I am going to edit my original post and erase what I wrote about expecting a return from God since nobody understood it, by the way the preacher was referring that our bodies are given to us for a reason, and that we better use out time wisely and our gifts wisely since we are stewards to what the Lord gave us, and yes we are going to be held accountable for what we did on earth. But anyway, does anyone actually have any comments on the topic of obesity?
 
i am 6-5, and i had gottn up to 368 pounds. i am really into weightlifting, but the size of my stomach was not due to weight lifting. our body is a temple, and we will be held accountable
 
I ruined my body before I became a Christian and, to be honest, I'm upset still because I don't think it will ever be possible to fix it. I put on lots of weight years ago after pregnancy and then got mentally ill and had to take tablets which caused me to put on weight really fast. Now i'm forty and flabby - yuk! I'm obese and ashamed of my appearance, also find it difficult going out and exercising incase people see me. If i did lose the weight i'd be left with lots of excess skin.
 
Right now I am at about 218 lbs which is my normal weight, but still trying to get into better shape

Praise God, I applaud you.
I think we need to talk more on this topic...
I look forward to reading more and if I find anything to add I will.
God bless you.
 
I agree with Rizen1, we need to talk more about this topic,
for many need encouragement and ways to loose weight.
Is anyone out there who is willing to share with us more knowledge
on this vital issue?
 
I am definatly interested in this topic. I am over weight - I won't be posting my weight, though. ;)

I see in my own life that there is a spiritual/emotional connection to my eating/weight. Most of the time for me, my eating is crazy when I'm not trusting the Lord. I hate to admit it but it's true. I am sometimes able to go to God first, but sad to say that often it's after I've downed whatever food to still those uncomfortable feelings. Paul talked about doing the things you don't want to do and not doing those that we do want to do... I am not unwise in thinking that I am not accountable, yet at times (even after years of healing) I sometimes go into a zone and notice afterwards or right in the middle. At least in the middle I can often choose to stop. When we are weak Jesus is strong. My family struggles with food for generations. And I have prayed asking the Lord to break those curses/ties etc. once and for all.

I've had seasons where I ate well and walked a lot. And was in a really healthy place. Those times I thought for sure that the struggle was over and I was free. But then in some cases I let things slip in and others it just happened. I am currently exercising at a ladies gym 3x's a week and walking as well. It's the food that is the problem and not getting into drinking the 64 + ounces of water that I know is so good for me. I had quit eating after 8 p.m. and in truth I had gained weight in that time. I know that there is no "magic pill" to change my weight for the long haul. We've been adding good for us food, brown rice, whole wheat pasta... we've always eaten fresh fruit and veggies & Whole wheat bread. It's the other stuff that I struggle with like peanut butter, perserves, choc. chips, icing. (weird sounding I know but I'm trying to not keep sweets/junk in the house so I've found myself going for these things). I don't keep ice cream in the house as that won't last.

My guess is that the Lord is doing stuff in me that I don't really know or understand. Yet I hold fast to Him the author and perfector of my faith. I've been job hunting for about a year, my mom won't be in contact with me except for e-mail forwards (she's written off my other sister as well years ago). Sad.

So yes, I too would like to read what others have to write on this topic. Thank you.
 
I am about 75 pounds overweight, I would be happy to cut that in half. I have to tell you what God seemed to be speaking to me.
The fruit of the Spirit is just that- fruit. not fruits, it's indivisible, can't have one without all of them. Well, I'm all for joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness... but then there's self control. God put it on my heart to lose weight, not so much as to feel better, look better, even live longer, but because I need to work on my self control.
That was a big wakeup call for me, and I have been focused on it ever since. I haven't lost much, in the overall scheme of things, I don't let it consume my life, but I am more aware. I have joined a gym, stopped drinking soda, and tried not to eat after 7 pm.
I have found that I actually enjoy the gym because I play sports and my endurance is up. I knew from the beginning that this was for my good, but it's wonderful to have great side effects as well.
 
Hi Eph. 4,

Thank you for sharing where you are at... sounds like some good things are happening there. :)

I am wondering if you know a site that I can check out to find out what is a good weight for my height (balanced report). I don't need to be a skinny one but healthy. Happy day to all!
 
Rachel15,
you said that you are ashamed of you appearance but you are worried about people seeing you well sister please don't be.

No one has the right to judge us but God and I am sure He wont mind if your getting into better shape and making yourself feel happy about your appearance at the same time.

Be strong sister!
 
I don't know any sites off the top of my head, every one has a different way to do things where they're trying to make money you know.
Is it possible for you to remember a time when you think back and say to yourself, I felt good back then, I liked how I looked, I felt confident?
Perhaps, if it is reasonable, it is a good idea to try that. Maybe a couple dress sizes would make all the difference. It would for me. I know that my 'ideal' weight is about 130, but I'll never be there. I enjoy good food too much, so it's not realistic. But to be about 160-170 should be reasonable, so that's actually my goal (and a few dress sizes).
If any one knows of a good- free site to check out it would be appreciated!!
God Bless us all in our endeavors
 
I believe this is a topic that is so important. For some, obesity is not just something that you live with, its an everyday fight, an everyday cross to bear! Just as there are addictions out there to other substances, so, food can also become an addiction, that the 'user' uses to fulfill often hidden emotional hungers.
The problem with food addiction is that it so obvious. It can be easy to hide a drug addiction or even a porn addiction but when you are fat, everyone can see.
We truly do battle with our flesh daily, and the fight to keep our flesh in submission, for some is a thorn in the flesh that few understand.
 
