People that constantly ask you to do stuff for them? I keep saying no, but that doesnt stop one person from asking, and I'm finding myself really annoyed still like she just wont leave it alone and she cant seem to do anything herself, she will always ask if she can use me. For example she will ask if she can do some mending at my place and its not even my sewing machine but mums. Then she will ask me if i would mend something for her. Or type something. She even asked my dad if he could fix her bracelet. I dont have the time to constnatly be asked all these favours and do them but she will worm her way by being friendly at first and then pull out a whole list of stuff for me to do for her that takes up all your time and energy. Nobody else I know does this to this extent. And she will pout if people dont, I have seen it she tends to put a guilt trip on people, by pretending to be helpless and stupid so people will take pity. Arrgh! How would you deal with this behaviour?! I have taken to avoiding her as much as possible and trying not to involve myself in any of her schemes to get me to do something for her that she can actually do herself. I wonder if this is christian of me to feel annoyed. Or not wanting to help someone all the time. She's not helpless but I suspect she likes to pretend she is and then you end up doing all this stuff for her. I dont do that to others..if I help someone its so they can learn to do something for themselves because I cant always be there, or there is a benefit to doing something for me as well. Anyway I am trying to sort this out whether to say NO or I can just teach her or tell her to get lessons. Actually someone else I know does this as well a friend who turns out wont drive not because she doesnt have a car - she can actually learn but cos shes too scared to. When these people turn demanding expecting a ride every time for some far away place Ive never been to, using me like a taxi I have to put my foot down.