I been in love with a married man for 6 years now, we never dated or mess around, 6 years ago I develop deep feelings for this person by spending time with him its not about looks because he isnt handsome but not ugly probably to some because of his age. I pray to god to take away these feelings, I barely see him probably once a year now. Its causing me to have stress anxiety and depression. I really want to be with him, he probably doesn't share the same feelings. I been falling in love with boys since I was a child usually it fades away quick but now it wont go away. Please pray that these feelings will fade away. I know I would feel happier if I didn't love him anymore
How do you stop loving someone?
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26 is hardly a child :O
Ok you scared me a little
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Never regret loving someone. It is a gift to us, to be able to love and be loved. The two dont have be jointed, Loving someone, even if they dont love you back helps you learn about the most beautiful thing. Dont make it ugly, by saying that if they dont love back, its any lesser.
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There's a lot of cherry picking Bible verses. Lots of posturing and cowardice in the disguise of following God. It's nonsense. It means more studying your Bible is required.
I was walking my date back to the car when a random shady man came out of nowhere and puller his pants down attempting to be rapey. He was neutralized without hesitation and he fled for his life. This wasn't my gf, wife nor mother of my child. In a instant, I would have buried him without a a second glance if the need should arise. Thank God it did not. Being a Christian man doesn't mean low libido or coward. The Bible accounts many stories about what took place.
Leave space for somebody to enter but that's it. It doesn't matter if I am at a bar, club, party or church. If I see a beautiful woman, I will approach. No hesitation. She is either interested or not. Life goes on. I don't care about what people say about love or nonsense of the sort. I want feminine (not feminist), cooperative, virtuous. All I can say is my piece and make room for her. Any flakey, disinterest, excuses or weird behavior means next. Your youth doesn't comeback. I highly advise you to spend time with a man who wants you.
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Why would anyone want to love someone who doesn't love them back?
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Yes, why would God love those who dont love Him back? Are we made in the image of God?
I'm not god
About 5 yrs. ago I was in counseling with a male counselor and we had a lot in common and he was divorced from many years prior to that. Our personalities 'clicked' but he was very boundaried and he was a nice guy.. Will those feelings ever go away? probably not -- do I moan and groan about it? at times -- but I DO pray for him frequently -- just like I pray for my younger son who decided to disappear about a year ago.
There are some personalities that simply get into our system and won't leave. So -- we pray for them. Chances are that we Won't forget those heart-warming feelings -- part of what makes us human. And , sometimes -- we love but from a distance. Good friendship is something to be desired.
So -- do we stop loving someone? -- probably not. We Can be praying for them. Their spiritual / emotional needs. And we really don't know how many people do love someone 'from a distance'.
There are some personalities that simply get into our system and won't leave. So -- we pray for them. Chances are that we Won't forget those heart-warming feelings -- part of what makes us human. And , sometimes -- we love but from a distance. Good friendship is something to be desired.
So -- do we stop loving someone? -- probably not. We Can be praying for them. Their spiritual / emotional needs. And we really don't know how many people do love someone 'from a distance'.
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Is love selfish?
I gave up the girl I first loved, even as she was warming up to me, because I realized that she had her heart set on another.
Is love selfish?
Because I wasnt selfish, she and the man became married, and now are both christians.
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Loving someone who is not making the time a day.
I approach a girl at church and 5min later in the time it takes to get to the car, I am approaching again. Comply or bye.
Contrary to Oprah and girl power, fertility and youth doesn't come back.
Sorry my reading is bad,
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Have you seen the analytics on married life and happiness? How about Christian men and internet porn because their wife cut them off or got fat? Doesn't want kids is the play amongst women more my target demographic. The concept being, if you pretend fertility has no limits, everything's ok.
There's a attention seeking YouTuber. Was on the carousel. Running through. Realized she's getting older. Decides to get serious and think about kids conveniently after 30. Is infertile. Dies on a ebike on the way to the fertility clinic.
YouTuber Emily Hartridge was going to fertility clinic when she died in scooter crash
YouTuber, 35, was on her way to fertility clinic when she died in scooter crash
Grieving boyfriend Jake Hazell, 26, revealed Emily, 35, sent him a heartbreaking final message about kissing just hours before she diedwww.mirror.co.uk
This is girl power and operation evil at its finest.
Please, let's have more career women. More Netflix and chill. We don't have enough proud single moms. Can we get more women studies and liberal arts degrees. More lesbianism dance therapy majors.
2020 where being edgy is WANTING TO GET MARRIED AND BE A VIRTOUS GOOD WIFE. Wants to have kids AND ACTUALLY BE A GOOD MOTHER.
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