@FullArmorofGod -- as you can tell by my 'Sue D.' I Am a woman. So -- as a woman of 71 yrs of age and married for 46 of them. Men mess up their marriages on their own. I Have made the mistake of accepting Friend Requests on FB from a few men in my age bracket. Over the past few months. They are ready for quick friendships -- and I can understand why a couple of them were divorced. They talk about 'wining and dining' while in a COVID world. Some of them don't seem to think beyond their nose. Somehow they think they are God's gift to the 'right woman'. And , of course, Any woman who accepts their Friend Request is 'the right woman'. I'd applied to a Christian Singles over 60 site. Didn't even finish the application. My thought is that people are far better off meeting people locally. Through church or other local places. Though in this present COVID world, with face masks and social distancing -- getting to know people takes longer. And maybe that Isn't such a Bad thing. Relationships / marriages are Too important to just mess around with people's emotions.
And Sometimes they get cut off from their wives, because they forget their manners. They Think that once they are married, they can act any way they want to.
And women Do tend to put on weight after bearing children for their husbands. So maybe husbands and wives should exercise Together. Eat healthy Together.
And, of Course, a marriage gone bad Has to be the woman's fault. Never the guys. And, yes, you Do hear a bit of sarcasm from me.
And, Maybe everyone's focus Needs to be more on God -- It's God's will in our lives that should be most important.