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Beauty Pageants

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OK, I didn't know exactly where to post this, so if it's in the wrong forum, forgive me in advance. I was flipping through the T.V. last night and caught the last 15 minutes of the Miss America/USA (can't remember) Pageant. Although I was completely excited that Miss Kentucky won, I suddenly thought to myself, "Is God pleased with this?" In one way, I think they are good because of the scholarships and such, but then again, they are very exploitive with the bathing suits and low cut gowns. Miss Ohio almost gave a peepshow for goodness sake. Not to mention all the little girls (especially through the south) who are paraded like show dogs but look like thirty year old hookers by their mothers. I don't want to even start on that. Anyways, I hope I don't ruffle any feathers again, I was just thinking about this and was curious to know your thoughts. God bless :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
 
Truthfuly I feel that when mothers start thier daughters in these beauty pagents at such a young age , it is not good for the child . Then I think about what happened to that poor child who was killed in her own home. I realy don't think its a good thing to do.
 
I totally think that Beauty Pagents are wrong in many ways. It almost teaches girls that their only valuable asset, is their body. Though it does help with getting scholarships, there are many other ways of getting scholarships without exploiting yourself.
Plus, it makes some of it's female viewers, have unrealistic expectations of themselves, in terms of self image.
 
I agree with of the rose. I live in a south and beauty pageants are big here.
It's shallow...to make children think that it is their looks that count for the most. Although I don't know for sure....I can't imagine that God is overly pleased with beauty pageants. And most contestants are not careful to dress modestly.

Thanks cricket 06, for bringing up the subject!
 
I also (weirdly enough ) watched some of the pagent (that was a first time ever to watch one ) I think it is wrong. I actually think the bible is very clear on how woman should act and I dont think I ever read that we are to have on bathing suites and have people judge us on our sexiness and beauty.

Just a thought.. Good thread cricket
 
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Wouldn't it be nice if the Miss America Pageant was completely redone: Out with the bathing suit evening gown contests, and maybe have them all compete in areas like short story writing, poetry, art & other creativity type things. Just some thoughts I had about it.
 
in response to the beauty pagants. personally i don't believe in them. i think they exploit women. i have three beautiful daughters and i never encouraged them to enter anything based on their looks. the devil has a way of squeezing into just about everything. Christmas for example. we celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior but you see there's a major distraction. santa clause. then there's Easter. we celebrate the resurrection of our Savior. praise God!! but there's another distraction. the easter bunny. i'm not saying these things are necessarily wrong but they are a big distraction. i mean how many children do we know who will say God is the most important part of these holidays. i don't think i know a one. i've ask myself time after time would God approve of this? i really don't think He would. but i celebrate the holidays like most everybody else does. i think it would help us if we would always ask the question "if God were here right now, would i watch this movie? would i talk this way? if He were coming to my house,'' would i have to put away pictures?'' would i have to change clothes? it's so easy to justify everything we do. believe me, the devil can sure help us there. i hope no one is offended by anything i've written. it is not my intent. forgive me.
cat
 
Well,

I've heard of Miss World but we don't have many beauty pagents in England most women would view it as seedy, sexist and shallow. We don't have baby/child pagents either really, we are better off without them. There are enough young girls feeling fat, ugly, stupid and inadequate without the pressure of the media and pagents to add to it all.

I have been photographed in the past, I even went out with a photographer at one point (one of the worst mistakes I have made, I'm sure they are not all like that though), it is just pure exploitation, to make money and we know what the bible says about that!!!!!

God Bless:love:

Eve
 
Dear,

If you in Christ than I think we don't want to go through all this Beauty Conte.

I am not telling that are devil, Yes I love god and resept all the God Creater. If you go to the bible than you will find that God made every thing beautyfull that means If we are in christ thatall thing are beauty. God made Adam & Ev ther where beauty full.

Yes if beauty contes is going and one is winner that mean he is beauty in every time. Because she is creater of God.
 
