i m very much frustrated in my married life and unable to change the situation. i want to love and be loved and satisfied with my spouse but she do not feel it at all, even she does not feel my need and my desires , her duties towards me . I want to and do serve Lord. I feel the danger of fall toward other women. I try my best.
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You might be tired of this question, but have you and your wife tried counseling with a pastor a Christian counselor? Does your wife know how badly you feel? And have you been praying about this and praying for your wife?
"Father, I ask you to intervene in this situation, and in your grace I ask You to heal these two precious people and heal their marriage. Precious are they to You, Father. In Jesus name, Amen."
"Father, I ask you to intervene in this situation, and in your grace I ask You to heal these two precious people and heal their marriage. Precious are they to You, Father. In Jesus name, Amen."
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A woman married to another woman is not the best way to serve the Lord to begin with. God promotes marriage between a man and a woman.
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You cannot serve both God and self - you have to choose. There is no other way.
A woman married to a woman cannot also 'serve' the Lord,
Why not?
Because the LORD said He does not want women to marry women.
If He is truly our Master, then "because HE said so" should be all the answer we need to cause us to do what He said.
If we refuse to obey what HE has said, then we clearly do not want Him to be our Master.
Then the real question we have to ask ourselves is;
Do I only care about what I want, or what the LORD wants?
This is pure simple logic even a child being told he must choose a toy can understand, but we complicate the simple command because we don`t like being told we can`t have everything we want.
Jesus Christ asks' "Why do you call me your LORD (Master), if you will not do what I say?"
Beyond that, any one desiring to 'serve God' must understand they 'serve the Lord' by serving those around them, beginning with those we say we love. A Man or a Women who will not set aside their own needs, wants and desires for the sake of the relationship, or the person(s) they say they "love", simply do not understand what it means to LOVE....
God is a good Master, He will always be there to help those who will listen to Him, and are willing to do what He says...will you?
A woman married to a woman cannot also 'serve' the Lord,
Why not?
Because the LORD said He does not want women to marry women.
If He is truly our Master, then "because HE said so" should be all the answer we need to cause us to do what He said.
If we refuse to obey what HE has said, then we clearly do not want Him to be our Master.
Then the real question we have to ask ourselves is;
Do I only care about what I want, or what the LORD wants?
This is pure simple logic even a child being told he must choose a toy can understand, but we complicate the simple command because we don`t like being told we can`t have everything we want.
Jesus Christ asks' "Why do you call me your LORD (Master), if you will not do what I say?"
Beyond that, any one desiring to 'serve God' must understand they 'serve the Lord' by serving those around them, beginning with those we say we love. A Man or a Women who will not set aside their own needs, wants and desires for the sake of the relationship, or the person(s) they say they "love", simply do not understand what it means to LOVE....
God is a good Master, He will always be there to help those who will listen to Him, and are willing to do what He says...will you?
SpiritLedEd
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I've learned that in close relationships one has to stop thinking of duties and start thinking in terms of intimate partnership in which you work together to build a loving relationship.
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