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Holiness, Standards and Sin

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Holiness, Standards and Sin

Considering the Motive Behind the Act

by Jason Young



A number of Christian groups teach what they call “standards.” Standards, they say, are practical applications of the biblical principles of holiness, modesty and separation from worldliness. Standards relating to clothing and entertainment are the most common. Holiness, modesty and separation from worldliness are required by the Bible and they are topics perhaps more relevant today than ever before in Christian history. However, the standards typically found among churches that emphasize them, while undoubtedly well-intentioned, often cross over into legalism and promote works-based thinking in part because of a failure to fully recognize and consider a key element of sin.

When Jesus came teaching a message of grace and faith, He introduced a new way of understanding sin. Jesus taught that sin lies as much in ones intent as it does in the act itself. Jesus taught that one who harbors unjust anger in his heart for his fellow man is guilty of murder.(1) He taught that one who lusts in his heart has committed adultery.(2) No doubt this new understanding made those that relied upon their good works for justification before God quite uncomfortable.



It is human nature to look more to our actions than our thoughts when it comes to sin. This human reasoning suggests that what we do is what counts and that our motives and intent are secondary. Such thinking is a form of legalism in that it stresses the letter of the law while missing the spirit of the law. Certainly our actions count, but considering actions while ignoring or minimizing the true motivations behind them is a mistake. Sin is first conceived in the heart (3) and every sinful action is backed by sinful intent.

Two persons can commit the identical act and one stands guiltless before God while the other stands guilty. Consider the sixth commandment, Thou Shalt Not Kill. Killing innocent life, killing for selfish reasons or killing out of hate is, without question, a sin and in violation of this commandment. However, Paul writes that God has given the power of the sword to the government, (4) allowing war and execution under just circumstances. To say that all killing is wrong is therefore legalistic, because it is permissible in some circumstances. The difference between justified killing and killing that violates the sixth commandment lies in intent and motive.

This brings us to one of the fatal flaws of standards -- they do not fully account for the motives and intentions behind the actions they label as sin. The relationship between actions and motives is crucial to determining what constitutes sin and what does not. To illustrate, let's consider a few examples of some of the more flawed standards. The following teachings are commonly found in some smaller Baptists groups, some Pentecostal groups such as the the Church of God-Pentecostal and the United Pentecostal Church, and other groups that emphasize holiness.




Makeup
A number of holiness churches over the years have taught that it is a sin for women to wear makeup. The idea that it is a sin for women to wear makeup comes from the belief that the only -- or at least the primary -- purpose for makeup is to entice men. They point to the passage in the Bible where Jezebel applies makeup to her face (5) and assert that her putting makeup on was a wicked attempt to seduce her coming captors. The same scripture says that Jezebel fixed her hair (KJV says “tired”), but curiously, they do not draw the same conclusions about hair styling. They also note that long ago, makeup was worn only by prostitutes and other “loose” women. Some also go on to suggest that Christian women shouldn’t attempt to change the way God naturally made their faces and that any attempt to do so is vanity.

This is a telling example of looking at the action while ignoring or minimizing the real intent and motive behind it. Undoubtedly, some women that wear makeup are doing so for the purposes of inciting lust in the opposite sex, but to say that all women wear makeup for that purpose is simply not true. Happily married 80-year-old grandmothers do not put on makeup for the purpose of inciting lust in the hearts of other men. If the attempt to beautify oneself with makeup amounts to vanity and/or the desire to entice the opposite sex, then styling one’s hair (just as Jezebel did), brushing one’s teeth and bathing would all be sinful as well, not to mention the fact that these things alter one’s “natural” appearance.

Simply put, wearing makeup (an action) is done for several reasons (intentions and motives), some of which are sinful, such as the desire to incite lust and sexual desire, but most are not. Perhaps the most common motive for wearing makeup comes from the desire to be clean, seemly, and presentable, which are the very reasons we comb our hair, bathe, brush our teeth and press our clothes.




