help needed

[iLoVeJESUS C.]

Not sure where to post this

Hello,

I need some really serious help for my boyfriend. He believes in God but he is a very angry person, mainly because of his dad, and things that happen to him, like he has bad luck. He knows life is unfair but he thinks life is 10x's unfair to him. I pray so hard ALL the time that Jesus will finally take over his heart and make him see the true way to live. I'm afraid if this doesn't happen soon , this could end our relationship because of the way he acts. I have SO much faith and I hate thinking that it could end, because I don't and I can't give up on him. I heard that Love conquers all, and God is love. PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME! I know he can change.

 

[Cody]

First your boyfriend must realize that he struggles with anger. Then he will need to pray about it, he himself cannot tackle this issue but with God all things are possible.

"He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." - Proverbs 28:13

When he has angry thoughts he needs to stop right there and pray to God to strengthen him. He needs to think if what he is saying will hurt others.

A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards." -Proverbs 29:11

Keep on praying for him that is the wise things to do, also tell him to pray for hiself because he will only change if he wishes to do so. Also get him to talk to you about his problems, he needs to get these off his chest rather than keeping them in, it seems this is where he gets his anger from. I will pray for your boyfriend and you and I hope something I said may of helped.

God Bless

 

[Br. Bear]

Blessings upon your life...

Dear Sister,

this world dishes out some serious stuff and while we see others getting tied up by pain and anger, we can forget to allow for the experience that the other person/people have had. I often listen to the troubles that people have and it can make me cry when I realise how much pain they have had inflicted on them.

As for feeling our troubles are 10x that of others, that is quite normal. I have had days when I have convinced myself of more like 100x! I thank God that He always shows me just how small and passing my problems are. And this I recommend to you and your boyfriend...

take a little time to see the immense pain that so many
people must suffer in this world...begin to feel for the children
who have wittnessed the atrocities of war and rage
and have lost their families and are left defenceless.

I realise that your youthful age is tender, but this world doesn't care about that, and , the pain that is in the world can inspire in us a level of love that is like that of our Fathers heartbeat as He sees what is happening in His Creation. Please ask your boyfriend to consider others who know much more trouble, and to see that his mountain can be reduced to a mole-hill. Our life is short here, and we must move on. Anger is never, and I repeat, NEVER positive. Help him to see the wonderful things that God has planned for his life, and to seek the blessings that are his, for God knows the plans that He has for you and your boyfriend, and I know that if he will seek the Lord every time he is angered, he will find the Prince of Peace, and if he should just let it be so, that peace WILL rule in his heart and mind.

You have my prayers behind you, dear sister, and so does your boyfriend,

in Jesus name, amen.

Bless you,

Br. Bear.