So many Christians live such unhealthy lives, and then they blame the devil for getting sick or dying when their diet consists of fried foods and other junk. Anyway back on topic, before I was saved I was a big man, and by big I mean I am 6'2'', and I weighed a solid 265 lbs. Texas sized to the fullest, but thank God there came a point where I really had a desire to lose weight, and in a matter of months I dropped down to a low of 196 lbs, which at my height is very skinny. Right now I am at about 218 lbs which is my normal weight, but still trying to get into better shape. Also I want to get married so that is also motivation to stay in shape. But I'd like to hear from other Christians on this site on this topic.

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Hey Big Brother

How did you do it. I am getting so overweight it has become an embarrassment. Not going into details but I would be pleased to hear from you. How did you?
 
I would like to loss to like 20 or 26 pound because I'm like 150 and want to be like around 126-130 and that’s also normal for my hights and age but I feel a bit choppy but I just need to get in shape that is all to what I know even breathing hard when running and remember how I was a bit skinny and want be like that again LOOOL. I' m not over weight just normal.

The things that bugs me out is that in my church they say is ok to stay fat because God may you that way. I have to disagree because being very fat is not healthy at all but having some fat is healthy but having to much is very bad and some sort of toxics in your body and causing to age faster. Also very under weight is also not healthy like I think Paris Hilton need some meat LOL but she still look pretty but I don‘t think that healthy at all either is like we need a real balance size and weight in our body. That does seem worse then smoking. :embarasse
 
Hey Big Brother

How did you do it. I am getting so overweight it has become an embarrassment. Not going into details but I would be pleased to hear from you. How did you?
I heard spinning around like a 4 year old works for losing weight. I think they right because I be sweating when I spinning around like non stop when I dance in the spirit with like one leg dancing around which dose sound crazy when you spinning around real fast with one leg as it sounds impossible but I could really dance around with my one leg for like I don't what maybe like 2 mins LOL. I guest that how they do it in the Boricua or this Hispanic Pentecostal church that I often go to LOL...
 
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What an excellent topic! The statistics for the US alone is incredible for people over weight now a days. You could blame many things such as the type of food that is edible (how it's cooked, prepared), lack of excersize because it's an information age and computers are number one pasttime, and the fact that we just live with all the conveinences that dont require us to get up and get busy as it used to. But when it all comes down to it, like this person mentioned:
but then there's self control

Self control, aside from chemical imbalances or even if it is heriditary, is a HUGE factor in weight gaining. I used to be 126 lbs up until 3 years ago. I am 5'7" so that was a tiny size. I was always little and was called stickly, but yet I could eat anything and any amount of it, and wouldn't gain a pound. I was alot more active too with little one's. I now weigh 145 lbs. My average weight should be 10 lbs lighter, and considering the fact that I have a hip replacement, weight is an issue for me at this point in my life.

Before surgery --In March-- I had a lipids test done as part of a series of tests done to clear me for surgery, and low and behold, my cholestorol was a smidgen over the line. Enough so that the doctor advised me to get myself on a low fat diet and more excersize. Well, the excersize was out for alteast 2 months, just basic physical therapy. Now the physical therapy is increasing, which will be good, but at the same time, that was my wake up call to start now!!

I have for the past few months changed the little things such as, I purchase fat free milk, low fat everything else I can buy. Leaner meats, a lot of fresh fruits and veggies (with out the dips) and I now bake or grill alot more than fry. There are simple little things that we can do to change our eating habits, and still be able to enjoy the taste of food. Self control plays a huge part in this, and the only way to get self control is to give control over to God first.

You may think I am silly, or just plain retarded for thinking so, but Im now starting to ask God to make the food taste as though it did for the Isrealites once they indulged after complaining to God about manna this manna that, --gimme some meat!! --LOL-- I want to only enjoy the measure enough to sustain nutrition, but not overindulge. Cookies and cheesecake are my weakness. I could make a batch and eat them all or be stingy with a whole cheesecake to myself in two days -POOF- it's gone!
God can and will help us get our eating and excersizing under control... He wouldn't tell us to keep our temples clean without providing a way for us to do so. We just have to be the one who educates ourselves and keeps our eyes on the prize. We have to be realistic as well.
I hope these simple suggestions will be a good start for those who are reading this.

1-Dont set goals way too high --like me, i am sometimes an over acheiver and set myself up for failure alot-- but set them at obtainable limits. How you approach this, will determine how far you can go.

****We also have to do research because what works for me doesn't work for someone else and vise versa.

2-Diligently search on healthy eating habits at home or eating out and dont fall for the lose weight fast with this pill or this pill... Purchase low fat or no fat items in place of the others. This includes snacks too!! It is fairly inexpensive and easy to make a fresh fruit smoothie every morning, take your vitamins, drink alot of water. Cut out soda's! (or pop, fizzy drinks --not sure how everyone says it) Even Diet drinks are not good for you. :shade:

3-Surround yourself with people who respect your goals and will help lift you up and encourage you to eat properly or go for a walk with you to excersize.

4-Right after you eat a meal, DONT GO TO SLEEP or sit down for a long period of time! Go out and do something in your yard, go for a walk around the block or two, go to the mall, go change your car oil, but dont allow yourself to be inactive. ALSO--Don't eat atleast 3 hours before bed. No late night ice cream, or scanning the fridge or cupboards right before LA-LA Land! >me guilty *DOH<:shock:

5-Snack inbetween meals with healthy stuff. Not a candy bar.

6-Watch what you eat. Look at the packages ingredients, carbs, fats, etc.. because becoming aware will help you limit your intake. Think about it, if you really know what you are putting into your body, you may think twice about it!

Those are good to start. I have lost 3 lbs now that I am down to one crutch and moving around alot more. I was even out edging the yard last weekend! :thumbs_up
 
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