You are also wrong that those men don’t know what they do. They do know but do it anyway.
Proverbs 6:24 To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. Play Audio: Men love the praise of a woman. They crave female flattery. It is even more exciting when the adoration comes from a new woman, a beautiful woman, or a
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Proverbs are full of warnings against the following (quote from article):
“King Solomon, being a good and wise father, sought to prepare his son for the throne of Israel. Knowing that power is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs and motives for corrupt women, he warned his son often about the danger of enticing words from a strange woman – any woman he had not married (
Pr 2:16;
5:3;
7:5,
13-21;
22:14;
29:5). He knew the thrill of praise from a woman, implying her desire for intimacy, was a great threat.
An evil woman will go to bed with a man she has not married; she is an adulteress or a *****. She is a strange woman, because she has no right to his marriage bed (
Heb 13:4). There are women, and more today than ever, that think lightly of sexual purity or loyalty. Virginity at marriage is mocked, and affairs after marriage are justified. Such women prey on noble and successful men, especially kings’ sons (
Pr 6:26;
7:26;
23:27-28).
These evil women have only a few techniques, which wise men learn to identify and avoid. First, they expose and emphasize their feminine beauty and shape by immodest dress or conduct to capture his eyes (
Pr 6:25;
7:10;
Is 3:16). Since men are stimulated by sight, this is a great temptation and lays the initial foundation for sin. Wise men avoid the presence of immodest women and reject any lust for those they cannot avoid (
Pr 5:8).
Second, these women use their eyes to admire a man and show their willingness to be his sexual partner. The use of eyes this way is often called “bedroom eyes.” Evil women know how to signal a man that they want him, and few men can resist the look (
Pr 6:25;
Is 3:16). Boys learn very early in life how pleasant it is for a girl to look at them affectionately. Noble men do not allow such eye contact with any woman but their wives.
The third trick is flattering speech to break down a man’s resistance and close in for the sexual kill. Immodest attire tempts men at a distance without involvement. Eye contact is usually the first personal connection that begins the seduction. But intimate words confirm the willingness, express desire in more detail, and persuade the man to yield. If a man has foolishly allowed a woman to get this far, it is unlikely he will be able to stop.”
With the wealth of knowledge above which they can access if they wanted to, it is ludicrous to say men don’t know what they are doing.
They do it because they are evil and lack self control, not because they are ignorant.