Okay for friend to be a cocktail waitress?

[justin1979]

Not sure if I'm posting this in the right forum.

I have a professing christian friend that I have been getting to know better with the thought of possibly dating at some point. However, I struggle with what she currently does for a living. She is a cocktail waitress at a casino. I told her that I felt I'd have a problem with her working there if we were to try being a couple. This is because I don't feel that it's very God honoring to spend her day serving drinks in either a bikini or some other revealing outfit. I explained to her that I feel working in those outfits exploits her body, is degrading to her, and encourges male customers to lust after her flesh. She had mentioned it's an opportunity to witness to the unholy. Although I think that is a great idea, I feel that she should be witnessing without compromising her holiness by dressing in very revealing clothing to serve drinks.
Is there scripture to reference that supports my claims? Any suggestions of how I should approach this?
God Bless.

Justin

 

[Chad]

What you say is so very true brother. Everything you said is coming from the Spirit.

I'm thinking (my view) that she has one of these two issues:

1. Pride (she refuses to lose the job, probably making great money)
2. Confused (not quite aligned with GOD's purpose for herself, possibly)

I could be wrong here, let the Spirit guide you.

www.biblegateway.com

Search about lust with the eyes (gospels), gambling for example. Both wrong. She's in that environment.

 

[Coconut]

I dont think any man ever yearned to become more holy while being 'witnessed' to by a woman dressed seductively...even King David was`nt that noble....(and he already had a heart after God) Whos your friend trying to kid?

 

[Dreamer]

What your friend is doing is wrong. Pure and simple.

 

[stephen]

Okay for friend to be a cocktail waitress?

My dear brother, just where O where are you coming from with a question like this? Of course it is not Okay. Absolutely, Altogether and Without Question this is wrong.

The Master said "Ye are not of the world even as I am not of the world"

Get your self out of that Casino. Take your friend to meet Gods people. Introduce her to Jesus. See if she is prepared to come with you.

"For narrow is the gate and strait is the way that leadeth to life, and few find it...........but wide is the gate and broad is the way that leadeth to destruction, and many there be that go in there-at"

God Bless You...........in His Love