I have a friend that wants to be my friend again..

[Stylez4Christ]

I have a friend and we stop being friends because she knew that I was being annoying by her allot by calling my house allot like battering me or would physically hit me in school which is embarrassing even when people think she my girlfriend because people be joking around but also because she did promise me that she would not do it again by battering me in that kind of stuff that she love to do to me because I am not a toy and I gave her allot of forgiveness but that dose not mean I don’t forgive her.



But it was not that case because she the one that was complaining where she dose not want to be friends no more but at first I did want to be her friend and did not want to stop this friendship because me and her was friends for 1 and a half years but now I'm like well since all that stuff that I got to go through is something that I don’t want to go through anymore because I get stress over her sometime and I don’t need that mess in my life time but since then we stop being friend I felt better without her but now she want to be my friend again and I am denying her for being my friend because I feel better now then I was being a friend with her. I heard that I'm hurting her feeling but I still don't want to be her friend no more.


I don’t know if it is of God because I realize I was better off without her but I have witness to her and I have correct her and really help and stuff and pray and I ask she want to accept Christ and I did a prayer over her and all that I can do but still she don’t care because I don’t need to waste my time because I all ready planted a seed in her. Man I don't need to waste my time over a worldly person but at the same time I have sin in some point because of her in some way because whatever hat spirit or some sort that Satan was using her to tempt me.

So what do you think about this situation because I am not trying to be mean to her because I just feel fresh and relief away from her because I do have a life because she can't just go to my case allot and is not right…

 

[ladylovesJesus]

Dear brother

You need to be guided by the Holy Spirit. You did what we are called to do and to sow the seeds for God to water and bring into His Kingdom. Like the Bible says do not be unequally yoked, so it is better not to have relationships with people who are not born again.

Be led by God and not by feelings too. Matt.6.33 Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you.

Choose your friends wisely.

God bless

LLJ :rainbow: :rose:

 

[Stylez4Christ]

Dear brother

You need to be guided by the Holy Spirit. You did what we are called to do and to sow the seeds for God to water and bring into His Kingdom. Like the Bible says do not be unequally yoked, so it is better not to have relationships with people who are not born again.

Be led by God and not by feelings too. Matt.6.33 Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you.

Choose your friends wisely.

God bless

LLJ :rainbow: :rose:

So your ssaying I have to be friend with her... :shock::embarasse:lightbulb

 

[Faithful Son]

That's not what sister LadlovesJesus is saying brother.

She is saying "do not" be unuequally yoked. Therefore, don't be friends with unbelievers.

It's plain and simple actually, if this girl isn't a believer in Jesus, then it's best not to be friends with her.

God bless

 

[ladylovesJesus]

Thank you brother teraside for posting this confirmation. That is exactly what I was saying.

Even sometimes when someone gives their heart to Jesus it may not be real as they do it so that the person will become their friend, but only God knows the heart.

God bless

LLJ :rainbow: :rose:

 

[calluna]

There are certain people in life that we just can't be around for too long, we get stressed, dragged down with all the drama of it all. It sounds like this girl was like this for you.

I think when we begin to distance ourselves from certain friendships it is a natural progression many born again Christians go through, and I personally believe we are being sensitive to the Holy Spirit. It is not the case of being mean, or not caring about that person. You say yourself you are less stressed, feel relief and peace, and she was just plain not good for you. So why go back into all that again?

You have obeyed God by sharing Christ with her, you have nothing to be sorry for or feel guilty about. We must do what is right for our spirit and relationship with Christ. I know if your friend was in dire straights and needed help in an emergency, you would be there for her or anyone else. It doesn't mean you have to hang out with her.

God Bless

Calluna

 

[Stylez4Christ]

Well I'm friend with her again because she was being very depress but if she mess up on me one more time I'll don't care she cry on me again because is enough for me then :embarasse

 

[calluna]

hmmmm...it's ok, I am smiling, you don't have to be embarrassed, you are a forgiving person, and deep down you really care for this young lady OR you are being seduced.

I encourage you to take caution and ask the Lord for guidance and wisdom. Pray before you know you are going to see her, and just be on guard my brother, be on guard.....that's all I can say.

Calluna

 

[Stylez4Christ]

Man I have this funny feeling right now. Just that I don't want to changes a subject but God gave me a vision that really blow me out a surprise because this most powerful service that I may ever had was like a strong fire service I mean is was not like any service that I have been but there was a prophetic word and I kinda was like woooooow because this apostle gave me a word and I had to be maybe a last person that had a prophetic word from him because I felt bad because I did not get a word until he gave me a word and he said there financial all over me that I would own a business or some sort a marketing and I have been told the same thing from this guy he a prophet and it was recent but he said I will do good in a industries and it all fall into to what I thinking and the man of God told me that God just gave me a vision and this vision was to help many women on there finance and I was like many women and he also said that I will have so many idea but there was so much that he told me that I can’t really remember everything that he said even I ask God led through to what the lord has given me because I pray about it when I got home because the church was so load that I try to remember it got me to wish that I had tape recorder lol and I don’t remember what this man said but he told me to get up and spin around 3 times that God would do something But I don’t remember what he said that God would do but I was spinning around in the alter like real fast like uncontrollable that I felt the holy spirit but man I don’t know but then I stop and got slain in the spirit like man that feeling was like woooow a anointing all over me because I realize that i was dancing in the spirit buecause I was dissy so it was different because that how I knew it was the holy ghost before i felt sleepy like weak juts don't want to do anything or like fate like I don't how to explain that feeling but that how I knew I was slain in a spirit without laying on hands.

I was moving a bit when I was on the floor because he said other things about my family would not think I would able to do what God gave me a vision but I believed I will do it and I will follow that vision and be obedience to that prophetic word but the one part that I was blown out when he said something about that I be like going to a millionaire home but I don’t remember everything but I could tell you is a better vision then my own desire because I was expecting great things like that and he also that God going to give me women who so interest in the lord as me …

That was like a 7 hour service, the longest powerful service I ever when man you should of been there it would been a blessing!