I feel bad now...

[LordKnows]

I recently found out that our brother in Christ has had to leave the forum because of my avatar photo that I'm using. From what I know our friend & christian brother dh charles is married & his wife became livid after seeing my photo here (I can only assume that she felt insecure to some degree). I looked forward to his posts & replies & now I'm really going to miss him & I feel bad because had I used a different avatar he would still be around. I know how some woman are (after all I am one lol) and since she had been cheated on in her previous marriage & has trust issues he thought it would be best to bid his farewell to reinforce his loyalty to her. Family first AFTER God I always say & I do understand. I just wished it wasn't on my accord for his leaving.

I will pray for him & his wife & I really hope the Lord works in his wife to become more trusting. I ask that you all pray for his wife & him also.

Praise God!!! He IS running this show always!

 

[RJ]

Miss him for sure but, that is out of your control and not for you to worry over....BTW, my wife said, 'that is a pretty lady"...of course we have been married for 47 years .

 

[LordKnows]

Thank you RJ, I just feel bad because had I chosen a different avatar he would still be here but you're right. It's not for me to worry about & it is out of my control.

47 years!!! THAT IS AWESOME!!! I was negative 4 years old when you were getting married lol. ALL GLORY TO GOD my brother!!!! Tell your wife I say thank you for the compliment.

 

[Brad Huber]

Your avatar does have that look of "I am in the mood." We all like to have good photos that portray the better part of how we wish to see ourselves. Its up to you if you want to feel "convicted" But it was no doubt a greater problem with the guy's wife that really needs to be addressed, I am glad to pray for her.

 

[JohnP]

I kinda don't know what to say about this one. I had the thought at first too, that my wife might wonder who that attractive woman is, but then I would just tell her it's one of the members on the Christian site I belong to. You certainly shouldn't need to feel guilty because you are attractive. It's not like it is an R rated picture or something.

 

[Julie.S]

This is out of your control at the moment. Its best not to worry over it and cause anxiety.

 

[Ophel]

I recently found out that our brother in Christ has had to leave the forum because of my avatar photo that I'm using. From what I know our friend & christian brother dh charles is married & his wife became livid after seeing my photo here (I can only assume that she felt insecure to some degree). I looked forward to his posts & replies & now I'm really going to miss him & I feel bad because had I used a different avatar he would still be around. I know how some woman are (after all I am one lol) and since she had been cheated on in her previous marriage & has trust issues he thought it would be best to bid his farewell to reinforce his loyalty to her. Family first AFTER God I always say & I do understand. I just wished it wasn't on my accord for his leaving.

I will pray for him & his wife & I really hope the Lord works in his wife to become more trusting. I ask that you all pray for his wife & him also.

Praise God!!! He IS running this show always!

You are not responsible for every wayward thought and action that people take. The whole situation has the mark of instability all over it.