My best guess is that God allows bad things to happen to us in order for us to learn and grow closer to him.
Thank you. I've heard that sentiment preached quite often, but that's not what Jesus told his disciples -
Now as Jesus passed by, He saw a man who was blind from birth. And His disciples asked Him, saying, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" Jesus answered, "Neither this man nor his parents sinned, but that the works of God should be revealed in him. I must work the works of Him who sent Me while it is day; the night is coming when no one can work. As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world." When He had said these things, He spat on the ground and made clay with the saliva; and He anointed the eyes of the blind man with the clay. And He said to him, "Go, wash in the pool of Siloam" (which is translated, Sent). So he went and washed, and came back seeing.
(John 9:1-7 NKJV)
The blind see and the lame walk; the lepers are cleansed and the deaf hear; the dead are raised up and the poor have the gospel preached to them.
(Matthew 11:5 NKJV)
"Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father.
(John 14:12 NKJV)
God knew Adam and Eve would fail and it was all a part of his plan.
How could Murder be a part of God's plan?
You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
(John 8:44 NKJV)
The devil murdered Adam and Eve from the beginning, bringing death, disease and pain to them. A loving God wouldn't have any part of that.
Kindly,
Rhema