I want my ex wife back

[raftman]

Hi all I am new on this site. My ex wife as of two wk ago we were only married one yr. She has a 2 yr restraining order on me. To be perfectly honest with you she lied to get it. She divorce me after I said I was not going to divorce her because God hates divorce. I still Love her very much. I think she has just gone on with her life. I pray everynight that God would hear my prayer. Is it possible that if I write God a letter about wanting her back that he would hear and answer my prayer. Our Christian counselor that we were seeing told me do not go back with her she will drag me down. Well and so does everybody else that knows her. I believe that God is able to do anything. I know my heart and God does to. He made me. Or would it be wise just to write her. All I know say don't do that she will have me arrested. But I ask myself if I don't write her where is my faith that God will be with me. I need some wisdom here. That is what I am asking for. Thank you all for any help. [email protected] One question where do I go to on this site to see an answer.
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[raftman]

Hi all I am new and have a question and need some wisdom on what to do. Thank you all

 

[raftman]

Hi all I am new at this site and need some wisdom. Thank you

 

[Barny]

I want my ex-wife back

Hi raftman,
I'm new here too and have been through similar to what you are experiencing.
My previous ex-wife told lies to try to charge me with domestic violence. God gave me justice as the judge realised she was lying and had ulterior motives for her false allegations.

My latest ex-wife was abusive. She even wanted to study to become a marriage counsellor. We sought help from a church based marriage counsellor service. Strangely she entered into adultery with our marriage counsellor who, instead of trying to save our marriage, was undermining it to end it because he was attracted to her. He lost his job as a result of his unethical behaviour.

I learned in life that God is the best and only counsellor for Christians (Isaiah9:6). If you can, avoid counsellors they have a reputation of being destructive as I also found out the hard way.

Pick up the Bible and seek God's counsel. It's the best there is. Psalm's is a good place to start.

And remember Ephesians 6:10-18 "....be srtong in the Lord, and the power of His might. Put on the whole armour of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, powers, rulers of darkness of this world.....

Trust in God

 

[SpiritLedEd]

Our Christian counselor that we were seeing told me do not go back with her she will drag me down. Well and so does everybody else that knows her. I believe that God is able to do anything. I know my heart and God does to.

Her heart is involved also. Yes, God is able to do anything, but, He chooses to not interfere in our exercise of free will. For you two to be reconciled, her heart must be softened and, if that's to happen, it may take a while.

I have a similar situation with my daughter, who has separated herself completely from her mother and I. In our case, I admit that my alcoholic behavior when she was growing up is a huge part of the problem. But, I can only pray that her stance toward her mom and me softens. Meanwhile, I go on with my life and plug into God every day for He is the source of my strength.

Spirit Led Ed (SLE)

 

[Mendy]

I know the pain you are going through my brother. Just trust in the Lord and ask Him to do His Will in your life. He says in His Word, "For I know the plans that I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you." You are still clay in the Potter's Hands and He ain't done with you as yet. Keep praying and never lose faith. You will be happy and believe that.