Coconut
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"If you choose to love, you will be misunderstood, you will be betrayed, you will be rejected by the [very] people who most desperately need the love you have to offer.
We are blemished people, and in order to [truly] love anybody, in any way, we have to expose that part of us that we’d rather keep hidden. Our own selfishness, our own fears, our own hangups, and it’s embarrassing. So humiliating. But you keep on loving.”
--Rich Mullins
Love that wears a mask of detached politeness can only be self love. Self love is most evident in its refusal to bare its heart, to let others get too close, too familiar, to get to know the real you. Self love says I will not expose my heart to hurt, pain, rejection, humiliation.
Compare self love with God`s love. Christ loves extravagantly. He connects with the crowd, He weeps with them, He laughs with them, He reaches out to them in compassion, He asks "how are you" and actually wants to know the answer, because if you need anything, He is so willing to do everything He can to help you. He bares His heart, even though He knows they will pierce it through and through.
Compare self love with a child`s love. Children love extravagantly. Children love with all the passion God placed in their little hearts, and will give smiles to strangers that would put most of us to shame. Christ commands us to be like a child. This is the love that carries with it a promise of "blessed are you"
Love like there is no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes -- love again. - Max Lucado
We are blemished people, and in order to [truly] love anybody, in any way, we have to expose that part of us that we’d rather keep hidden. Our own selfishness, our own fears, our own hangups, and it’s embarrassing. So humiliating. But you keep on loving.”
--Rich Mullins
Love that wears a mask of detached politeness can only be self love. Self love is most evident in its refusal to bare its heart, to let others get too close, too familiar, to get to know the real you. Self love says I will not expose my heart to hurt, pain, rejection, humiliation.
Compare self love with God`s love. Christ loves extravagantly. He connects with the crowd, He weeps with them, He laughs with them, He reaches out to them in compassion, He asks "how are you" and actually wants to know the answer, because if you need anything, He is so willing to do everything He can to help you. He bares His heart, even though He knows they will pierce it through and through.
Compare self love with a child`s love. Children love extravagantly. Children love with all the passion God placed in their little hearts, and will give smiles to strangers that would put most of us to shame. Christ commands us to be like a child. This is the love that carries with it a promise of "blessed are you"
Love like there is no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes -- love again. - Max Lucado