Worldy ways

Ever since the advent of beauty contests, the meaning of the word beauty has changed significantly. People are now likely to consider a beautiful person only on the basis of the fellow’s appearance and not due to any other reason.
The adage that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder has lost its meaning to many people as at now.

To be called beautiful, a group of young women must willingly submit themselves to few paid judges to use some inadequate criteria to pronounce them beautiful or ugly. !

A pathetic scene was the screening of the Miss Model of the Universe Contest where hundreds of young women were told they did not qualify because they were too short or too fat on TV screens. The look on the face of the young ladies told it all. Their spirits and pride were broken. “Oh I can model in high heels, one of the girls pleaded.

How can a young beautiful woman subject herself to such a situation. To be told right in your face that you cannot be a model because you are not tall.
That is the human mind and it should be the business of Christians to be consoling all those girls and advising the rest to do something better with their lives other than aiming at the catwalks.

After all money is not all that life is about and it is also an open secret that most of the successful and long necked models are not happy at all.
We believe every human being is good looking because we are all created in the image of God.

Who on earth has a better sense of beauty than the Creator, who made the whole world so wonderfully? The psalmist said: “In his time, he made all things beautiful.” How then do mere men take two or three characteristics and subjectively base their idea of beauty on them.

How does proverb 31 describe the virtuous woman, does it say, one who is tall, with a long neck and long legs?

It makes it explicitly clear that beauty is vain; charm is deceitful and lays emphasis on a woman who fears the lord.

The leadership of a church should busy itself by encouraging young bachelors not to concentrate on outward beauty but the inner one. It is not their business to help identify the outward beauty of women.

Traditionally and biblically, beauty is found in a person’s comportment and never in their appearance. In the academic field, beauty is conferred on a person vis-à-vis their ability to produce good work of intellectual value. Depending on which meaning one gives to the word, they organise a pageant to that effect.

Today at school programmes, traditional festivals and other group anniversaries the planners find a place on their tight timetable to fix a beauty contest on it. Interestingly and not surprisingly, it is always women who are put on the contest to showcase their womanhood.

It is an open secret the whole world is making a lot of money out of women’s body.

Advertisements which has nothing with nudity would show women in some form of nudity just to attract the opposite sex or people interested in looking at the bare bodies to breasts of women.

In advanced countries women’s rights activists are on the warpath with beauty contest organisers saying they are exploiting the bodies of the girls for financial gain.

These women rights activists have also embarked on education programmes to educate young women to excel in their chosen careers other than participating in beauty pageants.

The most unfortunate thing about it all is the type of attire designed for such occasions. Modeled for a fashion parade, they have all sorts of questionable outlook and most of them reveal the parts of the female body that should under normal circumstances be kept out of public view.

Some organiser's claim that even Queen Esther in the bible took part in a beauty contest and this cannot hold.

First of all, that competition was to select a wife for a King.
It was to make the woman look attractive for the king to desire her.
Secondly, it was not Jewish or Christian principle and as such we cannot claim to use it as our measuring stick.
In any case are we supposed to imitate all stories in the bible because they have been recorded in there both positive and negative ones.
Would any woman today lie at the feet of a man as Ruth did in the Bible? Certainly no.
Because the men in those days are different from the men of today.

Dressing

Peter, in his first epistle, recommended the appropriate mode of dressing for Christian women. In the third chapter, he writes: “Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging of the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel—Rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” Yet the professors of the faith have marred this incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.

If a beauty contest is accepted and promoted in a church hall, which other place in the world shall it be condemned?

The bible’s account of the process through which Esther the Jewish young girl was selected as a Queen to replace the disfavoured Queen Vashti is painfully a misinterpretation of an in event in history that served a particular purpose for those who initiated it.

The grooming of Esther leading to her selection as the best choice for the king could in no way be equivalent to the present day so-called pageant which only seeks to demean some people and pre-judiciously select some as winners.

