Separate, but let it be know to the departing spouse, male or female be “reconcile” or remain single. And refrain from all the appearance of evil. If you are a child of God , no one have to explain what that means. Deny yourself and walk in obedience of the word of God. Not my will but thy will be done. The path is narrow and hard, stay on the path. And let no one convince you to depart. This is an evil world. Galatians 1: 3-4 KJV.