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Preachers ' Daughters Go Wild....very sad

Fragrant Grace

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A sign of the times....this article is quite shocking

Preachers’ Daughters Go Wild on ‘Missions Trip': Booze, Brawls and Boys

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The new season of the reality show “Preachers’ Daughters” is being called “completely contradictory to Christianity” as it features several pastor’s daughters drinking, dancing sexually with boys and engaging in profanity-laced brawls all the while serving on a so-called missions trip to Mexico.

As previously reported, the show was released by Lifetime in 2013, and was stated to be a “hard-hitting but often humorous look at the lives of these pastors’ daughters as they balance the temptations every teenager faces with their parents’ strict expectations and code of conduct as influenced by their faith.”

The broadcast began with three preachers’ daughters, but now features nearly ten girls from across the country, all of which whose fathers either serve as pastor, worship leader or youth leader.

In the third season—which is currently airing each week on Lifetime, the girls are sent on a missions trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, where they are to be involved in a number of humanitarian projects. But the girls—who often dress in revealing clothing—constantly get in profanity-laden fights, plot to throw each other out of the house where they are staying, and spend their down time at the night club or beach getting drunk and chasing boys.

In one episode, some of the girls, dressed in bikinis, participate in a “wet t-shirt contest” at a local bar, and in another entitled “Jesus Went to the Club,” the preachers’ daughters go to the night club to dance the night away. But the girls take issue with cast member Lolly White, who flirts with older men, grinds her bottom into a man’s frontal area, and drinks alcohol throughout the night.

“Lolly loves to curse,” one of the girls, Kayla Wilde, 20, states in a video clip for the show. “Lolly loves to talk as trashy and disgusting as she can.”

White invites a number of the older men she meets at the club back to the house where the preachers’ daughters are staying, but the others object. In one scene, White kisses another girl on the lips

Fights break out between the girls over a number of issues, and a debate also ensues as to whether homosexuality is permissible after Cierra Vaughn, 22, daughter of the pastor of House of Judah in Chicago, Ill., confronts Kristiana Flowers, 18, daughter of Kenneth Flowers of Greater Mt. Moriah Missionary Baptist Church in Detroit, Mich., over her sexuality. The other girls chime in to Flowers’ defense.

“You love who you love. You cannot help who you love,” Nikki Efimetz, 19, daughter of Paul Efimetz, youth minister at Our Risen Savior Catholic Church in Spartanburg, SC, declares enthusiastically in support of Kristiana.

“You’re not going to go to Hell because of that,” says Jayde Gomez, 20, daughter of Chris Clark, worship leader at Eastside Baptist Church in Lakeland, Fla. “I don’t get where people think that God hates gay people…”

“What if when they were making the Bible, the guy accidentally typed out the wrong word?” Efimetz says in regard to same-sex relationships. “What if it was a typo? That’s what I like to think. We don’t know.”

During last week’s episode, cast member Megan Cassidy, 18, who has been on the show the longest and previously referred to herself as the “Southern belle raising Hell,” calls her father Jeff in tears. She asks for advice as she doesn’t believe that she should remain among the group because of their wild actions.

“This whole house is crazy and I just don’t think it is worth it anymore,” she says.

He advises her to stay.

“Here’s the thing: You committed to this as mission work. And when we commit to something, we’re going to finish doing it,” Cassidy, associate pastor of worship at Lake Bowen Baptist Church in Inman, SC, states.

“But I just don’t want to live like this,” she says. “It’s crazy.”

He again advises her to stay.

“You just be who you are. Do what you’re doing, and let people see what God can do in you,” Cassidy states. “That shows His love, His grace, His mercy. This can be a very good thing and you know that.”

But some have expressed concern to Lifetime about the reality show, stating that it is blaspheming the name of Christ and dragging it through the mud. Scott Brown of the National Center for Family-Integrated Churches (NCFIC) told Christian News Network that he believes that Lifetime is presenting the program for shock value.

“It is so outlandish and garish and completely contradictory to Christianity,” he said. “These daughters are unbelievers and not reflective of people who belong to the true Church. They are simply involved with Lifetime in a money-making scheme.”

While some say that the show simply indicates that pastors families are imperfect and often have issues to work through, Brown said that the show goes way past mere imperfection.

“These are not normal pastors daughters who aren’t perfect and have their struggles,” he stated. “It is a picture of corrupt pastors and churches, not the true Church.”

Brown pointed to Ephesians 5, which reads, “Therefore be imitators of God as dear children, and walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks.”

