Hey.
We spent Christmas together with our kids and her family. It was good to be with her and serve her any way I could. I'm very genuine with where I am right now and plan on staying this way. But man, the littlest things set her off and confirm in her mind that I am not changed at all. Of course, there is nothing I could or should say to persuade her otherwise. It is up to the Lord to show her.
But, yeah, Christmas was hard. And we got home and she took off for her place without hardly a "Goodbye." I can't figure out if she is hurting at all or if she is just happy to be away from me. Does she miss anything about our marriage? Does she hate me? Does she think we can make it work?
I keep reading that time is my friend. I just miss my best friend so much, and the fact that she is so angry with me tears me up. I just want to make things right again...
Lots of sorrow and remorse. I look at the man I was and can't believe I said and did the things I did. Even though I was a Believer, my flesh was in charge and ran rampant in our relationship.
I'm very sad tonight. Especially when I see how this is affecting our sweet daughter. She is definitely hurting as well...
Thanks for all your prayers. Feel free to PM me if you can identify or don't want to share your thoughts publicly.
PJ
You are in a very difficult situation. Well, “To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.” What happens to this marriage vow and your’ hopes and dreams for the future when the relationship gets rough and they decide to call it quit?
Hey! There are still ways to save your marriage! Why not try this 3 steps to show you how to fix your relationship.
1st Step: It is normal in any marriage to have ups and downs. However, a prolonged period of downs declares that there is a problem that needs to be resolved. You might not even know it that the problem is that simple. Identifying the problem is the first important step to make things better. IDENTIFY your problem.
2nd Step: After identifying the problems, it’s time to make the necessary approach. You and your spouse need to sit down and talk peacefully and with sincere intentions about the ways to get back your love for each other and make better relationship inside your marriage.
3rd Step: Dedicate time to
Save Marriage. Counseling and working out on your marital problems can take time. Healing is also something that needs time…..only time can heal damage to the heart. Quality time for each other, open line of communication and forgiveness are very important to maintain a happy married life.
Don't give up! Always think for the positive ones, how sure you are if you no longer love her? When you know there's something wrong, always think wise how to make it right and show to her that you've realized your wrongs and you're always ready to change for her. And, Yes we are praying for you, God binds you both and no one could ever change that. God is always there for you and always ready to help just give time to yourself and to your wife and then build your relationship with God even more!
God bless!
