rebel06
try to have a life outside of school. Right now, I don't really want to do the 'school' part
I think you're going to have to sit down, think hard about want you want and make a decision.
You have two choices - a life outside of school or school - doing both will only create conflict and it seems you are spending more time having a social life than concentrating on school.
It is not wrong having a social life it is actually normal and healthy but when it becomes more imprtant than school - then you're in trouble.
This is the preparation for the rest of your life, if you mess this up, your life will go in a different direction and 20 years from now you will be sorry and then it will be too late.
Dedicate this short time to your future, before you know it, it will be over and you will be glad of your perseverence.
Don't be pressured into things just for fun it is not worth it, what I want to encourage you to do is to go against the social stream:
"Anyone can go with the stream. It takes courage to be different."
God made this opportunity possible - make the most of it.
I hope I don't sound too harsh - I also have a son in university and I experience all his frustrations with him. I just encourage him to hold on and to get through school the best way that is possible for him.
Lots of love. Ann
Blessings!