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@JerryfromMass, the conversation was about being on the end of a gun, now it is fighting for your family.
Being on the end of a gun, I would pray, I would say take me, leave my wife and children, take me.
The conversation has changed somewhat, as you refer to 'fighting' for your family. So lets look at that as a separate item.
Would a parent fight for his or her children yes they would, but what is fighting? You would run after them, you would try your hardest to save them. Would I use a gun, this answer is simple I think, I would not possess a gun so I couldn't use one. You would have a gun, so you would use it.
The issue here is I think, not the circumstances, the issue is the gun, fighting for the right to have a gun, not to give up a gun. The circumstances used as arguments are a million and one, and each circumstance can be used to fit an argument what ever a persons view is. For me I have grown in a country relatively without guns, for you you live in a country that has been brought up to have a gun, whether we accept that or not must influence our decision. The UK has until these last 30-40 years avoided guns, but with the increase in wickedness both guns and knives are now getting to be an everyday occurrence, that said it doesn't change my views regarding the use of guns or knives.
I my friend are not afraid, I am not a coward, as you have so heartlessly stated. As stated above, the circumstances in the argument has changed, there are a million and one circumstances that can be used to express a persons views, and each view is geared not to the circumstances but whether or not people should have guns.
The ones who have guns, are in my view, the frightened ones. Why does a person have a gun. To protect themselves and their family in most instances, so they fear being attacked, they fear their material possessions being stolen, etc.
May the good Lord Bless you my friend, as we discuss these item in His Love.
Shalom