Can satan put thoughts in our head, and then we think they are our own thoughts and start hating ourselves.?
Yes. Yes. Yes. I personally tell the Devil to get behind me; get thee hence when I am feeling the way I believe you have been.
I would suggest reading these verses:
Matthew 4: 8 Again, the devil taketh him up into an exceeding high mountain, and sheweth him all the kingdoms of the world, and the glory of them; 9 And saith unto him, All these things will I give thee, if thou wilt fall down and worship me.10 Then saith Jesus unto him,
Get thee hence, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve.
Matthew 16:21 ¶ From that time forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples, how that he must go unto Jerusalem, and suffer many things of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised again the third day. 22 Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee. 23 But he turned, and said unto Peter,
Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men.
Mark 8:31 And he began to teach them, that the Son of man must suffer many things, and be rejected of the elders, and of the chief priests, and scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again. 32 And he spake that saying openly. And Peter took him, and began to rebuke him.33 But when he had turned about and looked on his disciples, he rebuked Peter, saying,
Get thee behind me, Satan: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but the things that be of men.
Luke 4:6 And the devil said unto him, All this power will I give thee, and the glory of them: for that is delivered unto me; and to whomsoever I will I give it. 7 If thou therefore wilt worship me, all shall be thine.8 And Jesus answered and said unto him,
Get thee behind me, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve.
Satan told the first and greatest lie ever: He told Eve she would not die if she ate fruit from the tree which God had forbidden. He is the father of all lies.
Genesis 3:1 Now
the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said unto the woman,
Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden? 2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: 3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die. 4 And the serpent said unto the woman,
Ye shall not surely die: 5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
- Revelation 20:2 And he laid hold on the dragon, that old serpent, which is the Devil, and Satan, and bound him a thousand years,
From Genesis 3 we and Revelation 20 we can conclude that the serpent was in fact the Devil, and connivingly, he convinced Eve to believe a very dangerous lie. We can imagine that the serpent was a cunning, and intelligent creature (who could somehow speak) before he was down cast upon his belly.
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Subtile | Definition of Subtile by Merriam-Webster
We can also conclude that God loved sinners enough to curse the liar who deceived them.
Genesis 3: 14 And the LORD God said unto
the serpent, Because thou hast done this,
thou art cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field;
upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: 15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.
(There is much more gather from Genesis 3, but I am hoping this helps with what you are going through).
Not everyone enjoys a good bible preacher, but it is healthy to hear the truth from time to time. If you are interested, below is a fantastic sermon that I think would answer your question directly. In this service you hear the lies that are being told to the members of this particular church. It is quite moving, and sincerely touched my heart. Glory be to God!
The Devil's Lies | SermonAudio.com (God bless pastor Reg Kelly)
Our bibles tell us to take on the armour of Light.
Romans 13: 10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. 11 And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed. 12 The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the
armour of light. 13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. 14
But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.
Also to take unto ourselves the whole armour of God: truth, righteousness, preparation, peace, faith, the helmet, and the sword..."which is the word of God."
Ephesians 6: 13 Wherefore
take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. 14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with
truth, and having on the breastplate of
righteousness; 15 And your feet shod with the
preparation of the
gospel of peace; 16 Above all, taking the
shield of faith, wherewith
ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. 17 And take the
helmet of salvation, and
the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: 18
Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;
It is possible to withstand in the evil day. Our weapon is our sword, "which is the word of God."
Faith comes by the hearing of the word.
Romans 10:17 So then
faith cometh by hearing, and
hearing by the word of God.
John 8: 43 Why do ye not understand my speech? even
because ye cannot hear my word. 44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do.
He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because
there is no truth in him.
When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. 45 And because
I tell you the truth, ye believe me not. 46 Which of you convinceth me of sin? And
if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me? 47
He that is of God heareth God’s words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.
Interestingly enough, this passages encourages us to ponder the idea that
the Spirit is received by the hearing of faith, and not by works:
2 This only would I learn of you,
Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith? 3 Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect
by the flesh? 4 Have ye suffered so many things in vain? if it be yet in vain. 5 He therefore that ministereth to you the Spirit, and worketh miracles among you,
doeth he it by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith? 6 Even as
Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness. 7 Know ye therefore
that they which are of faith, the same are the children of Abraham. 8 And the scripture, foreseeing that
God would justify the heathen through faith, preached before the gospel unto Abraham, saying, In thee shall all nations be blessed. 9 So then
they which be of faith are blessed with faithful Abraham.
I believe we can all search God in the scriptures for wisdom and instruction. I pray the scripture be your help. God bless.
Proverbs
Category: Wisdom
Chapter 1
1 The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel; 2 To know
wisdom and
instruction; to
perceive the words of understanding; 3 To
receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and equity; 4 To give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion. 5
A wise man will hear, and will
increase learning; and
a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: 6 To
understand a proverb, and the
interpretation;
the words of the wise, and their dark sayings.
7 ¶
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but
fools despise wisdom and instruction. 8 My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: 9 For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck.
10 ¶ My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not. 11 If they say, Come with us, let us lay wait for blood, let us lurk privily for the innocent without cause: 12 Let us swallow them up alive as the grave; and whole, as those that go down into the pit: 13 We shall find all precious substance, we shall fill our houses with spoil: 14 Cast in thy lot among us; let us all have one purse: 15 My son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from their path: 16 For their feet run to evil, and make haste to shed blood. 17 Surely in vain the net is spread in the sight of any bird. 18 And they lay wait for their own blood; they lurk privily for their own lives. 19 So are the ways of every one that is greedy of gain; which taketh away the life of the owners thereof.
20 ¶ Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets: 21 She crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying, 22 How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge? 23 Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you.
24 ¶ Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded; 25 But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: 26 I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh; 27 When your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. 28 Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me: 29 For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD: 30 They would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof. 31 Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. 32 For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them. 33 But
whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.
(that last bit of the previous passage has been a great comfort and blessing for me personally. For years, I struggled with fear and anxiety and dealt with more tragedy than I like to remember. Having God's word in my heart has helped to mend the broken pieces back together).