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We will just have to disagree on this.

fallen away = unsaved.

Not everyone in "the church" is saved. In fact not everyone in the kingdom of heaven is saved.

Matt 13:41; "The Son of Man will send forth His angels, and they will gather out of His kingdom all stumbling blocks, and those who commit lawlessness,


[Fall, Fallen, Falling, Fell away] is also used to denote apostasy in the Bible. If something falls away, literally, it breaks off from the thing it was attached to and falls on the ground. The Bible gives us an imagery of fall away or falling away.

It cannot fall away, break off, unless it is first attached, in the case discussed one cannot fall away from being our first love unless we are first attached, connected to Him, Born Again.

Greek Strong's Number: 646
Greek Word: ἀποστασία
Transliteration: apostasia
Phonetic Pronunciation: ap-os-tas-ee' -ah
Root:
feminine of the same as <G647>

Vine's Words: Fall, Fallen, Falling, Fell, Forsake

English Words used in KJV:
to forsake + <G575> 1
falling away 1
[Total Count: 2]

feminine of the same as <G647> (apostasion); defection from truth (properly the state) [“apostasy”] :- falling away, forsake.
Strong's Talking Greek & Hebrew Dictionary.
 
Lost souls in a congregation are not part of the ekklesia the Body of Christ, they have to be born again from above, they cannot be attached to Christ, they cannot be in Christ and Christ in them unless they have been washed and regenerated, born anew from above. So none born again souls are not in any way connected to the ekklesia, they cannot be they are still in sin.

Bless you
 
One subject only, one question only... can you explain what 'HOLY' and 'HOLINESS' is?
May I say this, we, as the True"Children of GOD" do not have to explain or obligated to explain what the "Holy or The Holiness" of GOD is. For that Our Father Explains this Truth , to each one of us. For in which It cannot be taught by mankind. Neither Can a true Child of GOD reveal this Truth to common man. For no matter how you may try to reveal This Truth and explain it, it is futile to the common man, it is incomprehensible to the finite mind and the common man has not The Ability to receive such Truth, for this too, is "A Gift" from GOD :pensive:
 
I understand what you are saying, but am sure many do not. The institutionalised church is not really a church, it is man created and man named. It is not the ekklesia.

In fact in scripture there is no such thing as an Institutionalised church! There is only one church, it is the ekklesia, the born again from above souls, regardless of age, sex, colour, tongue and where they live in the world. It is not a building, it is not a congregation of saved and lost souls, as we know.

Keeping to the details of the conversation in this post, allow me to share something that has happened in the last few months.

A dear brother, a brother and friend for 30 years, a truly born again soul, he invited me to his place of worship, he knows better than ask me to go to his church, he doesn't have a church, no one has a church, we are only part of the ekklesia when we are born again from above, washed and spiritually regenerated. As we know.

He would like me to join him there, understandable, he has been going to the place of worship for 21 years, the paster is a lovely man of God, he too has been there 21-22 years.

The first obstacle for me was, I did not agree with the creed. As with many Church of England, though some are changing, they say 'I believe in the Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church. I would never say this, I do not agree with this, I believe in the apostolic church yes, but not the rest. My views got back to the fellowship and was discussed and taken to the vicar, a reply came back that Roman Catholic Church stands for the Universal church, not acceptable to me at all. Not only does it tie them into the RCC/CC, they say RCC before Apostolic church. I was not happy with the reply and continued to pray the Truth would be revealed to them, to the vicar there. I could also image at this time how Martin Luther would react, the bull in him would rage, the hoofs throwing up the earth, the horns at the right angle, he was noted for his rage as we know not just the 95 theses.

Time went on, prayers continued, I shared with my dear brother, how can you expect people to join you at your place of worship if the vicar cannot get the creed right. The creed is the shop window for the fellowship, it has to be right, it has to be clear. But here is the problem I think, they are following, handed down, denominational practices without questioning them against scripture. Now I must state, this is a wonderful man of God, it is just that certain things they do are wrong with scripture, certain things are taken for granted, handed down practices, basically what I call denominational influences.

