Missing my baby at christmas time

[LittleAngel?]

I lost my daughter 18 months ago and I'm finding this time of year difficult. I should be out buying my 14 month daughter christmas presents and be looking forward to her delight as she plays with her new toys, but i cant. Instead i have to suffer in silence as my parents have banned me from talkign about her. She was born prematurely and didnt survive (miscarriage!?!). I'm really struggling with this all. Some support would be nice!

 

[gladstone]

Hello Sarah

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It must be hard at any time of year to bear the loss of a child, but especially this time of year.

I think it's important to talk about her and remember her, not bottle it up as your parents have said. Maybe think about going to talk to a counsellor to help you?

I shall pray for you, that in time your grief will lessen, and God will comfort you.

Gladstone

 

[Faithful Son]

I agree totally with gladstone's advice, it's good advice.
I will pray for you Sarah, may Jesus bless your heart

Much love
teraside

 

[momof4]

I am so sorry for your loss, The loss of a child is the most horrible and tragic thing a parent could ever go through and I will definitely pray for peace, comfront and strength for you as you mourn this Christed Filled Season.. please know your in our thoughts & prayers..
Love & GOD BLESS....
Jessica

 

[Janie]

Dear Sarah,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand how it must be so hard at this time and how you must miss your daughter. I also understand the loneliness of feeling like you have no-one to talk to. I agree with the advice others have given, that you should talk about this to someone.
I will pray for you,
Janie

 

[HouseofJudah]

Hi sarah,

my wife had two miscarriages in one year and it was a difficult time for both of us especially when we saw other proud parents with their little ones. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you. I pray that the HOLY SPIRIT be your comforter during this season. I still think of my 2 boys even though I never got to hold them and see them smile.

I agree with whateveryone has said. Bottling up your emotions inside is very destructive and no good can come of it. Find someone besides your parents who you can talk to who will just listen to you.

GOD Bless you