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Therein is why you cannot and/or will not ever be able to see M-M as a sin against God. By looking at it in that way, you've given them a special standing/dispensation if you will before God that cannot also be supported by scripture. Even though you would disagree that M-M is unacceptable, why doesn't scripture still address the M-M in marriage/relationship as being acceptable?I do not compare M-M relationships to the biblical Man-Female wife in any way. M-M does not qualify for marriage, but in addition, I do not see the sins of fornication and adultery anywhere in scripture applied to any M-M sin. So, the approach of all sex outside of marriage may be sin in the consideration of M-F, who are eligible to marry; but the argument I see has no force applied to M-M.
Sadly, by doing the above you are picking and choosing what to accept and allowing for whatever you decide is acceptable and would not apply to what you put forth earlier about marriage if it were true. The only reason I can see is that you do not like to have no boundaries because of the negative impact that would have in M-M relationships. So, these and I'm sure others seem acceptable and needful for the relationship to be a positive one. lolThis does not mean that I do not see boundaries, or guidelines for M-M relationships, though not so clearly defined as with M-F. Obviously abuse whether rape or even emotional abuse would be sin. I believe faithfulness applies to any relationship between individuals, so that also applies.
So, would you then find no wrong for the members in my church who broke up a marriage with a Female since by what you have presented, they are not held by the boundaries of a heterosexual relationship except maybe for the sake of propriety but not because Scripture says so?
I won't add the rest or address the individual precepts that you believe would be helpful for a pastor/church to consider implementing.BUT, I really do understand the situation a truly Bible-believing Pastor may have dealing with the situation of a member of the church family who is dealing with this situation. Since so much would depend on the personality of the Pastor himself, it seems a church needs to have some sort of statement that can cover such matters in general. I admit I cannot expect believers to all agree, so the best solution that I can see may be as follows.
What I see that you are doing here, is just replacing/excluding scripture with manmade prerogatives instead. Bad road to attempt to follow.
Sadly, that is why we will never agree, because you've excluded even that which would have seen M-M as sin in anyway shape or form. Doing so means then there is nothing anyone has to repent of morally speaking and so they remain in their sin. And that is really why we will not agree.I can certainly understand the Christian who can't see M-M sexual relationships as anything other than sin. Maybe from that perspective, it is the residual manifestation of Original Sin found in the best of Christians and it just remains a struggle that brings about bitterness and constant sadness and depression. I do not believe simple M-M relationships with physical intimacy is necessarily sinful unless it entails promiscuity and abusiveness.
At the very least it will keep the topic on the forefront that one's afflicted will seek Jesus Christ, repent of all sins and be healed.I went online with the Windows 95 and immediately began debating theology and the hot-button topics like homosexuality and abortion. In so doing, I did my best and most successful study when I was challenged. If my stirring up angers in some believers, maybe it will lead to more study also.
Take care and God bless.
With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC
Nick
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