Eph 5:10-12
10 Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord.
11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather
reprove them.
12 For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. KJV
2 Tim 4:2-4
2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season;
reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and
doctrine.
3
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. KJV
NT:1651
elegcho (el-eng'-kho); of uncertain affinity; to confute, admonish:
KJV - convict, convince, tell a fault, rebuke, reprove.
(Biblesoft's New Exhaustive Strong's Numbers and Concordance with Expanded Greek-Hebrew Dictionary. Copyright (c) 1994, Biblesoft and International Bible Translators, Inc.)
NT:2008
epitimao (ep-ee-tee-mah'-o); from NT:1909 and NT:5091; to tax upon, i.e. censure or admonish; by implication, forbid:
KJV - (straitly) charge, rebuke.
(Biblesoft's New Exhaustive Strong's Numbers and Concordance with Expanded Greek-Hebrew Dictionary. Copyright (c) 1994, Biblesoft and International Bible Translators, Inc.)
criticize
Main Entry: crit·i·cize
Pronunciation: \ˈkri-tə-ˌsīz\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): crit·i·cized; crit·i·ciz·ing
Date: 1643
intransitive verb
: to act as a critic
transitive verb
1 : to consider the merits and demerits of and judge accordingly : evaluate
2 : to find fault with : point out the faults of
— crit·i·ciz·able \-ˌsī-zə-bəl\ adjective
— crit·i·ciz·er noun
Definition of criticize - Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary
Before you correct you must be critical and thus criticize the issue before you criticize, reprove or reubke the person(s) with the flaw.
One of the deceptions of this age is the concept of trying to be overly inclusive and as one said all groups are susceptible to this one. The SBC is very bad at this as are the non-denoms/intra-denoms. The IFBs at times err to the other side of this coin but that is the safer side though balance needs to be sought in all things.
I did a sermon called Christianity Is Exclusively Inclusive that you can find on sermoncentral.
As long as one is using the Word to make the reproof or criticism we are enjoined to do so. Some find this unloving but if I leave you in sin or some error without telling you the truth I do not love you. True, I can tell you the truth without loving you but the Scripture does say to speak the truth in love, not love and forget about the truth.
We live in a world where we do not understand love or grace. It is not love to accept a brother in his sin or error and leave him there. It is love to seek to give him the truth to turn him from his sin or error. Grace does not mean we close our eyes to sin and error but grace gives us the power and the love to see sin and error for what they are and to hate them and seek to stop our personal sin and correct our personal errors but also to care for those who need their eyes open be they lost or saved.
Some of the previous comments clearly prove why we cannot ever be ONE until He returns. We are told to be in ONE mind and ONE accord and to speak the SAME thing since their is ONE Lord, ONE
faith and ONE baptism but since no one wants to seek what that ONE faith and its doctrines are but rather embrace everything from far Left to far Right there cannot be ONE faith nor can we function as ONE body.
Christianity is not a spiritual buffet where you pick and choose the doctrines you like or create your own salad. There is ONE truth and only ONE truth.
John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
KJV
ALL truth, not some or several types of truth. Yes, Jesus is the Truth but He does not contradict Himself or have different rules for each of His children. There is no I'm OK, You're OK theology in Scripture. Either adult baptism by immersion is truth or infant baptism by sprinkling or poruring is truth or they are both wrong but they are not both right. And it is that way it is with EVERY doctrine.
Some cite man's doctine as the problem. OK, how do you know what is man's doctrine and what is God's? By the Word of God and there won't be variations. Be careful for God did not lay out everything in a nice 3 point sermon or 12 steps so you do have to study and interpret and make application. Sunday School is not in the Word and the way it was started is not how we use it today but we have the command to disciple and it is, when done properly, a means of discipling. Thus it is a man's invention but it partly fulfills what God commanded.
When we want to sincerely seekout the Truth and come to agreement on doctrines we shall then be one but that will not happen because everyone wants to be in the limelight.
1 Cor 14:26 How is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying. KJV
The Church at Corinth was a blooming disaster and should be used as an example of what to avoid but sadly too many churches be they charismatic or not emulate the church at Corinth.
Finally,
2 Tim 2:15-18
15 Study to shew thyself
approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed,
rightly dividing the word of truth.
16 But
shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
17 And their word will eat as doth a canker: of whom is Hymenaeus and Philetus;
18 Who
concerning the truth have erred, saying that the resurrection is past already; and overthrow the faith of some. KJV
Paul kicked these two lads to the curb over just one doctrine and that one we might call non-essential because it was about the end times not salvation yet it overthrew the faith of some. Note he says to rightly divide the Word which means that there is a wrongly dividing possible. There is only one right answer folks and we are commanded to find it and to point out error.
OK, I am leaving in a bit and won't be back for awhile so y'all have fun now, heah?