what can i do and not do with my gf?

[spicyjoe]

i am very worry to have a gf guys... i have done things that a christian shouldn't do before marriage (not sex though)..


I have already confess my sins to god and jesus but i still need your prayer... here is what i need:

the power the control my temptation
The Power to do whats right
and the power to control my life


thanks in advance for the prayer... anyways i wanna know a few things that i can or cannot do...

i know that this are the few things i cannot do before marriage:

- Have sex
- Touch private parts (i have done this and i already confessed it and i want to confess it out loud in front of devil face i won't do that again!!!!!!)

But here are a few things i don't know that can i do or not:

- Having a girlfriend at my age 16
- Holding hands
- Kissing
- sleeping together

all the above i have done before but the thing that really everyday go through my mind is that kissing and sleeping together are wrong... i like to kiss my gf i don't know why i like to sleep with her don't know why...

can someone show me the truth? will god forgive me for what i have done? i heard somewhere god will stop forgiving if u keep repeating what u have done wrong and u know its wrong...

I still fight against masturbating since the last post i made about it (please continue to pray for me about this)

but my main purpose about this post is to ask can i kiss and sleep with my gf before marriage? i don't wanna do any sins as i wanna be a true Christian!

 

[abigya]

spicyjoe
i planed to replay to your question and give you some scriptures but i read a great post by coconut "Run For Your Life" , she has all said what i wanted to say. so i encourage you to read it carefully and memorize the verse.

praying for you,

Abigya

 

[spicyjoe]

i understand what she means but there is nothing said about kissing and sleeping together... and thanks for praying...

 

[anthony]

Hello Dear,

Thank for sharing your problem with this post. I have read to you post and problem I think the answer which you are finding is in your post Only If you can't find it tell me try that 1. Please go to the last line that John 3:16

If you come to know about it and you can slove you problem.

Anthony.

i am very worry to have a gf guys... i have done things that a christian shouldn't do before marriage (not sex though)..


I have already confess my sins to god and jesus but i still need your prayer... here is what i need:

the power the control my temptation
The Power to do whats right
and the power to control my life


thanks in advance for the prayer... anyways i wanna know a few hings that i can or cannot do...

i know that this are the few things i cannot do before marriage:

- Have sex
- Touch private parts (i have done this and i already confessed it and i want to confess it out loud in front of devil face i won't do that again!!!!!!)

But here are a few things i don't know that can i do or not:

- Having a girlfriend at my age 16
- Holding hands
- Kissing
- sleeping together

all the above i have done before but the thing that really everyday go through my mind is that kissing and sleeping together are wrong... i like to kiss my gf i don't know why i like to sleep with her don't know why...

can someone show me the truth? will god forgive me for what i have done? i heard somewhere god will stop forgiving if u keep repeating what u have done wrong and u know its wrong...

I still fight against masturbating since the last post i made about it (please continue to pray for me about this)

but my main purpose about this post is to ask can i kiss and sleep with my gf before marriage? i don't wanna do any sins as i wanna be a true Christian!

 

[spicyjoe]

that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life

i know this verse in my head... i udnerstand about this but what does this got to do with my question (no offense)..

what do you mean my answer is in my own post?

 

[Faithful Son]

Hi there spicyjoe, I think the main thing you have to remember is to ask God to lead you brother.

You said yourself you're not allowed to have sex, so what else do you need to know?

The thread Coconut posted deals with sexual addiction and the fact that you can overcome it by not giving into temptation.

Logically, this would result in you doing less things that breed tempation.

In other words, try to do things that won't tempt you into having sex etc. Hold her hand, talk to her, kiss her if you want, but don't go too far.

It's common sense, that's all you need.

God bless you
Much love
terside

 

[Dreamer]

You know full well that sleeping together is wrong, because it leads to having sex. The bible says to flee fornication, why don't you do that?

Spirit Led Ed has an excellent reply about kissing in a recent thread in the youth section. Look it up, and take heed to what he says.

Coconut's thread, "Run For Your Life," is quite applicable to your situation and your questions.

Sincerely,
Dreamer

Spiritleded's post is in a thread in the teens and youth section, on the last page. The thread is entitled, "First kiss?"

 

[stephen]

You know full well that sleeping together is wrong, because it leads to having sex. The bible says to flee fornication, why don't you do that?

Spirit Led Ed has an excellent reply about kissing in a recent thread in the youth section. Look it up, and take heed to what he says.

Coconut's thread, "Run For Your Life," is quite applicable to your situation and your questions.

Sincerely,
Dreamer

Spiritleded's post is in a thread in the teens and youth section, on the last page. The thread is entitled, "First kiss?"

This is excellent advice, please take it