As stated these discussions and prayers have gone on for months, has have my conversations with my dear and much loved brother in Christ.

The next thing we discussed in detail was 'the church' the ekklesia. I laid out very clearly, as I have stated many times on here. The church building is the kuriakkon, a word introduced by the RCC decades later, a word that is not in scripture anywhere. The building called a church is only so due to the RCC introducing the word mentioned. He agreed one hundred percent and admitted it was habit to call the building a church, it confuses the issue, confusion comes from the devil, we should stop calling a building a church, it is a place of worship, it is a house of prayer, it is a place of fellowship. Also discussed and taken back to the fellowship group at the place of worship my dear brother attends was what the ekklesia actually is. The church, the ekklesia, the body of Christ, the spiritual stones, are ONLY the born again from above souls. My dear brother agreed, and from what I gather most of the fellowship group he is part of, this was as I understand relayed to the vicar. Here came the stumbling block! The vicar believed all the congregation in the fold we the church! We would say, how can one of the most important items in scripture be over looked, mis-understood? The enemy of souls attacks us all.

Time ran on, as did the prayers, a week and a half ago my dear brother sent me a message and a link to the service he had just been to, you will like this Paul he said, it is about the church. My heart jumped for joy, PTL has he got the message, is he actually preaching it, is he going to tell the congregation, they are all part of the denomination group, but only the born again are part of the ekklesia, the body of Christ, only the born again from above are saved.

It was a good sermon, a lot was included, he told the congregation being part of a denomination, this or any other doesn't mean you are saved. That was good and I wanted to Praise the Lord, but I couldn't for two reasons, although it was a good sermon, although it included so many good points, it failed on two counts. 1 - His opening statement was 'Good morning Saints' to all listening, the saved and the lost, the sheep and the goats. 2 - His whole sermon never once explained the most vital point in scripture, unless they are born again they will not see, they will not enter the Kingdom of God, they are not part of the ekklesia, the Body of Christ.

It is sad, it is common, it is more common in common I guess in the institutionalised churches (as they are called). Should we be surprised, No! The enemy of souls is splitting fellowships like he is splitting families, he is a liar, the father of all lies, it is up to 'every single person' to make sure they are right with God, to make sure the place of worship they attend preaches, The Truth, the Whole Truth and nothing but The Truth. That is a stumbling block in itself, not one place of worship gets everything right, every place of worship, every denomination, every free church as they are called, think what they do and believe is right with God.

It was my turn to waffle PB ;)
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May I say this, we, as the True"Children of GOD" do not have to explain or obligated to explain what the "Holy or The Holiness" of GOD is. For that Our Father Explains this Truth , to each one of us. For in which It cannot be taught by mankind. Neither Can a true Child of GOD reveal this Truth to common man. For no matter how you may try to reveal This Truth and explain it, it is futile to the common man, it is incomprehensible to the finite mind and the common man has not The Ability to receive such Truth, for this too, is "A Gift" from GOD :pensive:


Greetings brother

Man cannot come near explaining the Holiness of God.
 
Do we have a polls feature for the main question this thread was about? We should add that!
 
After all, the secular state license is a contract with the state giving the signed couples permission to marry under state law.
Technically, it's a contract with the state giving a judge permission to preside over a divorce (along with disposition of the children), otherwise a 12 person jury would be needed.

In other words, the marriage license is actually a divorce license, creating a marriage of three parties.

Rhema
 
In other words, the marriage license is actually a divorce license, creating a marriage of three parties.
yep, gives the state jurisdiction over your private affairs and posessions.
marriage itself is a merging of two corporations as far as the tax code goes...
 
May I say this, we, as the True"Children of GOD" do not have to explain or obligated to explain what the "Holy or The Holiness" of GOD is. For that Our Father Explains this Truth , to each one of us. For in which It cannot be taught by mankind. Neither Can a true Child of GOD reveal this Truth to common man. For no matter how you may try to reveal This Truth and explain it, it is futile to the common man, it is incomprehensible to the finite mind and the common man has not The Ability to receive such Truth, for this too, is "A Gift" from GOD :pensive:
Agreed with you , it is " A Gift " from God , to grasp the understanding of God's Holiness .
 
