i need help about masturbating

[jculver]

ok... i usually watch cartoons on tv and mostly on the pc working on websites.... but at the destructive music, i dun get what u mean



hee, its a free country (but not as free as you guys)... Malaysia is an islam country but we still can get bibles... Legally... i have alot of bible but i seldom read them dunno why.... i am a person that hates read thru books alot alot alot.... but if u ask me to read thru pc i will...

I think I hated reading when I was 15 too However, when you understand that each book in the bible was written by God, you will start to get a hunger for the word. It's a burning hunger too let me tell you. I don't care about almost anything anymore, but the word of God. What is more important than what God has to say ?

I would pray to God that he give you that hunger, because there is no better hunger to have I swear it. You should constantly be in conversation with God, his word is how he talks to you, and your prayer is how you talk to him

 

[spicyjoe]

I think I hated reading when I was 15 too However, when you understand that each book in the bible was written by God, you will start to get a hunger for the word. It's a burning hunger too let me tell you. I don't care about almost anything anymore, but the word of God. What is more important than what God has to say ?

I would pray to God that he give you that hunger, because there is no better hunger to have I swear it. You should constantly be in conversation with God, his word is how he talks to you, and your prayer is how you talk to him

ok,,, thanks... i used to read it but just now i hate to read... hee... but thanks tho... thanks for praying for me...

 

[SpiritLedEd]

Masturbation

nono... its must be a mistake... i am only 15.... i am not married yet... just have a gf now....

The problem with masturbation is that it encourages self-centered behavior, which is destructive where boy-girl/man-woman romance is concerned. I say this from personal experience.

Remember Joe, you have the power to take command of your thoughts. 2 Cor 10:5c says ..."and we take charge over every thought to the obedience of Christ Jesus."


SLE

 

[BecuzHeLives]

ok... i usually watch cartoons on tv and mostly on the pc working on websites.... but at the destructive music, i dun get what u mean



hee, its a free country (but not as free as you guys)... Malaysia is an islam country but we still can get bibles... Legally... i have alot of bible but i seldom read them dunno why.... i am a person that hates read thru books alot alot alot.... but if u ask me to read thru pc i will...

Destructive music is a music that bring you down, making you sad. Destructive music also could be a about sex, drug, violent, and gangster. These music make you want to do bad things that is going against the Holy Spirit.

If TV and Computer is not the problem, then what is causing to MB??? You have to pinpoint in what environment is the most tempting and where??? So you can stay away from it.

Good Luck Joe, and as always God bless.

 

[spicyjoe]

The problem with masturbation is that it encourages self-centered behavior, which is destructive where boy-girl/man-woman romance is concerned. I say this from personal experience.

Remember Joe, you have the power to take command of your thoughts. 2 Cor 10:5c says ..."and we take charge over every thought to the obedience of Christ Jesus."


SLE

i know i can but there is like something that doesn't want me to control it...

Destructive music is a music that bring you down, making you sad. Destructive music also could be a about sex, drug, violent, and gangster. These music make you want to do bad things that is going against the Holy Spirit.

If TV and Computer is not the problem, then what is causing to MB??? You have to pinpoint in what environment is the most tempting and where??? So you can stay away from it.

Good Luck Joe, and as always God bless.

i sometimes do listen to those song coz of the high bass sound which i love alot... and i do masturbate when sometimes i by pass a porn site i will start doing it, my heart says u are breaking gods rules but i just can't stop it.... dunno why...

 

[jculver]

i know i can but there is like something that doesn't want me to control it...



i sometimes do listen to those song coz of the high bass sound which i love alot... and i do masturbate when sometimes i by pass a porn site i will start doing it, my heart says u are breaking gods rules but i just can't stop it.... dunno why...

Step #1:

Stop going to porn sites.

Make a vow right now that you will never again. This will greatly reduce the frequency of this sin. By nature man loves his sin, that is why many will try to enter in the narrow gate and not be able, because they love their sins. That is the part of you that doesn't want you to control it. I hope you will consider this.