In these days especially where the business enterprises want to seize every opportunity, fair or foul to market their products to a large number of people, it is their offer of meagre benefits for contestants that must be wooing so many innocent young ladies into such events.

In John’s Revelation chapter three, Jesus admonishes Christians to be either cold or hot because he says he will not at all tolerate lukewarmeness in the church. What is good is good. What is wrong, no matter how it shall be modified cannot ever be right.

"So whatever you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all to for the glory of God." (1Corinthians 10:31)

God bless
hadirfuss
 
The beauty thing, isn't my thing either; but I can think of a major beauty contest in the Bible, and that is in Esther. Why did King A-has-u-e'-rus choose Esther? I think that her looks had to have played a great part in it. Just thought I'd throw that in there. The saving of the Jewish people was of course GOD'S reason that she won.
 
Okay, I have to open my mouth again. I grew up in Pennsylvania and beauty contests aren't that popular there. But here?.....The moms start their kids as infants, and the winners are all in the newspaper every week.

Yesterday I was talking to a nice christian lady who runs a store in town. She and her family moved here from Kansas about a year and a half ago. She said that her teenage daughter, Miranda, has become overly zealous about weight, makeup, etc., since they moved here to Tennessee. A teenage friend from Kansas is staying with them this week. She said, "What's going on? Why are you worried about all this stuff? You never used to be!"

Miranda is a very beautiful girl, and people are constantly asking her mother why she is not putting her in beauty contests.
 
I appreciate beauty. My wife is a beautiful lady. Well I would say that would'nt I...and why? Because "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

You that are posting appreciate beauty also. Your wives, girlfriends will be beautiful to you. You will admire a beautiful women, or if you are a lady you may turn your head for a handsome man. Assuming that you are single, of course.

It's a natural thing. "Male and Female created he them" Nothing is more precious, beautiful, unique etc. than the love two wedded together. That is my view.

Proverbs......is that Solomon?....I guess it is, says "he that findetha wife findeth a good thing" I can say Amen to that, .......although I do not relate to Solomon and his debauchery.

The Beauty Competion for women, young women.

I would not say that I oppose these things. I am saddened when I hear of young women getting on to the wrong path.

The problem is the lechery within the heart of man.

So we are getting back to Jesus.

When we have a relationship with Him. We can get involved, having the wisdom, balance etc. which He gives,
 
Yes. I agree. If there is balance, then it can be done properly. (It's just that it's so hard for young girls to acheive a balance in these things. They tend to overdo dieting, makeup, etc.)
Miss America 1987, Miss Kellye Cash Shepperd, lives here in my town, and she is a very, very genuine, bubbly, kind person. She is not stuck on herself. She loves the Lord Jesus and people. So you are right, that balance can be acheived. She is Johny Cash's niece and has had to acheive a lot of spiritual and emotional balance from the attention she gets. She has learned how to turn her attention to others. She is a beautiful person inside, as well as outwardly.
I just think people should wait until they're mature enough to handle these contests. Parents shouldn't put one year olds to twelve year olds in beauty contests. They are too young and it gives the wrong connotations. (Yes, mothers put babies in beauty contests here.) And also, a sensitive 6 year old girl thinks she is "ugly" if she never places in the contests. Is this right?
 
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Appreciate what you say brother.

Appreciate your view also. Support what you say.

Amen God Bless You
 
You must remember that Ahasuerus was a pagan, not a follower of our God and that Esther was one of the girls in his harem.

Pagan q
 
You must remember that Ahasuerus was a pagan king and pagan kings were only interested in beauty when it came to selecting their queens,

Their queens usually had no role in government, they were just window dressing; there to look sexy and entertain the folks.

SLE
 
Re: Beauty Contests

I have a question for anyone who claims that beauty contests are not just about sexy looks:

Where would the Miss America & Miss Universe contests be without the swimsuit competitions?

Answer: Nowhere, abolutely nowhere.


SLE
 
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