Pants
Holiness groups also frequently teach that it is a sin for women to wear pants. They teach that it is a sin for women to wear pants based on the belief that the Bible forbids it in Deuteronomy 22:5 (refuted here) and because, they say, women want to wear pants to be more like men. They attempt to back up this tenuous argument by pointing out that the adoption of pants by women in modern American society correlates with the sharp rise of women who began working outside the home beginning in World War II. While there may be some women who wear pants out of a desire to be more like a man, which would violate the biblical concept of separation of the sexes, by no means do all or even most women wear pants for this reason. Their motive or intent is not to emulate men. Most women wear pants simply because they are more functional and comfortable. Because skirts and dresses restrict movement, do a poor job of keeping the legs warm in the winter, and are immodest for many activities, most women find that pants are simply more comfortable and practical.

The scriptures teach that behind every sin is an impure intent or motive. If a woman puts on pants out of a desire to be a man, then a sinful intent exists. But if a woman puts on pants to be more comfortable as she works in her garden or to keep warmer in the winter, where is the sinful intent?


Jewelry
Many holiness churches teach that I Peter 3:3 and I Timothy 2:9 forbid they use of jewelry. They argue that Paul forbids jewelry in these passages and that he does so because jewelry is just another way to be vain and flaunt wealth. These passages do not teach this however (see article), so the argument is baseless. Nevertheless, it is worthwhile to consider the argument that those who wear jewelry are doing so out of vanity and/or a desire to flaunt their wealth.


Just as some women wear makeup and pants with sinful intentions, there are those who wear jewelry with sinful intentions. Indeed, many wear jewelry to vainly advertise and flaunt their wealth. But, for millennia, jewelry has served many good purposes. Today, wedding bands speak of one’s commitment to the biblical institution of marriage. Class rings display loyalty to a school and demonstrate that one has achieved a noble and worthwhile goal. Christian bracelets, necklaces and earrings serve as a public testimony for some and often serve as conversation starters that give Christians the opportunity to share their faith. Jesus Himself positively describes the use of a ring in the parable of the prodigal son (6) and the Bible is full of examples where jewelry is described as godly.



Teaching that jewelry is wrong on the basis that it is nothing more than a means to vainly flaunt one’s wealth ignores the many non-sinful intentions and motives people have for wearing it. If every motive behind wearing jewelry were evil, surely Jesus would not have used it in a parable, nor would there be numerous positive references to it in the Bible.



The two elements of sin – action and intent – must be fully understood before one can label certain behaviors as sinful, and this is where standards get it wrong. Standards focus on the action without fully considering many of the true intentions and motives behind the action. One cannot say that wearing jewelry is a sin, or that women who wear makeup or pants are committing a sin, without first knowing their intent. If a woman wears makeup to entice men, she is in sin. If a woman wears makeup to appear more clean and presentable, where is her sin? If a woman wears pants to be more “manly,” she is in sin. If a woman wears pants to keep warm or to be more comfortable while working in her garden, where is the sin? If a man wears jewelry as a display of his wealth, he is in sin. If he wears jewelry as a display of his faith, where is his sin?

Holiness, Standards and Sin
 
Christ is my righteousness and only as I walk in the Spirit will I not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. It is only He that leads my and guides me into the perfect center of His will and in so doing I am always pleasing to His heart. The rest is flesh no matter how you paint it.
 
Considering the "Holiness" standard of religions, do nothing to address the issues of the heart, nor can they create a 'change of heart' in a man or woman, no matter how long they have adhered to them, and most importantly, they dont look nothing like, nor can even come close to the Words standard of Holiness, they can serve only one purpose, to create an illusion when we look in the mirror. (yes the mirror, because trust me, the world is not so fooled by our appearances as we are) Look at Luke chapter 16 for a lesson on wasting Gods true assets.

Jesus said, "You try to justify yourselves in front of people, but God knows your hearts. For what is highly valued by people is detestable to God."

