A real Child of GOD has A real Relationship with JESUS and The WORD of GOD! They need No One! To talk things over about Marital problems! Period! Wives you do not talk about you Husbands to Other women! Period! "Nominal Christians" do what you want to do! you don't belong to GOD! Talk to the preacher to the deacon, who ever you want to!
"A real child of God has a real relationship with Jesus and the world of God and
therefore they need no one to talk about their martial problem.
Talk to the preacher to the deacon, who ever you want to."
This articulated phrasing seems to cancel out each other. I do understand the spirit of your overall message.
If I may offer a point of view.
The foundation of marital problems is feminism. Feminism is a spiritual doctrine of rebellion. There's no such thing as egalitarianism. God created hierarchy of authority. A wife belongs to her husband. She is an end unto him. She's not equal, but rather treated equally because her husband loves God and that love treats her equally.
Feminism usurps the patriarch God setup arguing for egalitarianism. In God's universe, there's hierarchy. There can only be one over the other, not equality. Feminism reverses the hierarchy putting husbands in submission to their wives whilst creating the illusion of equality. Really however, she is empowered to negate his authority and overrule it. That's rebellion labeled equality and it bypasses human critical thinking. Who could be against equal rights in a free society? That's the bypass or the back door that empowers rebellion. In God's way, his love treats a wife equally and God put his love implementation in the husband.
Human beings completing puberty who remain single, exist in a state of sin. We're never meant to be alone. Sound familiar? Genesis.
God created man (male) from the dust of the earth, breathed life into him. God took a rib (or flesh) from man and created woman. That's implementation and symbolic of hierarchy.
God mandates humanity be fruitful and multiply. What's required? Marriage, Family and a lot procreation.
But what does Satan want? Satan wants humanity to reject God. Satan introduces substitutes: Idolatry over God. Occultism over God's Power. More importantly, be your own God over God. This sound familiar again. The Garden of Eden. Genesis. Feminism is same lie Satan provided to Eve. Its just repackaged for our modern era. If you eat the fruit you will become just like God. Your eyes will be open. In other words equality or egalitarianism.
Given the right to vote, negating patriarchy.
Given privilege(s) via law above any other in society, negating roles and personal responsibility.
Given the welfare state and replace the husband, negating family and husband authority.
Given the power over life and death, abortion, empowering and worshiping Satan.
Given the power to express herself, find herself and to become empowered, which all equates to sexual freedom without regard to marriage, pregnancy and family.
Feminism demonizes masculinity, ridicules God's hierarchy.
If you're a man who finds himself to be "un-dateable" or never shows up on her radar, this is why. Feminism. When you walk into a church that supports a single's class, visit the class. What do you see? You see the fruit of feminism, single motherhood. Her overclocked sexuality puts her hypergamy off the chart, filtering men by the millions, leaving only the so called alpha males to please her.
A wife submits to her husband, no questions asked.
A prostitute uses her sexuality and manipulates her so called husband. She's not a wife.
God created the human body. True.
God created sexual desire. True.
God created sex. True.
God created a time mechanism for a human being to become sexually capable. Puberty. True.
God mandated humankind, be fruitful and multiply. True.
God created a framework where being fruitful and multiply takes place. Marriage and Family. True.
God designed our human body to have sex. True.
Your human body will want to have sex. True.
Therefore upon puberty we fulfill God's mandate and marry.
If we don't marry, we set ourselves up for moral failure. Therefore being single is a sin and its implicitly understood.
The human body will crave sexual activity regardless if we are single or married. If feminism usurps male authority and empowers her to be a sexual deviant, then where do good men turn go and express their God given sexual energy? He uses a substitute, pornography.
The mighty pillars of pornography and homosexuality stand firm on the solid foundation of feminism. Break the foundation and the pillars fall and crumble.
Then, there is the problem! Here a man stands up, identifies and calls out evil and an indoctrinated nation of people call the man misogynist and a homophobe.
For sexual immorality to stop, will it require the economy to crash, the country's infrastructure to collapse and chaos to ensue? Women no longer having the support to continue abortions, and all the privileges, now struggle to survive and live in fear. They can't make it on their own whilst godless men enslave them for their own evil deeds. Who do they turn to? Good men? If they do turn to good men they'd have to reject feminism. They'd have to submit and be protected.
Will America's destruction be the pathway leading to sexual morality and reestablishing God's expectations?