In God's eyes (the one who matters), there is no one crime that's worse than another. We are the one's who put degrees on wrong doing.
So are you admitting that abortion is a sin? And am I understanding you correctly that you reasoning that, since all sins are (supposedly) equal, which would mean abortion is no worse than say, a lie, then we shouldn't make a big deal over abortion any more than we would over a lie?
IMO the "no sin is worse than another" argument is often just an effort to not make anyone held accountable for their wrong actions. The only context with which all sins are equal, is that (outside of Christ's saving grace) any and all sins will keep us from receiving salvation/eternal life/heaven. Our Lord said to Pilate (John 19:11): "He that hath delivered me to thee, hath the greater sin," therefore one sin is greater than another.
And I think it would be really stretching it to suggest that God would make no difference between sins like a lie and a murder. For example, lies do not pollute the land but murder does - Numbers 35:33. God didn't destroy Sodom and Gomorrah because they were full of liars, or thieves. They were exterminated because their sins - as opposed to all the other sinful cities in the world at that time - stood out in God's eyes. Anyway, that's really all I want to say about the idea that all sins are the same.
Now, back to the subject of abortion, I will be blunt and say I believe it is murder; and no amount of dancing around the subject will change that. If it is not murder, than what is the woman pregnant with, if not a
LIFE? How is it not murder to take
certain life???
What judge worth his or her salt would accept an excuse from a murderer that the judge just doesn't know what it is like to walk in the defendant's shoes?? Who would accept that response from someone who killed their loved ones?
How can we excuse (for any reason) the taking of a life, just because it is
small (ie: inside the womb), or
unwanted, or because motherhood is
not a priority (or even on the radar) in the woman's life, or because careers, and/or a million other things take precedent over the baby's life??? :shock:
You say we "put degrees on wrong doing"; yes we do, albeit when we downplay and make excuses for sinful behavior and actions. You are saying that sometimes there are (somehow) valid reasons for abortion, abortion being the chosen
solution; but in only looking at the outcome and solution, you are not looking at the
problem, which for the most part is that abortions result as a consequence of immoral sexual behavior, and a selfish disregard for the sanctity of life (
unless it is their own!)......
We are talking about a human life here. One that is conceived, then killed and GONE forever. I do not see any good reason for this. It's amazing how easily a woman's unwanted pregnancy becomes thought of as just a "blob of tissue", as in, "I'm not killing a baby, or a person, it's just a bunch of cells", something not even worth considering. When the pregnancy is wanted, it is a baby, when it is unwanted it is just "goo".
You don't know what a woman or man goes through when having an abortion. It isn't like a woman wakes up one morning and suddenly thinks "I think I'll go have an abortion today". Its like an animal being caught in a trap and the only way for it to escape is to naw off its own leg.
I absolutely disagree with this comparison. Women who have abortions are not some kind of innocent bystander (the only innocent bystander is the baby that didn't get to choose life, "choice" being a one-sided affair), nor is their situation the same as that of the animal caught in a trap. And whatever they are "going through" when women make the choice to abort, unfortunately the consequences of sin are often not pleasant.
They trapped themselves when they chose to have sex when they were not ready (financially, emotionally, or otherwise) to have a baby and take on the role of motherhood. No one forces them to have sex, never mind unprotected, out of wedlock, etc. And IMO to say that abortion is a viable option because someone is feeling "trapped" would be an abhorrent suggestion!
Our society is so bent on caring for and feeling sorry for the wrong-doers, not the victims!
To make my next point, allow me to use your "it isn't like" analogy. To wit : it isn't like a woman wakes up one morning and is totally confused and bewildered, saying, "how did
that happen?.....how am I pregnant?.......who did this to me?..... I had no idea that having unprotected sex could result in pregnancy and potentially force me to have to make some serious life-changing decisions". ETC. Like some fluke accident of nature happened;
like cells and eggs only unite for people who want babies!
Thirty five to fifty million abortions is no accident, nor the result of women who are largely innocent victims, whom the rest of us just don't seem to understand because we haven't walked in their shoes. Abortion is simply a fail-safe, a form of birth control for many women who wish to continue a sinful lifestyle of sexual promiscuity and/or irresponsibility with what they do with their bodies.
Regarding your leg-hold trap analogy, the difference between the animal gnawing it's leg off and a woman having an abortion, is that the animal was trapped
by accident, and it's behavior leading up to that accident had no bearing on it finding itself in that situation. It was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time
and didn't know better; it didn't know or have the ability to weigh all the possible outcomes of walking in the path of the unseen trap.
Not to mention, I am certain that 99.99 out of 100% of the time, an animal would avoid altogether a path that it merely suspected had a trap on it, whereas in the case of women that have abortions, they generally are not predisposed to avoiding situations that may result in undesirable (to them) outcomes (pregnancy). Knowing the risk of having unprotected and/or promiscuous sex, they take the risk, and they get burned (in their eyes), with the outcome that someone (the baby) pays the price for their foolish and immoral behavior. Sex without responsibility nearly always ends in disaster!
Try walking in the shoes of someone who has been there. Love them to Jesus, but don't critisize or judge.
Maybe some of the women who are wont to abort their babies should walk in the shoes of women who chose to keep their babies and believe it was the best decision they ever made! (Or walk in the shoes of the innumerable women who, in hindsight deeply regret having had an abortion).
People have abortions for many more reasons too than "inconvience". Fear is a BIG one. Or someone is forcing them to do it or threatning them.
Kill a baby because you're afraid??
Oh yeah, and Christians have abortions too.
So that is our yardstick on morality and right and wrong? If someone else does it, that means we can too? Or because many people are doing it, we're not allowed to say anything about it?
And just because you have an abortion as a believer doesn't mean you aren't going to heaven. God forgives the act of abortion just as He forgives lying.
I agree that God will forgive any sin that is repented of, but I think there is a big difference between
willful sin and ignorant or unintentional sin.
Absolutely it is! And I don't think there is any valid excuse for it.
But showing true love without condemnation to someone who is hurting and who has been there is one of the best ways to let someone see Jesus.
I have no problem helping women financially and otherwise if that will keep them from killing their baby. And I don't think I am judging someone or being unloving by trying to save a life. Nor am I condemning, but I
am reproving.
IMO we have to stop making excuses for abortion. How many potential Beethovens, or scientific geniuses, or Charles Spurgeons (fill in the blank!!) might have been among all those millions of aborted babies??
I will conclude by saying some blame goes to our governments, who make it easy to abort but hard to adopt.