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How Important are Fathers?

stephen

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"And he shall go before him in the spirit and power of Elias, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just; to make ready a people prepared for the Lord" (Luke:1:17).

How important are fathers to their children? First of all, the role of father was given to us by God. But over the last several decades, some have tried to redefine or redesign the family in a way that makes fathers unimportant or unnecessary. Numerous studies have shown what happens when we do this.

Between 1960 and 1990 the percentage of children living apart from their fathers doubled to 36 per cent. Studies show that it is much worse for a child to lose their father through divorce than through death. Fatherlessness has been shown to be a contributing factor to early sexual activity. Teen suicides, shown to increase in fatherless families, have tripled since 1960.

Scholastic Assessment test scores have dropped 75 points since 1960; the drop is linked to the lack of fathers at home. Teenage boys raised without a father are more likely to get in trouble with the law. Children without their fathers are much more likely to suffer child abuse, according to several studies. One 26 year-long study found that the most important childhood factor in developing empathy is a father's involvement in the family.

Yet another study has found that 90 per cent of the children who go to church with mom and dad will remain active in church through their teens. If neither parent comes with them, only 40 per cent remain faithful. If only dad comes with them, 80 per cent remain faithful. We must admit that we cannot improve on God's design for the family.

How Important Are Fathers? | Creation Moments
 
Fathers are pretty important, mine wasn't around much... Fathers are there to help the Mothers raise the children..
 
Studies like this can be misleading, if they don't consider all the factors, such as..was there is any involvement from other family members such as grandparents, siblings, or aunts and uncles? at what ages the father was involved in the child's life, and how good the father was when he was around? Fathers are important, but not necessary, otherwise there would be many more broken people in the world than there already are, and God would ensure that a child's father is always around. There are many people who grow up perfectly fine without a father, and this largely depends upon how good the mother is, and whether or not there is any involvement from other family members such as grandparents, siblings, or aunts and uncles. Probably it also depends upon how good the father was when he was around and at what ages. There is also the child's care taking angel, who assists in raising the child.
 
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