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Disagreeing With Other Christians

Chad

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Disagreeing With Other Christians

Christians disagree with one another on many issues. Now there are issues that are essential to Christianity -- who Jesus is, for example -- and if there is a difference in opinion there then we need to part ways. But there are many other issues that are nonessential -- was Jonah swallowed by a whale or a great fish, for example -- that we are free to debate.

How should Christians go about debating one another on nonessential issues? A great answer can be found in these words by Chuck Smith.

"It is not easy to maintain the unity of the Spirit among us on many matters. It seems that the sovereignty of God and human responsibility are like two parallel lines that do not seem to intersect within our finite minds. God's ways are "past finding out" (Romans 11:33), and the Bible warns us to "lean not unto thy own understanding" (Proverbs 3:5).

To say what God says in the Bible - no more and no less - is not always easy, comfortable, or completely understandable. But Scripture tells us that the wisdom from above will be loving and kind toward all, seeking the unity of the believers, not trying to find ways to divide and separate from one another. May God help us all to love each other, to be kind, tenderhearted, forgiving one another as Jesus Christ has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32)!

In difficult doctrinal matters, may we have gracious attitudes and humble hearts, desiring most of all to please Him who has called us to serve Him in the body of Christ. Discussion - YES! Disagreements - YES! Division - NO!

Jesus said, "By their fruit ye shall know them." When a particular position on the Scriptures causes one to become argumentative, legalistic, and divisive, I question the validity of that position. I seek to embrace those things that tend to make me more loving and kind, more forgiving and merciful. I know then that I am becoming more like my Lord.

If you have come to a strong personal conviction on one side of a doctrinal issue, please grant us the privilege of first seeing how it has helped you to become more Christ-like in your nature, and then we will judge whether we need to come to that same persuasion. Let us always be certain to look at the fruit of the teaching.

Seek those things that produce the loving nature of Jesus in our lives. I would rather have the wrong facts and a right attitude, than right facts and a wrong attitude. God can change my understanding of the facts in a moment, but it often takes a lifetime to effect changes of attitude."

Do you see what Chuck is saying? He's saying that none of us are perfect. None of us hold perfect doctrinal positions. But we have common ground in Christ and should treat each other with love and respect.

Christianity is about Christ and our doctrines should draw us closer to Him. The positions we hold, if they are correct, should make us more Christ-like. If they are that will be the greatest proof that our position is correct.

Disagreeing With Other Christians - BibleStudyPlanet.com
 
Amen Chad and this brings to mind the saying of thinking of others better than ourselves. I found out where it is too.

Romans 12.

3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. 4 Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his*faith. 7 If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; 8 if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.

Love

9 Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13 Share with God's people who are in need.

Rom.12.10
Have kindly affection one for another with brotherly love, in honor preferring one another;

That is the one I was looking for.
God bless :rose: :rainbow: :love:
 
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Thank you Chad and sister LadylovesJesus.

Sister, could you please recheck your post and add the Scripture reference for verse 3-8 and the second part about Love. You left out where it is in the Bible.

God bless you
Much love
teraside
 
We must understand that spiritually we all differ, some are spiritual babies some are toddlers some teenagers and some adults. And it can also happen that some can be 60 years old and be a spiritual baby or teenager and some can be 25 years old and already moving towards spiritual adulthood. The problem is, as we grow spiritually the truth also grows. Just imagine a 60 year old toddler debating with a 30 year old teenager, and there can be much more combinations. All the combinations are alway members of one group or congregation, Just a question, are pastors and preachers always spiritually mature? Keep this in mind Eph 4:2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
Be blessed
Niel.
 
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Thank you brother I just forgot to add romans 12 at the beginning of it. They are all in romans 12 . 3-13 as shown

God bless you dear brother :love: :rainbow: :rose:
 
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