If Holiness is the "standard", then the opposite to that must be what is unholy, or to be precise, what is carnal [of the flesh] to God.
God defines the carnal nature as a heart condition, and one that pertains solely to the lusts (plural) of the carnal flesh. Religious men have managed to pervert Gods definition, to make Holiness something that can be determined by appearance. Israel must have been the most immoral and unholy of Gods people according to this 'standard', for God Himself adorned them with Jewels, as the New Jerusalem coming down out of Heaven will be. If appearances should mean I am pure, I need more jewels not less of them :(

Mans theology teaches 'you are a sheep when you look like a sheep' and thus they clone themselves, and quite effectively pull the wool even over their own eyes. I personally know a lot of the 'Saints' who preach the 'Holiness standard' as clearly defined in the article above, and make it evident in the way they conduct their lives that they have no knowledge at all of what Gods standard is. Should I doubt a pig is any less a pig if you wash the mud off his face and clean him up on the outside. Shall we say that particular pig probably does`nt do what pigs naturally do, nor should his destiny be to roast on a spit because he looks so good in the pink? Hogwash!

That which is born of the flesh is flesh - only that which is born of the Spirit, can please God.

Rom 8:7 That is why the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile toward God. For it refuses to submit to the authority of God's law because it is powerless to do so.
Rom 8:8 Indeed, those who are under the control of the flesh cannot please God.
Rom 8:9 You, however, are not of the flesh but under the control of the Spirit, since God's Spirit lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to him.


GNB 1Jn 2:15 Do not love the world or anything that belongs to the world. If you love the world, you do not love the Father.
1Jn 2:16 Everything that belongs to the world---what the sinful self desires, what people see and want, and everything in this world that people are so proud of---none of this comes from the Father; it all comes from the world.
 
Very good article with good points rizen1 Thanks for posting it. I use to attend a church that taught this stuff. Right down to haveing a beard, goatee, or mustache was a sin, or unacceptable for ministry.

Shame we try to please God so much with this foolishness, but actually end up grieving him instead. This also makes people very judgmental in the process, so I'm glad God opened my eyes to this stuff.

All i can say is, if God makes a standard for holiness we will be the first ones to pervert it, if we go outside of scripture or miss interpret it. Don't get me wrong these folks have no idea most of the time what their doing, its not so much the saints who attend these places, but the leaders and their legalism, that leads them into the wrong teachings that weaken their conscience.


May i say like Christ who told the followers of the Jewish religion to do what they say, but don't do after their works. No offense here as well, because we all can become a little legalistic without sound doctrine. Holiness is very important, for without it no one will see the lord. But it must be according to scripture, other than that its a man made holiness, or the searing of the conscience.


God bless
 
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I grew up in a holiness church and it was awful. I had a gabby friend who'd tell me whole plots of the latest movies because we couldnt go or watch tv, or play sports or have modern haircuts or wear wedding rings or facial hair; women couldnt have splits in their skirts longer than 6 inches and on and on. And people rebelled...exuberantly! I hate sin, hate that my flesh is capable of it, hate that I sin but see nothing wrong with those things. I draw the line on certain things based on my own convictions. Some things I believe just are too much of an inroad for wickedness- watching television isnt one of them (although I watch very little because so much of it offends my spirit). If I believe one way I'll share that belief (ala my posts about smoking in an adjacent thread) but I'm always careful to point out that it's my understanding of scripture and desire to be pleasing to God and separate from the world that motivates it. My mother, a godly woman, always said to me "I'd rather not have done it and get to heaven and have overdone it than to die and be found wanting. I try to temper my approach to people with love (a teenage girl who gets pregnant out of wedlock has sinned, sure but she isnt a *****- like some churches would characterize her- and is certainly in need of compassion and help).A man who's struggling with a stronghold in his life needs intercessory prayer and encouragement, not to be beaten over the head with my views. The bottom line is that I dont have a hell to put anyone in or a heaven to keep them out of. Too many holiness churches have become caricatures of Christianity at the expense of substance or depth. I go to a church that preaches holiness, absolute holiness- but the pastors go to movies :shock: wear jewelry :shock: watch tv :shock:, go on cruises, enjoy life and a host of other things. And you know what? I think theyre alright.
 
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