Prayer Request - Heartbroken

[Zahava]

Hi,

Would really appreciate prayers for my broken relationship and my ex boyfriend, my ex separated with me last month and I have no doubt this was the Lords doing. I'm so utterly heartbroken, i love this man so much, for every flaw, for every perfection, for every blessing he gave me and every challenge he presented me with. It hurts immensely and I'm worried, he doesn't believe and is so afraid to be mocked if he were to. His family belittle him for coming to church with me and it put him off, I am burdened for the souls of him and his family.

A few months before the split, i felt God speak to me after asking me to pray on my way home, during our relationship, i was praying for salvation consistently and after that prayer God said he was working on it, to be still and know he is working. I have so much hope that God will do the impossible here and lead my ex to Him and then back to me.

I still really believe God is going to do something incredible here, something impossible, something huge, i have been praying persistently. His heart has good intentions but his need to impress others and show off is made greater when his family encourage bad behaviour and mock him for doing good, pride and ill morals lead their family and conviction is needed i believe, softening of their hearts, the desire to be better etc.

I'm totally aware it may not be Gods will to renew him and restore the relationship, I just believe God does the impossible and that this family need the Lord in every aspect as there is a lot of broken-ness.

Ever so grateful for your prayers, means so much to me as I battle through this.

 

[Ellie]

Hello Zahava,

So glad that you posted your request here. Will be praying for you, to have the patience and faith for God to continue to work in and through you and for Abba Father to wrap you in peace and healing. And for your ex that God gives him a supernatural experience and that the Holy Spirit draws him to faith that is real. You are so correct, God is the God of Impossible.

GBU,
Ellie

 

[Chopper]

Hi,

Would really appreciate prayers for my broken relationship and my ex boyfriend, my ex separated with me last month and I have no doubt this was the Lords doing. I'm so utterly heartbroken, i love this man so much, for every flaw, for every perfection, for every blessing he gave me and every challenge he presented me with. It hurts immensely and I'm worried, he doesn't believe and is so afraid to be mocked if he were to. His family belittle him for coming to church with me and it put him off, I am burdened for the souls of him and his family.

A few months before the split, i felt God speak to me after asking me to pray on my way home, during our relationship, i was praying for salvation consistently and after that prayer God said he was working on it, to be still and know he is working. I have so much hope that God will do the impossible here and lead my ex to Him and then back to me.

I still really believe God is going to do something incredible here, something impossible, something huge, i have been praying persistently. His heart has good intentions but his need to impress others and show off is made greater when his family encourage bad behaviour and mock him for doing good, pride and ill morals lead their family and conviction is needed i believe, softening of their hearts, the desire to be better etc.

I'm totally aware it may not be Gods will to renew him and restore the relationship, I just believe God does the impossible and that this family need the Lord in every aspect as there is a lot of broken-ness.

Ever so grateful for your prayers, means so much to me as I battle through this.

Hello there Zahava. My Dear Sister, you are passing thru a very trying valley and I know that when the outlook for any situation looks the most hopeless, God steps in with an awakening. I believe that God wants you to Keep praying, hoping and waiting on Him to restore your relationship with the man you love and bring a change to his family.

I'm a Christian Psychologist, and have been a Baptist Pastor and Teacher of the Scriptures for 40+ years. I am on your side and will help you all that I can. Please don't get discouraged if things get a little messed up at times. You see, we have an enemy that doesn't want things to turn out the way you want.

So, now you have a prayer partner with me praying each day for your heart's desire to be answered by our Almighty miracle working God.

If you have any questions, please let me know. I don't have all the answers, but I'm a Servant of the Master Jesus the Son of God, and He does have the answers.

 

[Chopper]

Hello again Zahava. I just noticed that Ellie posted you. Hey, she's a great gal with a great big heart for God. Since she's praying for you, wow!! you've got a good prayer team started.

Ellie is very smart in spiritual matters. She will help you, I know.

 

[Thiscrosshurts]

Hi Zahava,
Thanks for letting us back you up,

I'm totally aware it may not be Gods will to renew him and restore the relationship, I just believe God does the impossible and that this family need the Lord in every aspect as there is a lot of broken-ness.

You've got the right attitude and your faith is in the right place.
I'm praying for your joy,strength and for wisdom to guide you in this rescue mission.
Also that God shine his light into the situation and everyone involved and that the Father would be glorified and his kindness and mercy be displayed for all.

Here are some verses I usually ponder before I start praying for lost lambs.
John 14:13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
Matthew 21:22 And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.’
Psalm 147:3 He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.
Proverbs 20:24 A man’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way?
Romans 11:32 For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all.
Proverbs 21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD.
Proverbs 21:1 The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases.
John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
Philippians 1:6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

Proverbs 19:22 What a man desires is unfailing love.
Godspeed and peace

 

[Ellie]

Here are some verses I usually ponder before I start praying for lost lambs.
John 14:13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
Matthew 21:22 And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.’
Psalm 147:3 He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.
Proverbs 20:24 A man’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way?
Romans 11:32 For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all.
Proverbs 21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD.
Proverbs 21:1 The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases.
John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
Philippians 1:6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

Proverbs 19:22 What a man desires is unfailing love.

This is the second time I have seen these verses posted by you Thiscrosshurts.....
THANK YOU!!!! God Bless you, I'm so glad I you posted these again, and I saw them (I couldn't find them before)

 

[amadeus2]

Joining in prayers here as well.

 

[Brad Huber]

Adding in my prayers.

 

[Dave M]

prayers going your way

 

[Br. Bear]

Greetings Zahava,

may I suggest you focus upon this man receiving all that the LORD has for him.
If that includes being with you, so be it, but let the focus be on him coming to the Saviour. That is what matters the most.

and for you, peace with grace.


Bless you ....><>

 

[Fragrant Grace]

Greetings @Zahava

The Lord loves you and wants you to enjoy all His blessings.

This relationship which was an unequal yoke (a believer and an unbeliever) has ended.
Praise the Lord.

You are now free to focus on what the Lord wants for your life.
To commit your life wholly to him.
Look to the Lord rather than looking back at this relationship and know that His peace and joy will be yours as you walk in His ways.

Pray for your ex as a lost soul not as a lost lover.

Praying that you will know the Lords peace and comfort

Now unto Him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, To the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and ever. Amen.
June 1:24-25

 

[Br. Bear]

Pray for your ex as a lost soul not as a lost lover.

yes.