What to do Lord?

[Frenzy4Christ]

My world is upside down and has been since my wife has turned away from our marrige. she is in two minds in the relationship which has been going on for 4 years now. I feel helpless cause she won't let me near her, touch her, in fact no contact at all.
My mind is running all over thinking all thoughts, I can't go on living like this. I pray I fast still waiting to hear from God.
What to do....... I need support and help to keep my mind focused.

Is this a test?

 

[Br. Bear]

Greetings brother,

Is your wife still with you, as in the same house?

I will pray for you brother.

and have been.

Sometimes things happen in life and we don't get much revelation about it until further down the track.. but in the meantime, we can keep trusting the Lord and keep His peace, which passes understanding.... and put everything into perspective from an eternal viewpoint.

Brother, these words are always a strength to me.. a lifeline to hold onto.. and they are living words of truth, while things in this world are passing moments... but the truth endures forever.....


Philippians 4:4-9
Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.

Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Finally, brethren,
whatsoever things are true,
whatsoever things are honest,
whatsoever things are just,
whatsoever things are pure,
whatsoever things are lovely,
whatsoever things are of good report;

if there be any virtue,
and if there be any praise,
think on these things.

Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.

If you would like to PM me I would be happy to talk more.

I will continue to seek the Lord on your behalf, brother, and I encourage you to continue to look to Him and rejoice in His Salvation, and find peace in His love.

Bless you my brother, in Jesus name,

Br. Bear

 

[ephesians4_23]

I am praying for you and your wife.
I want to encourage you to not give up, even though it looks like things won't change. You never know how God is working in her life. Also, if you have children, they are learning from you and your wife. Make sure you are showing them how to imitate Christ, even when it's difficult. If you don't have children, you both have family and friends who are watching and care about both of you.
I am divorced, my marriage didn't make it, but not for lack of trying on my part. My ex moved in with another woman, and that's when I let go... but before then, I kept trying to work it out.
I pray that it doesn't come to that for you, but I know how difficult it can be. There's no easy fix- she doesn't have an on/off switch.
I pray that you would find peace in your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus, in the midst of the storm, you stand on the Rock. Lord, give him ways to show his wife that he still loves her, is devoted to her, and wants to make it work. Lord, give them both an abundance of grace and mercy towards each other, and help them communicate to each other what is hindering the relationship. Give them wisdom. Let them both come to an understanding of what You, Lord, desire in this relationship, and let them both, being yoked together, work toward this goal. Let Your will be done, and help them find the joy, the 'first love' they had before. In the name of Christ our Savior, Amen

 

[Fragrant Grace]

He carried our sorrows Isaiah 53:4

Brother, I have just prayed for you and will continue to do so. I am sorry that things are so difficult for you at the moment.

Please try to rest in the promise that God is our rock and refuge. He will carry you through this. Although things seem bleak He is the God of abundant love, grace and miracles.

Your pain and suffering may be awful but take heart the Lord suffered so much more on the cross. He knows your sorrows and He will sustain you.

He reached down from on high and took hold of me, he drew me out of deep waters (Psalm 18:16)

It may be hard to see through the clouds but hold fast to Gods hand. He is your guide. Try to use this experience to draw closer to Him. He will richly bless you if you keep your eyes firmly on HIm. He knows...He cares.

I will be praying that the Lord will comfort,guide you and give you strength and that His will be done in these matters. I will also be praying for your wife.

God bless you brother.

Julia

 

[Frenzy4Christ]

peace in my heart

My wife told me last night that she is moving out, and I begged her to change her mind. I even try to get her to pray with me and seek Gods face. Her heart has turned from me totally, and actions specks the same. Lord is this my test to see if I love you or what? I am so heart broken and feel so helpless knowing that this could be the end of a 4 year commitment. I closed my eyes and went to sleep, by morning I felt light and a calm feeling. I know that God is real and has a big plan for me, I just want to able to a testimony for the lord. Maybe she will come back one day.
I think the lord is process of dealing with her and maybe I was in the way, and he needs her on her own. I am just trusting God to lead me in the right path.

 

[Frenzy4Christ]

peace in the heart

new things to take place in my life. Loving God with no holdbars.

 

[Fragrant Grace]

Brother

I am pleased to hear you have found some peace in the depths of your sadness. I will continue to pray for you.

Blessed is the man whose strength is in Thee...who passing through the valley of weeping, make it a well (Psalm 84: 5&6)

The Lord is there with you in all your trials. You may feel broken but the Lord can work with broken things.

He knoweth the way that I take: when He hath tried me I shall come forth as gold. Job 23:10

God bless you.

Julia