:unlove: Last Tuesday, I went for a bike ride with my husband. I was standing up right, trying to get up some speed to get up the hill up a head? In the process my foot slipped of the peddle & I went for a fast & hard landing! I was ok, except I manage to skin my right knee & the left side of my upper face, {above my eye brow & under my bottom eye lid} And I mean skinned along with the big knot {bump} that went with it. I thought for sure I was heading for a serious concussion. But the Doctor said I will be fine, and I am. Except for the major black eye I received from it!
Well, here's where the trouble starts! I called my Dad yesterday, basically to say, Hi & to ask him how he was doing? I had mentioned to him that I had made a pumpkin pie! So, kidding he says "were's mine" I kidding said he would have to come on over to get it. 'Not thinking he would take me up on it' and he didn't say he was going to either. I had also mention the fact that I maybe coming down with the flue, also hoping that would also keep him away. And it's not a lie because I still feel that way.
Anyways, hours later the door bell rings. My husband wont let me go to the door, he doesn't want no-one to see my eye. At first he doesn't know who it is, and then he comes back & tells me he thinks it's my Dad. But still my husband wont let me let him in & he wont let him in neither! So, my poor Dad, is out side ringing the door bell not understanding why we wont let him in. Finally he goes across the street to a bar, where he can use the phone. My Dad calls me, asking why we wont let him in. He's asking me why I wont let him in & why was the light shut off when he already seen them on. {My husband had turned them off}
Then the very next day my Dad called again - demanding again, why I would not let him in. My husband still would not let me talk with my Dad to explain why. My husband did not want him to see my black eye. He does not trust my Dad to believe the truth & is afraid he will spread lies.
I try explaining to my husband that hiding the truth will only make it look more like a lie!
But he doesn't care, he says. My Dad made him angry when my Dad used the 4 letter {F} word. Saying my Dad was showing me disrespect - but nonetheless - the way I look at it we were disrespecting my Dad first! But my husband says that I have to do as he says - because he is my husband & head of this house hold! Please, help I am feeling so bad about this & I am worried about my Dad's feelings as I also care about my husbands feelings! REMEMBER! This would not had happened if I hadn't {by mistake} asked my Dad over!
Well, here's where the trouble starts! I called my Dad yesterday, basically to say, Hi & to ask him how he was doing? I had mentioned to him that I had made a pumpkin pie! So, kidding he says "were's mine" I kidding said he would have to come on over to get it. 'Not thinking he would take me up on it' and he didn't say he was going to either. I had also mention the fact that I maybe coming down with the flue, also hoping that would also keep him away. And it's not a lie because I still feel that way.
Anyways, hours later the door bell rings. My husband wont let me go to the door, he doesn't want no-one to see my eye. At first he doesn't know who it is, and then he comes back & tells me he thinks it's my Dad. But still my husband wont let me let him in & he wont let him in neither! So, my poor Dad, is out side ringing the door bell not understanding why we wont let him in. Finally he goes across the street to a bar, where he can use the phone. My Dad calls me, asking why we wont let him in. He's asking me why I wont let him in & why was the light shut off when he already seen them on. {My husband had turned them off}
Then the very next day my Dad called again - demanding again, why I would not let him in. My husband still would not let me talk with my Dad to explain why. My husband did not want him to see my black eye. He does not trust my Dad to believe the truth & is afraid he will spread lies.
I try explaining to my husband that hiding the truth will only make it look more like a lie!
But he doesn't care, he says. My Dad made him angry when my Dad used the 4 letter {F} word. Saying my Dad was showing me disrespect - but nonetheless - the way I look at it we were disrespecting my Dad first! But my husband says that I have to do as he says - because he is my husband & head of this house hold! Please, help I am feeling so bad about this & I am worried about my Dad's feelings as I also care about my husbands feelings! REMEMBER! This would not had happened if I hadn't {by mistake} asked my Dad over!
Jonah: Jesus is the truth and he is there to help you reveal truth . . .im sorry . . .but your husband is not head-of-the-household here. . .more boss-of-the-household. . .think straight how scared and shocked your dad must be right now. . .thinkin 1000 of thoughts why you didnt open the door!