Do you have to get married by a priest to actually be married in god's eyes?

Nope - when you've "joined flesh", you'r married in God's eyes. Just ask Jacob - (Gen 29)

All the "wedding" consists of (regardless of where it's held, or whether the church is involved) is the formalization of a civil contract between two individuals related to properties, access rights, tax considerations, and conditions under which the contract can be cancelled, and the distribution of the assets. Obviously Having such a LEGAL document/relationship in case of death, or divorce is highly advantageous.

And after the "Wedding" and all the associated hoopla, religious and otherwise, then IDEALLY the happy couple will go off privately, and GET MARRIED.

In the U.S, however (and other places), a significant proportion of couples are already married, and many are already in multiple adulteries, when their "Legal Wedding" takes place.
 
Nope - when you've "joined flesh", you'r married in God's eyes. Just ask Jacob - (Gen 29)
(So much for the difference between fornication and adultery....)
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Malichai explains why God doesnt hear their prayers.. Says "because God was the one who was witness to your union with the wife of your youth"

Key words: "God was witness" "faithless to the wife of your youth"
 
Do we have a polls feature for the main question this thread was about? We should add that!
Dear Yennee,
Yes we do have a polls feature, but it would require a new thread to be created. Sadly, it cannot be added upon to this thread.
You are welcome to create a new thread with a poll, and a forward link can always provided here or if the originator of this thread would like and someone provides the poll question/answer to me, I can attempt to create the new thread with a poll, and then move the entirety of the thread to the new thread so nothing gets lost. A little work, but it might be able to work, but again it would require the originator of this threads permission before I would move forward with that last suggestion.

I hope this answered your question.

With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC/Moderator
Nick
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Nope - when you've "joined flesh", you'r married in God's eyes. Just ask Jacob - (Gen 29)

I'd rather ask Jesus, Jacob isn't my God. The Bible doesn't say Jacob had a ceremony, but it also doesn't say he didn't. Quit making presumptions.

Gen 29:21; Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife, for my time is completed, that I may go in to her.” (he paid his dowry in labor)
Gen 29:22; Laban gathered all the men of the place and made a feast.
Gen 29:23; Now in the evening he took his daughter Leah, and brought her to him; and Jacob went in to her.

John 4:16; He said to her, “Go, call your husband and come here.”
John 4:17; The woman answered and said, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have correctly said, ‘I have no husband’;
John 4:18; for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; this you have said truly.”

If you have sex with a prostitute are you married to her?

1Cor 6:15; Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be!
1Cor 6:16; Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “The two shall become one flesh.”
1Cor 6:17; But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him.
1Cor 6:18; Flee fornication. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.
1Cor 6:19; Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?
1Cor 6:20; For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.

1Cor 6:9; Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
1Cor 6:10; nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

If I have sex with a married woman, that doesn't make her un-married to her husband, and it doesn't make me her husband.
If I have sex with a woman, and neither of us are married it's fornication.

Exod 22:16; If a man seduces a virgin who is not engaged, and lies with her, he must pay a dowry for her to be his wife.


The Bible says fornicators will not enter the kingdom of heaven. You can be forgiven for it, but you have to repent.


Hebrews 13:4; Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
 
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Do we have a polls feature for the main question this thread was about? We should add that!
Dear Yennee,
I was wrong about not being able to create a poll directly on this thread. A fellow Moderator and Brother in Christ Br. Bear was kind enough to guide me to it :-)
Now, since the Originator of the post hasn't been on since 2010 which is about when this thread was started. If you'd like to have one done please let me know the question and what answers would be available as a choice, and I'll create one for you all. As long as nobody else has a problem with this, it might be interesting to see what the results would be.
With the Love of Christ Jesus.
Moderator
Nick
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