I fear God at times and I respect God also.
And I would say I have a reverence for God.
Because we are quite sinless, I think in this fleshly body of sin, some level of fear is healthy for us.
Yes 1st John tells us that perfect Love cast out all fear. And God's love is perfect, however I don't
think many Christians, if any, are able to fully receive or understand God's perfect love in this state.
I think when we get to heaven there will be no fear at all, because we will truly experience God's perfect love (which cast out all fear).
However because of our sinful nature and process of sanctification by which we grow in Grace, it is hard for us to fully , 100%
receive God's perfect love. Which is why I think a little fear is healthy because of who we are.
In a jail, some prisoners by respect the guards, however, most all fear them, and that fear is healthy because of the sinful
nature of the prisoners. And in the prison you have workers who are not prisoners, who have no criminal records,
however it is still healthy for those workers to be aware that there is a penalty for stealing or helping an inmate escape,
because people are flawed and prone to sin and (I may be wrong, maybe I am) but I think a little bit of fear is healthy
because of our sinful nature.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to quote
Niccolò Machiavelli >
“it is much safer to be feared than loved because ...love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.”
I'm not saying that is how we should be as Christians fully. I think our motivation should ultimately be love. However I believe that
until we can receive that perfect love which cast out all fear, a little bit of fear is helpful to keep our sinful flesh in line. I know it has
benefited me many times.