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Is it required that we dress up for church?

tirapet

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People always seem to dress up for church. Are we supposed to dress up? What is the reasoning for dressing up? How dressed up are we supposed to get?

I ususally get a little fancy (khaki pants, nice shirt), but that's it. And I'm curious about the why's and the specifics and all.

Thanks!
 
Hmm. First off, depends on what one would call dressing up. Dressing up for me involves a lot less cotton shirts and light blue jeans, no sneakers, more attention on my hair, using the iron etc.. Depending on the church one attends, you'd see some different dress codes. At denominational churches, the majority of folks seem to be "dressed up". That is, men are in buttoned shirts, maybe a tie and non-sport looking shoes. While the women are often in dresses or blouses and skirts. I figure folks have their reasoning for it. Maybe to fit in, because they like "dressing-up", other reasons besides focusing on God, or most probably because they view attending church as a special occasion. Non-denominational churches I've noticed the attire to be very mixed.

For me personally, doesn't really matter. I try to go with modest and attractive on all occasions. Modest IMO involves covering the body well so as to avoid extra emphasis on the silhouette/nakedness of the body.

Take a Christian female; IMO it's best that her legs are covered on all outdoor occasions. I know men that are highly motivated by the female legs. I think it's our job to deter the motivation. Arms should be covered up to the elbows or at least half the bicep area. Cleavage is for the husbands eyes only, that should go without saying. Whenever close fitting pants are worn, the female should make it her business to wear a longer blouse so as to cover the back side area.

I personally don't have any problem with makeup, as long as it's worn in a manner that still appears natural. I believe in personal hygiene and keeping fit and as a female I take care of my eye brows, teeth etc. I realize that I am way off topic now, but yea, can't sum all this off into a one liner.

To answer your question, I don't think it matters if we dress up or not. However we dress, our focus is to be on God.

God bless.
 
I agree with WangLili. Tactful dress is perfectly acceptable. When I go to church I'm usually wearing a pair of blue jeans and a knit shirt. Of course, that's my normal wardrobe outside of church as well. But I make sure they're clean when I wear them to church. lol!

I don't wear my tennis shoes though. I wear my psuedo-suede non-laced shoes but only because it's one of the few chances I get to wear them. :)

I don't know the exact reason people have for getting dressed up. Perhaps some think it's a show of respect? Maybe out of a sense of tradition? It's difficult to say. True, there are some who are there to be seen in all their finery but that's not offensive. Unless they try to make you feel bad for not doing the same. That's not cool so don't fall for it. You're not there to please them. You're there to please and glorify God.

For the most part, I think people just like to have a reason to dress up nice. There's nothing wrong with that either. They enjoy wearing their sunday best. What better day to do that than sunday? :D

Casual and tactful is just fine.
 
Hmm. First off, depends on what one would call dressing up. Dressing up for me involves a lot less cotton shirts and light blue jeans, no sneakers, more attention on my hair, using the iron etc.. Depending on the church one attends, you'd see some different dress codes. At denominational churches, the majority of folks seem to be "dressed up". That is, men are in buttoned shirts, maybe a tie and non-sport looking shoes. While the women are often in dresses or blouses and skirts. I figure folks have their reasoning for it. Maybe to fit in, because they like "dressing-up", other reasons besides focusing on God, or most probably because they view attending church as a special occasion. Non-denominational churches I've noticed the attire to be very mixed.

For me personally, doesn't really matter. I try to go with modest and attractive on all occasions. Modest IMO involves covering the body well so as to avoid extra emphasis on the silhouette/nakedness of the body.

Take a Christian female; IMO it's best that her legs are covered on all outdoor occasions. I know men that are highly motivated by the female legs. I think it's our job to deter the motivation. Arms should be covered up to the elbows or at least half the bicep area. Cleavage is for the husbands eyes only, that should go without saying. Whenever close fitting pants are worn, the female should make it her business to wear a longer blouse so as to cover the back side area.

I personally don't have any problem with makeup, as long as it's worn in a manner that still appears natural. I believe in personal hygiene and keeping fit and as a female I take care of my eye brows, teeth etc. I realize that I am way off topic now, but yea, can't sum all this off into a one liner.

To answer your question, I don't think it matters if we dress up or not. However we dress, our focus is to be on God.

God bless.
This was an absolutely wonderful and on-target post.

As a man, if I am in church I want to be able to concentrate on the sermon, the worship, the prayer -- I don't want to be distracted because a skirt slid high on the thigh or a blouse is too low cut.

Men are visual creatures and it is hard enough to divert my attention away from sex on display in the world, I don't want to have to be so concerned in church. We should all be modest in our dress and appearance.

Past that, I don't think that we need suits and ties; but I don't think that the honor of the church expects to have us in shorts and flip flops. The gathering is to worship the Lord -- look the part.
 
People always seem to dress up for church. Are we supposed to dress up? What is the reasoning for dressing up? How dressed up are we supposed to get?

I ususally get a little fancy (khaki pants, nice shirt), but that's it. And I'm curious about the why's and the specifics and all.

Thanks!


Thank you 'tiripet', for your question. It is a good question and one that I have asked myself in recent days.

I am now 'three score years and ten' and counting. but to recall my youth in 'Englands green and pleasant land', to quote the poet, we went to church/chapel as a part of rural/family life.

We/I dressed for church because we felt that we were attending in His company, as we sang and worshipped. Today I still turn out with family in that manner for the Sunday a.m. church gathering.

But I would not impose such dress on any other person. My own family now are much more relaxed and casual, but I still put on my 'best clothes' as I attend His house.

The important point is to make contact with Jesus.....and to feel blessed along with His people, and to feel a part of Jesus family.
 
I think that a lot of people my age grew up being taught that "dressing up" for Sunday services was honoring God when, in reality, for many people it turned Sunday services into a weekly fashion show with religion thrown in.

"Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of fine jewelry and clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."
(1 Pt 3:3-4 NIV)

SLE
 
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