last year, I lost my job due to lies by two employees. I worked for a Christian ran business. I had worked there for 8yrs. and had known my boss since 89'. The one employee got ahead in her job by lying about her dept mgr. to be with her friend. This other employee wanted to buy the business from my boss who wanted to retire.
I worked with another woman, and with her we were told by the person who wanted to buy the place of how she was going to run it. I didn't believe she would do this. This person presented herself as a very christian person. Very likeable and such. In reality she was learning our weak spots, like a wolf among the sheep.
She and her friend got really close, and I saw a pattern. I being of of good mind told the one, to limit her friendship if she was going to buy the business. It would cause a problem with the staff. She in turn with her friend needed to get rid of me in case I mention anything she had been telling me.
Then the lies began. By the time it was over I was left broken,loss of spirit and full of anger . My boss ,who I thought would hear me out ,didn't . I was not allowed to speak. He insulted my religion beliefs and called me a liar, when I tried to tell him the truth.
Those two people had wrapped this lie up so tight. I lost respect and self worth. I prayed all through this, I begged God to help the truth to come out. I was left broken. I would never have done the things they claimed I did. That is not in me to do it. I try not to judge people even if others are telling me things about people I didn't know.
I was judged , by what they said and not with my actions of 8yrs of working for my boss.
My co-worker even tried to tell him it wasn't true. To no avail.
I believe that God doesn't give you more than you can handle. This was beyond anything I can cope with. I believe lessons that come from learning from situations. I was left bitter and angry beyond able to think straight.
I had to quit to protect my sanity and well being. I still talk to God every day asking why? And I go over everything in my mind to figure out what I did. I know longer trust people and I have lost my friends over this in my ability not to "Get over it" .
I have tried to forgive and am not angry with God. But I can't get over it. I grieve for my loss. Where was God ? I pray someone can see thru this for me. And help me out of this trap I'm in. I need to move on. I need my spirit back ,my life, and my self respect. Thank you, and bless anyone that can help me seek the answers I look for. And hope you are able to read all this and understand it.......Amy
I worked with another woman, and with her we were told by the person who wanted to buy the place of how she was going to run it. I didn't believe she would do this. This person presented herself as a very christian person. Very likeable and such. In reality she was learning our weak spots, like a wolf among the sheep.
She and her friend got really close, and I saw a pattern. I being of of good mind told the one, to limit her friendship if she was going to buy the business. It would cause a problem with the staff. She in turn with her friend needed to get rid of me in case I mention anything she had been telling me.
Then the lies began. By the time it was over I was left broken,loss of spirit and full of anger . My boss ,who I thought would hear me out ,didn't . I was not allowed to speak. He insulted my religion beliefs and called me a liar, when I tried to tell him the truth.
Those two people had wrapped this lie up so tight. I lost respect and self worth. I prayed all through this, I begged God to help the truth to come out. I was left broken. I would never have done the things they claimed I did. That is not in me to do it. I try not to judge people even if others are telling me things about people I didn't know.
I was judged , by what they said and not with my actions of 8yrs of working for my boss.
My co-worker even tried to tell him it wasn't true. To no avail.
I believe that God doesn't give you more than you can handle. This was beyond anything I can cope with. I believe lessons that come from learning from situations. I was left bitter and angry beyond able to think straight.
I had to quit to protect my sanity and well being. I still talk to God every day asking why? And I go over everything in my mind to figure out what I did. I know longer trust people and I have lost my friends over this in my ability not to "Get over it" .
I have tried to forgive and am not angry with God. But I can't get over it. I grieve for my loss. Where was God ? I pray someone can see thru this for me. And help me out of this trap I'm in. I need to move on. I need my spirit back ,my life, and my self respect. Thank you, and bless anyone that can help me seek the answers I look for. And hope you are able to read all this and understand it.......Amy
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