Is it true that what goes around comes around? I used to be a believer in that but after I got married last five years my, life completly changed like I never could have imagined. Husband's an addict of porn, cocaine, never admitted his problem except for with his brother and mother, to everyone else he blamed things on me for why he is the way he is. He misses his job and if his boss is on his case he tells them things are not good at home or his health is suffering and gets a doctors notes easily. He does porn the problem is me or that I am a prude. Will all this lying ever catch up to him. How does he keep getting away with things? 5 years now! He never got arrested or got tested at work for drugs. He puts me through so much hell if I showed him the mirror. I have to deal with his immature and angry self everyday yet he doesn't seek no professional help and if he did he doesn't keep at it..will my life ever get better. I am still here for I have a baby with him. I left California for him when I got married (he is from NY) My family is and all are in California I am so alone. Except for my mother-in-law. Where is justice GOD?
What goes around comes around!
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Justice is with God. Justice is in God. You must move forward with God, on His behalf. You are not doing anything but enabling your husband's behavior at this point. Honey, I speak from experience. I might get in trouble for giving you this answer, but I want you to know, that God does not condone your husband's behavior.
I do not know if you have children. This is hurting them also.
I do not know if you have children. This is hurting them also.
My dear, sister
I read your message several times and I don`t know what to say to you. Still I feel that you deserve an answer. I can`t imagine how dificult this has been for you, only God knows. I wish I could give you an aswer to what to do, or solve all your problems, but I can`t. All I can do is pray and offer you my friendship. I hope you know that you are so so loved. Both you and your little wonderful baby belongs to the Lord of Lords and the devil can do you no harm. Keep looking to Jesus, He is just one praier away.
You are important to God, and also to me.
I will pray for you.
Many warm hugs from me and my little baby
I read your message several times and I don`t know what to say to you. Still I feel that you deserve an answer. I can`t imagine how dificult this has been for you, only God knows. I wish I could give you an aswer to what to do, or solve all your problems, but I can`t. All I can do is pray and offer you my friendship. I hope you know that you are so so loved. Both you and your little wonderful baby belongs to the Lord of Lords and the devil can do you no harm. Keep looking to Jesus, He is just one praier away.
You are important to God, and also to me.
I will pray for you.
Many warm hugs from me and my little baby
i know how you feel. but dont be afraid. you are not alone. Remember that we have a God who delivers! HIs name is Jesus. He will deliver you out of your situation.
Just call upon His Name! and Use the authority that has been given you. I know this works. ... OVERCOME EVIL WITH GOOD!
Jesus said in Luke 10:19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.
Rise up! and stand in faith and begin to confess the Word of God. cast all cares to Him because he cares for you. It will work for you day and night. There's no point to worry. Let Jesus do the work for your husband.
only that if turns violent... go away from him. dont hesitate to go to agencies or the authorities that will support the protection of yourself and your child.
Love is another key. Love casts all fears. Love never fails. do not hate him but instead show him love and forgive him. It is not you fault and you are not a failure. There is life ahead of you! Your husband is just been held captive by the enemy. and the best thing you can do is to pray for him. Ask the Lord for guidance and wisdom. he will teach you and what to do
proverbs 3: 5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
1 john 4:7-21 declares:
God's Love and Ours
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for[c] our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
13We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. 14And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. 16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. 17In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. 18There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
19We love because he first loved us. 20If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
For your supernatural Protection...
Confess psalm 91 and psalm 23 daily.
Jesus Loves you!
God Bless you!
Just call upon His Name! and Use the authority that has been given you. I know this works. ... OVERCOME EVIL WITH GOOD!
Jesus said in Luke 10:19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.
Rise up! and stand in faith and begin to confess the Word of God. cast all cares to Him because he cares for you. It will work for you day and night. There's no point to worry. Let Jesus do the work for your husband.
only that if turns violent... go away from him. dont hesitate to go to agencies or the authorities that will support the protection of yourself and your child.
Love is another key. Love casts all fears. Love never fails. do not hate him but instead show him love and forgive him. It is not you fault and you are not a failure. There is life ahead of you! Your husband is just been held captive by the enemy. and the best thing you can do is to pray for him. Ask the Lord for guidance and wisdom. he will teach you and what to do
proverbs 3: 5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
1 john 4:7-21 declares:
God's Love and Ours
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for[c] our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
13We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. 14And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. 16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. 17In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. 18There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
19We love because he first loved us. 20If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
For your supernatural Protection...
Confess psalm 91 and psalm 23 daily.
Jesus Loves you!
God Bless you!
