ex wife write

[amanda123]

when I married my husbands ex wife warned me that he was lazy and didnt do anthying apart form for himself.

I didnt take any notice and thought she was wrong

But now im worried she was right

He lays in bed till very late every day
|Then spends all day on the computer doing what he says is important stuff
He nevre takes the children out (he only ever has once)
He never gets them up
I never have any time off
I do all the cooking and all the housework.
If I want to go out ie to an appointment I have to take all the children with me.

I love been a mum but Im so tired . I have no familuy and no other form of support. Church cant help as they are all busy and old

he says I should be joyful but I am exuasted

His ex wife said all these things.

What can I do

I feel so let down. I

 

[faithfulservant]

Go to Jesus. Trust Him, He can change hearts and work supernaturally if you trust Him. You need to give it to Him and follow His lead. He may put it on your heart to simply continue on and wait on Him to put a fire under your husband to be a more godly husband. Or, He may give you the right words to speak at just the right moment and He will melt your husbands heart and show him he needs to contribute to the household.

Tell the Lord you don't know what to do, but you trust that He knows exactly what to do. Then, be willing to wait on Him. Ask Him to work it through you, if need be, but that the burden is wearing you out. Ask for mercy, pour out your heart and trust that He will move mountains to handle this situation.