Remember The "SOVEREIGNTY of GOD" sometimes take years to learn and to except it and to digest it. Once it is brought to the face. For the human can't except it.
even when it is written before them in "Holy Scripture". The human mind will say, he does not mean that, he means this.
Example: (Isaiah 45)NASB
“I am the LORD, and there is no one else;
There is no God except Me.
I will arm you, though you have not known Me,
So that
people may know from the rising to the setting of the sun
That there is no one besides Me.
I am the LORD, and there is no one else,
The One forming light and creating darkness,
Causing well-being and creating disaster;
I am the LORD who does all these things."
New King James Version
I form the light and create darkness, I make peace and create calamity; I, the LORD, do all these
things.’
American Standard Version
I form the light, and create darkness; I make peace, and create evil. I am Jehovah, that doeth all these things.
God is "SOVEREIGN" He is The creator of ALL things and Nothing happens unless He "Ordains" it to come to pass. He creates evil, Calamities, And What so ever happens has to have His Permission to happen.
The problem with people They do not understand That GOD is SOVEREIGN and they do not know what it means. And many do not believe who are believers, fail to understand what a "Believer in GOD " is. One "Theologian" of The Reformed Faith put it this way, People view of "GOD" is too small. Simple as that.
And you cannot take the thoughts of man and VIEW "GOD"! For The FATHER has to be REVEALED by THE SON" even The MINUTENESS of GOD. All of these titles and Attributes can even touch "GOD". I wonder sometimes have they ever read the book of JOB, Isaiah, Jeremiah, EZEKIEL, any of the Major Prophets. 1 Kings , 2 kings, Chronicles.
Many times on this Journey i wanted to give up, because it seem no one reads or know The Bible. No, not one decent conversation about the Bible but drum up lies, from what they had heard from some "jack LEG" preacher pastors. Until GOD pointed me to The REFORMERS, and the lives they lived. And How they WALKED alone with "GOD". And your sleep becomes sweet, EVEN when you sleep among wolves and you can lay your head Down in The LIONS Den and you are not afraid but do not lay your head down in the Church house but keep your eyes open there.
(Psa.55)BSB
"For it is not an enemy who insults me; that I could endure. It is not a foe who rises against me; from him I could hide. But it is you, a manlike myself, my companion and close friend. We shared sweet fellowship together; we walked with the crowd into the house of God."…
GOD creates all things , He creates evil, wickedness, storms, hurricanes, tsunami, rains, fires, nothing can happen unless GOD so "ordains" it to come to pass

Even wars cannot take place unless "GOD" ordains it to come to pass.

. He soften and harden hearts, even when a harden heart wants to be soften. That is
"The SOVEREIGNTY of GOD" a little child cannot get hit by a car unless it has been so "Ordain" by GOD! A woman cannot get "RAPE" unless GOD has Given the permission for her to be RAPE.

"that is "The SOVEREIGNTY of GOD"
Now many cannot believe that, But they can believe that GOD had his only Begotten SON to suffer by coming into his own creation and walking in a "Corrupted" and unholy planet and then Dying and suffering a violent death beyond the worlds imagination for ungodly corrupted creatures that does not deserve to be saved, let alone die for. But that is ok. WOW if anyone thinks that is ok, I understand it very much. We are not worth it for the "SON of GOD" to come down here to walk this earth let alone die a violent and horrible death.
But His SON is

We are not, But his SON is. Maybe a "paradox" statement to some but not All.
Here we go.