 

[Cody]

I have trouble with this also. Its really depressing for me bc I pray about it and ask for forgiveness. But repenting is asking for forgiveness and turnin away from that sin, but I always fail. Lust is most def. tha biggest thing I struggle with but pray for me and I know tha Lord will help me and who ever that asks for help. Lets me rephrase that..anyone who comes with a humble heart. It is one thing to pray about sumthin and another thing to really mean wut you pray about. God bless

 

[jculver]

I have trouble with this also. Its really depressing for me bc I pray about it and ask for forgiveness. But repenting is asking for forgiveness and turnin away from that sin, but I always fail. Lust is most def. tha biggest thing I struggle with but pray for me and I know tha Lord will help me and who ever that asks for help. Lets me rephrase that..anyone who comes with a humble heart. It is one thing to pray about sumthin and another thing to really mean wut you pray about. God bless

Amen to that. It is definitly something I believe that all American males will struggle with because of our sex mad culture. I haven't beat it by any means. It is so difficult to beat entirely I don't know if any one really fully puts the sin to death in their youth, although some may. I think a major part of the Christian transformation is your attitude toward sin. Is it Paul in chapter 7 of Romans, or do you love to sin? I don't think a Christian loves his sin. The word confess basically means to agree with God. If you have sinned and you confess the sin then what? Of course it is forgiven. I will pray for all of us a community here to gain victory over this.

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive
us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness – 1 John 1:9.

 

[spicyjoe]

Step #1:

Stop going to porn sites.

Make a vow right now that you will never again. This will greatly reduce the frequency of this sin. By nature man loves his sin, that is why many will try to enter in the narrow gate and not be able, because they love their sins. That is the part of you that doesn't want you to control it. I hope you will consider this.

do u think installing a porn block will be good?

 

[Cody]

most def in my opinion

 

[spicyjoe]

cool... what software u think is da best for that?

 

[jculver]

cool... what software u think is da best for that?

For avoiding porn? I really don't know... I almost think China has the right idea by not letting porn sites in, and I have no idea if other countries do that, but obviously yours doesn't.

I don't ever run into porn sites because I am not looking for them. I don't know how you just stumble onto one, please explain, and we will do our best to help

 

[amanda 7]

There is a program called NET NANNY that you can access not sure of the web address but you could try to google it.

 

[spicyjoe]

For avoiding porn? I really don't know... I almost think China has the right idea by not letting porn sites in, and I have no idea if other countries do that, but obviously yours doesn't.

I don't ever run into porn sites because I am not looking for them. I don't know how you just stumble onto one, please explain, and we will do our best to help

i stumble onto them is when i visit a warez site... to see what is the latest warez and some are porns... :S

There is a program called NET NANNY that you can access not sure of the web address but you could try to google it.

thanks... i am googling it now...

 

[amanda 7]

i stumble onto them is when i visit a warez site... to see what is the latest warez and some are porns... :S




thanks... i am googling it now...

I,ll be praying for you. good luck, let me know if you find the program

 

[spicyjoe]

thanks for praying and i found the software at a store.. (only 5 bucks... weird).... but its really weird... can i talk to you about that software in pm?

 

[jculver]

i stumble onto them is when i visit a warez site... to see what is the latest warez and some are porns... :S




thanks... i am googling it now...

By Warez I assume you mean those illegal free sofware sites I used to visit those, and bottom line God wouldn't want you participating in that either. Even though it doesn't feel like stealing because you are taking a copy of something, it is stealing.

I know what it is like to get into free software. Up until recently all my software was pirated, I didn't pay for any of it. Even my copy of windows was pirated, and I just deleted it installed a free OS (Ubuntu) because I didn't feel right using it.

I would highly suggest avoiding Warez sites altogether. This will help you kill 3 birds with 1 stone. No temptation of porn, masturbation, or illegal software. I think we have hit the critical issue

 

[spicyjoe]

in Malaysia everything is prirated... weird but thats it.... dunno why... its hard to find genuine software here.... ~.~

 

[jculver]

in Malaysia everything is prirated... weird but thats it.... dunno why... its hard to find genuine software here.... ~.~

Well I don't really know what to say to that I think it is wrong because it costs US software companies potential money, but if it isn't exactly illegal in your country then I guess you have a case perhaps for doing it.

Either way I don't think you need to download pirated software all that often Don't you have everything you need to effectively use your computer? I guess then the best solution is to avoid Warez sites as often as possible. I could understand downloading software that YOU NEED to like communicate with other Christians, or communicate with your family, but if we are talking mp3's and etc then you shouldn't be doing that I don't think. Again I have no idea what Malasia is like, so that puts me at a large disadvantage for offering advise. If you were in America I would tell you to stay away from Warez altogether

 

[spicyjoe]

lol... ok... hee.... i will stay away from them but i will go find software i need to keep my pc and my life save there once is a blue moon... and anyways, back to my masturbating help...

does it takes a year to stop or i can just stop it right away?