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I'm so upset , please help

for christ

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hi guys
I need some help.
I have spilt up with my bf
and I finding it hard to cope , I really want him back , I keep my faith and trust in jesus as , I know he can heal are broken relationship , I really want to make up with him and not break up with him . I can't stop feeling so depressed , and heartbroken , as I said , I want him back cos I care so much about him
 
When I was a young man I was in love with someone who broke my heart. I thought I would die but I did not. Later I met my wife of now 30 plus years. I could not see it then but in reality that breakup was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
I am praying God's perfect will be done in your life and if this is the person He has for you then I pray restoration; if not I pray healing and strength would be yours.
Your brother in Christ,
Larry.
 
When I was a young man I was in love with someone who broke my heart. I thought I would die but I did not. Later I met my wife of now 30 plus years. I could not see it then but in reality that breakup was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
I am praying God's perfect will be done in your life and if this is the person He has for you then I pray restoration; if not I pray healing and strength would be yours.
Your brother in Christ,
Larry.

thanks for praying for me

but you don't understand , I really care about him , and I don't want to be with out him , if I can't have him , I can't live , ok you may think there's more to life then having a bf , but he is a rare gem to me and I don't want to be with out him , I keep on and on praying to jesus about this as he the only one who can put us back togther
 
Well I'll pray 4 u ;)

But detail the problem if u can ,feel free we're all here Jesus sons

tell us the problem that happened made u broke up =/
 
If you ever feel upset it always help to pray for God's peace and as a Christian I feel very sorry to you. Let us pray for God's peace. I hope my prayers make you feel beter very soon.
 
If this is God's will, it will happen. If not, you will have to move on. Is God first here...in your life? A guy can NOT make you happy...only God can do that. I am sure the break up hurts, but it isn't the end of the world?

can I ask how old you are? That always helps me to know what to say in these kinds of situations. thanks.

God loves you and has a plan. Don't lose hope in Him!
 
thanks for praying for me

but you don't understand , I really care about him , and I don't want to be with out him , if I can't have him , I can't live , ok you may think there's more to life then having a bf , but he is a rare gem to me and I don't want to be with out him , I keep on and on praying to jesus about this as he the only one who can put us back togther

I understand more than you think. I am praying God's perfect will be done in your life and I hope this works out well my little sister.
Many blessings and much love in Jesus wonderful Name,
your brother Larry.
 
I understand more than you think. I am praying God's perfect will be done in your life and I hope this works out well my little sister.
Many blessings and much love in Jesus wonderful Name,
your brother Larry.

thanks larry , and thanks so much for praying for me :)
 
Smile ! It makes a difference

I've got a daughter that around a year older than you, Samantha. She's my beautiful one. And it would hurt to see her hurting the way it seems you are. But you said that you split up with him. It seemed as it read you did it. Well if you made a mistake and this guy really loves you, he'll be back. But if its him that did it, then you stand your ground. Remember your a child of the MOST HIGH, He loves His children and if this is in His will for you two to be together, well that's what it will be. Neither of you will have a choice in it. But understand that it seems not to fun these days going through what your going through, but it will get better. Your young and the Lord has many adventures instore for you. He's going to take you places you've never been, he'll open your eyes so that you'll see His loving kindness and your mind will be set upon all His majisty and wonders. Life is good to serve the True and LIVING GOD!here are some verses on love. Think JESUS and everything else will fall into place.
LOVE

* Love God is the most important command: MARK 12:29-30

* Christians must love each other: JOHN 13:34

* We can not be seperated from Jesus: ROMANS 8:35-39.

* Love must be genuine: ROMANS 12:9

* God's love for us is beyond our understanding: EPHESIANS 3:18.

* Love helps you look past offenses: 1 PETER 4:8.

* GOD IS LOVE: 1 JOHN 4:16.

* We must know for our love: 2 JOHN 1:5.

I hope this will help you. Look to JESUS, there you'll see. Rememberhe said, " I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH,AND LIFE. Promise to smile and drop a line. Me and the wife will keep you in our prayers. May God bless you. YORT (TROY):shade::shade
 
I've got a daughter that around a year older than you, Samantha. She's my beautiful one. And it would hurt to see her hurting the way it seems you are. But you said that you split up with him. It seemed as it read you did it. Well [HIGH-LIGHT]if you made a mistake and this guy really loves you, he'll be back. But if its him that did it, [/HIGH-LIGHT]then you stand your ground. Remember your a child of the MOST HIGH, He loves His children and if this is in His will for you two to be together, well that's what it will be. Neither of you will have a choice in it. But understand that it seems not to fun these days going through what your going through, but it will get better. Your young and the Lord has many adventures instore for you. He's going to take you places you've never been, he'll open your eyes so that you'll see His loving kindness and your mind will be set upon all His majisty and wonders. Life is good to serve the True and LIVING GOD!here are some verses on love. Think JESUS and everything else will fall into place.
LOVE

* Love God is the most important command: MARK 12:29-30

* Christians must love each other: JOHN 13:34

* We can not be seperated from Jesus: ROMANS 8:35-39.

* Love must be genuine: ROMANS 12:9

* God's love for us is beyond our understanding: EPHESIANS 3:18.

* Love helps you look past offenses: 1 PETER 4:8.

* GOD IS LOVE: 1 JOHN 4:16.

* We must know for our love: 2 JOHN 1:5.

I hope this will help you. Look to JESUS, there you'll see. Rememberhe said, " I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH,AND LIFE. Promise to smile and drop a line. Me and the wife will keep you in our prayers. May God bless you. YORT (TROY):shade::shade



how dare you say it was me who ended it , when it was him who ended it !! [HIGH-LIGHT][/HIGH-LIGHT]
 
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For Christ,

that poster said IF not that you did.

It seems to me that you need to distance yourself from this. It is taking a toll on you and you are too emotional about.

Is God still first in your life?

Can I ask how old you are?

~Jen
 
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