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Forgiving Ourselves

ladylovesJesus

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Today God is First by O S Hillman

Forgiving Ourselves
1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.


The apostle Peter was one of three disciples who walked with Jesus closer than the other nine. He was the most enthusiastic and the one man who was willing to step into territories where others would not dare. He was the first to step out of the boat and walk on water. He wanted to protect Jesus at times when Jesus rebuked him for having a demon influence him. He cut off the ear of the guard who wanted to arrest Jesus in the garden. As Peter matured, the Holy Spirit harnessed his many extreme emotions.

The greatest trial for Peter was when he denied the Lord just before Jesus was crucified. Three times he denied knowing Jesus. Jesus predicted that the rooster would crow after the third time just to reinforce the prophecy to Peter. Peter was crushed when he realized he had failed His Lord so badly. Matt.26.34

The Lord forgave Peter for his denial. However, gaining forgiveness from Jesus was not the most difficult part for Peter. The hard part was forgiving himself. As we mature in the faith, we begin moving in victory after victory with our Lord. Then out of nowhere, an event happens that reveals our true sin nature, and we are confronted face to face with this reality. We cannot believe that we are capable of such sin. There is no good thing in us save the grace of Jesus Christ and His blood that cleanses us. When God looks at us, He looks at the blood of Christ that has covered our sin. He does not look at our sin once we confess it.

When we have difficulty forgiving ourselves, this is pride at its deepest level. We are making an assumption that we should never have sinned and that we are too mature to sin. This is a trap from the enemy of our souls. People who cannot forgive do not recognize from what they have been forgiven. That includes us.

 
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I think this is one extremely important subject matter in regards to spiritual growth with the Lord. Its probably one of the worst thing that hinders us, unforgivness towards ourselves. I think we all need to just drop it [being contrite] and realize GOD has already forgiven us. Why bother dreading our sins when He doesn't? This is not to say that some guilt is not actually a gift from the Holy Spirit to warn us for our sake, but we need to stop hating ourselves for our fleshful human nature.

Jesus loves us, we need to imitate Him and love ourselves too.
 
For real! This is great stuff. By not completing the forgiveness process by forgiving ourselves, we are slapping His offering of forgiveness in the face.

I have let go of many past mistakes in these last few weeks. I realize now that through my mistakes, God allowed me to learn and grow. He forgave me as soon as I confessed my sins, but I still held on, beating myself up over mistakes.

I know this sounds corny, but I have allowed God to make me better, when I could have stayed bitter. Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
 
Just a thought but if we are not forgiving ourselves we must be holding ourselves in bondage too.

By not completing the forgiveness process by forgiving ourselves, we are slapping His offering of forgiveness in the face.
Very good point too dreamer. Let us be like God and be quick to forgive others and ourselves too.

After all forgiveness is an act of our will and not a feeling. We have to make the choice to forgive. We choose to forgive as we would never be ready to forgive if we relied on feeling right in order to forgive.

It is a requirement from God to us in order to be forgiven by Him.

God bless :love: :rainbow: :rose:
 
Thank you for this thread. I didn't realise that if we didn't forgive ourselves it was pride. I have been struggling to forgive myself for so many things.
 
I know we have to forgive ourselves as I had ministry and counselling years ago and was told that I had to forgive myself after I forgave others including those who were no longer here to tell that I forgave them. I still had to do it and set myself free.

I am so glad that is is an act of our will we choose to do it. We are never able to do this by how we feel.

God bless :love: :rainbow: :rose:
 
I rejoice greatly that I was able to forgive my parents while they were still alive.

When I forgave my grandmother (within days of forgiving my parents) she had already passed away years before. It still didn't make it any easier, even though she was gone. And even though I felt sure that she was already suffering in that other place that is not heaven.

Forgiveness truly sets you free. I know. How do I know? Number One, the bible tells us so in Ephesians Chapter 4. Read it:love:

Secondly, I experienced Christ's freedom directly and quickly when I forgave some key people from my past.

Christ can do in one second what a counselor can never do if the counselor spent 10 years with you.

I'm not knocking counseling; it's good and necessary and helpful. But there's POWER in forgiveness.
 
Wow, just few hours ago I was remembering mistakes I've done, years ago, and regretting them very badly, especially when someone came and reminded me of them, made me believe that a real good person would never dare to do what I did, leaving me feel unworthy of anything, that I will never deserve to receive any of my hopes or dreams, but be sentenced to a life time of grieve and despair.

I must pray on that, better than hating myself everyday, God accepted me as I am, I must learn to accept myself too.
 
Praise the Lord.. We're learning forgiveness even to our own levels..
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To God be the glory!!!


Wow, just few hours ago I was remembering mistakes I've done, years ago, and regretting them very badly, especially when someone came and reminded me of them, made me believe that a real good person would never dare to do what I did, leaving me feel unworthy of anything, that I will never deserve to receive any of my hopes or dreams, but be sentenced to a life time of grieve and despair.

I must pray on that, better than hating myself everyday, God accepted me as I am, I must learn to accept myself too.
 
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