@Trusting
Greetings,
How are you doing now?
Would you like to discuss this some more or have a bit more food for thought and preferably Scripture to help you in what you are seeking?
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this came to mind as i posted ....
a quick note i will add, is that we do need to remember who we serve and who we give allegiance to, who dictates our peace or lack of it.
Looking to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith as both Lord and King and if and when emotions are running hot or cold or even lukewarm, grab hold of the situation and decide to let the peace of God rule in your heart.
The idea of 'let' is much as a royal or dignitary, a King or Queen, might pass on their 'will' about any certain matter.
As Children of the Most High God, we have the 'royalty' and we can and ought to go about our days with the same definite knowing of a King or Queen (or prince or princess, etc)
So, back to. let the peace of God rule in your heart and mind.... it translates sort of as, you making it as a decree and as it turns out, you are following that decree!
How it all pans out is that you remind yourself (with the Help of the LORD) that the things or person or situation that is leaving you emotional are not God the LORD and while you can still love them, you choose to put God first and you want to have His peace AND He wants you to have it and when push come to shove, only the Lord can really give us peace, especially the peace that we really need... so, we do well to let the peace of God rule.
Why exalt any other thing or person or situation above the Lord Jesus Christ?
Loving God first does not mean 'not loving' anyone else but we are able to relate and interact better when we remember to go about loving the LORD first and having His peace in His love, to love with.
Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive any complaint you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, for to this you were called as members of one body. And be thankful.
Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.
Colossians 3:12-17
Bless you ....><>