“For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore, do not be partakers with them,” it continues. “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret.”

Calls to Lake Bowen Baptist Church went unreturned.


Preachers’ Daughters Go Wild on ‘Missions Trip': Booze, Brawls and Boys | Christian News Network
 
Just so you know, there are many in the liberal media who make up shows for not only entertainment and money, but also to sway opinion. Are you sure that these girls ARE actually preacher's daughters? There is another show called "Amish mafia" which is a bunch of made up stuff to make the Amish look stupid. I used to live in an area with a lot of Amish, and there was no mafia.
 
I looked it up on google @Frangrant Grace and and every article I could find on it seems to say its for real. One article did suspect some of it was scripted, but still they were actually daughters of current preachers.
 
This is not surprising. Sad, but nothing shocks anymore.

1 Timothy 4:1
The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons.
 
Going only by what is provided in the article. It is difficult to get a clear picture of what is going on except for a general overview, with certain snippets from certain episodes. Yet the picture this communicates is not a pretty one. That they are young women of age we can only awesome to be the case, since there is drinking/clubbing going on. My reasoning for this is, though laws etc. might be more lax in Mexico (unknown), it still would not preclude the producers of the show being responsible/liable for certain behavior by individuals underage regardless of the releases signed by said persons.
So these young women, children of those in ministry at some churches around the U.S. are placed in an environment that one provides the ability to minister to others (barely covered in this article), and the opportunity to pretty much do whatever else they want to do (include producer suggestions). Which means, have these young women been provided a foundation in their upbringing to handle a world without Christ, or at best a distorted view of Him. How about the amour of God in Ephesians 6 ? So many questions.....

It's possible that there is one that is convicted enough to seek help. We see this in what is once again probably only a selected part of a conversation that this young woman has with her father, who we assume to be a Pastor. Sadly, it would be wrong to attempt to question the exchange without having the complete text of the conversation to go by. Yet, it still leaves one with a sadness, and a prayerful hope that the Holy Spirit will move both father & daughter to be unified in what God would desire of them during that or future exchanges.

Another assumption from those whose behavior would be better described as worldly rather then unChristian like. Shows some young women exhibiting behavior that did not just start when they arrived there in Mexico. I state this, because the alcohol consumed by one who has not drunk before, would have had a more adverse effect, such as getting sick etc.. Which unless it was cut out or just not mentioned would have happened, leaving a more chagrined young woman the next day. This might not go hand in hand with whatever point of view the producers were attempting to communicate. So one is left only to conjecture. I dare say that the producers are not doing this for the purpose of uplifting the of Lord that's for sure.

The language, we can more accurately state, is one that was not learned or used when they arrived in Mexico. Language in most people usually is reflective of those we associate with the most. I'd rather err on the side that this was not taught at their homes. Hopefully, giving those in the Ministry the benefit of the doubt.

So friendships exhibiting crude language, being picked up on by ones children is something that everyone who has children needs to remember very well may happen with their own. Children of all ages, mostly mimick what they are exposed to. The reasons they repeat them can be varied, but needless to say, they do repeat them. However, the parents responsibility when they find out about it needs to insure that it's addressed accordingly. This must happen regardless of when one first finds out about it, and regardless of the age. So the parents of these children if unaware before, are aware now and should act accordingly with this new found information. I do believe in the adage "Better late then never". My wife and me still make our children aware when we see or hear something that is better left unsaid/done. Even though they are now 32 and 27 years of age. They then remember that Dad & Mom is still Dad & Mom, and though not perfect, try as Christians to walk/talk accordingly.

With all the above being said and done. Is anyone surprised by it? Everyone unless they are unconnected can be exposed to sights/sounds that are nothing more than unacceptable for a representative of Christ Jesus. Whether one repeats them or not, they've touched your mind and it doesn't take much for them to be remembered. Our minds unlike our PC's do not have a delete button sending whatever is worth getting rid of to the "trash bin" (which really doesn't get rid of it by the way.). Which of cause brings to mind Philippians 4:7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Yet we always need to remember and I pray that the parents of these young women remember verse 8 "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." There are other verses that could be used, to reflect that as well as the understanding that the world has no love for us and that the adversary will use any means to tare us down. Though the victory is the Lords! Amen!

Sorry if I've gone on and one. Somethings aggravate more then others and this is one of them. Prayer time. Thanks brothers & sisters for listening.
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The quotes out of Ephesians 5 is spot on in the article.

I'll be sharing this article as well..........once I figure out how to post it on my FB :laugh: Figured it out! :thumbsup:
 
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