@Julie.S - I, as well, had a family member who was diagnosed mentally ill, and who caused great damage to a lot of people's lives, some of whom never did get over it, and some who did, by the grace of God. This man went to church from birth until he was 86 years old. He died at age 86. He was still treating family members meanly (abusively) at age 86, too. Pastors of the church knew of this, but didn't do anything to help him that I am aware of, at least not while the children were still at home. Medical professionals just put him away for a little while, drugged him up, and did shock treatments. It didn't change anything, other than he stopped the physical beatings after that. No counsel was given to the children. Even the mom didn't discuss this with the children. His children were scared to death of him. And, then he was allowed to come back into the home to do even more damage to the children and his wife. One daughter never could forgive him until just before she died at age 61. He didn't change because his heart never changed. Drugs don't change people's hearts, and sometimes they make matters worse. He needed to surrender his heart to God/Jesus, but he was too proud for that. I hope he did before he died, but I won't know that with any certainty before I get to heaven.
I know there are good medical professionals and bad ones, but I've not seen too many of the good ones. I had some problems I went through some years ago, and rather than trusting God with them, I turned to medical professionals. They put me on Prozac. I immediately had very bad side effects, but the doctor assured me they were temporary. They weren't. When they got worse, he just put me on Zanax, I think it was, to counteract the side effects of the Prozac, but it just got worse. The Prozac did permanent damage to my CNS. I had a 10 year long headache from that until God healed me one day. So many, many people put their lives in the hands of medical professionals and take medications which are harmful to them just because a doctor told them they needed it. Some people have died from taking medicine. I will never forget the pain I suffered because I trusted the medical professional instead of God with my problems, and thought Prozac was my answer. Thank the Lord he did heal me. I have not taken medications of any kind now for about 6 years, no matter how bad I am in pain. I admit I have, on occasion, taken caffeine for pain, but no more. And, they gave me a few baby aspirin when I was in the ER 1.5 years ago, plus I willingly took one psychiatric drug (one dose) at a hospital one time in the past six years. That is all I recall.
I spoke with a psychiatrist about 5 years ago who told me that the powers that be are telling them now not to try to help people with their problems, but just to medicate them. Wow! This is scary! They don't really want to help people to change. They want to drug them up so they don't bother anyone. We need more people who really care about seeing people have heart changes than those who just want them put away so that they don't bother anyone anymore. So, when Obama says he wants to help the mentally ill to get the "help" they need, it is not "help," but is just a means of silencing people and removing them from society so that everyone can go on with their lives undisturbed.
On the flip side of this, or maybe it is the flip side, is how they now have a "mental illness" for just about every sin there is, and even the church is buying into this. 5 years ago I attended a ladies' Bible study group. The ladies were talking about pornography addiction. They all believed that people who are addicted can't help how they are and so they are not responsible for their behavior. Wow! Yet, that is not what God says. He says they are committing adultery and that they do know what they are doing, and they can help it, and that they need to stop. When we begin to excuse away every sin by saying people can't help it, what is next? Chaos. Anarchy. Rebellion gone haywire.