@B-A-C -- there are Also many people who watch church services on TV or virtual who don't have any choice. And there are groups that go to Nursing homes for services on regular basis. And it's up to the person as to which they choose to do. Not to sound mean - spirited -- because there are also those who 'find excuses' to by-pass church.
Greeting Sue,
You do not sound mean, you make a common statement, but there are a lot of saved souls outside the
kuriakon's. There are many reasons why they do not go, I have heard people say, I don't go because they are hypocrites! They go to church, thing they are righteous for an hour or so, then come back into the world and do what they want in worldly ways for six and a half days.
I have heard others say, Mrs whats her name spoke to me though she was high and mighty, or Mr so and so told me I should do this and that but doesn't do it himself!
I have experienced those who started 'a church', dictating to others everything should be done their way. I have experienced the power a good choir can have on influencing what happens in a church!
There are many reasons inside and outside the doors of a place of worship, there may be lost souls outside but there are lost souls inside too. There may be saved souls inside, a percentage, but there are many saved souls outside also.
Where do I fit in this picture, I went to a CofE place of worship, a brand new church
kuriakon, for about six years, I was so frustrated with the tugging between traditional and evangelical, I was so frustrated by the attitude of those who started it from a small hall, I was frustrated by the vicar, he was a nice guy, ran the place well, but bowed down to the choir and others, but more so not expounding The Word. Several times John's Gospel was preached about Nichodemus' visit to see Jesus and be told we MUST BE Born Again, it was never Preached! Each time there was more about Nichodemus, his secret visit, who he was, what he did, but not the most important part... 3 time Jesus said, we MUST BE born again, we should not be surprised when Jesus says we MUST BE born again. Never was born again explained, they believe you are saved when Christened!
I have been a born again Christian for almost thirty years, the above is the only time I have been to or been part of a 'church'
kuriakon. I will never belong to a denomination, but I am self taught from The Word, by The Holy Spirit, from then until now.
I have a friend locally, we share most days, prayer, fellowship, encouragement, he would love me to go to 'his church', he is a truly born again believer whom I have known for 30 years, but I do not agree with the denomination top end ways, women vicars, women bishops, an arch bishop that cannot make a decision on key issues, homosexuality etc. I am a spiritual stone in the one true Church, the
ekklesia, the Body of Christ, the Bride of Christ, that is what Jesus wants us all to be.
I do have other influences to my decision naturally, I am very deaf, I don't hear, I get stressed, I don't want stress I have learnt to adjust to avoid it. I don't go out a lot due to my disability and pain. I cannot get up and down as others would, and sitting in one place for a period of time brings on more pain in my lower back and coccyx. But my main reason is that I cannot go to a place of worship, that doesn't have women vicars, where the arch bishop and bishop allow it in other parts of the body of their institution.
Watching church services online may give people a little uplift to their spirit, but without The Word that is all it is.
We have to pick up our cross and follow Jesus, have our daily bread, The Word, and feed on it in our hearts daily with Thanks Giving and Praise, giving God the Glory, in all situations though Jesus Christ, our Lord and Saviour.
Bless you