christbased
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Now he is in the midst of a second. Schizoaffective disorder. What the Lord has given me in this time is that we each have a life to give to Christ, spend ourselves as he spent himself for us. So the family prays and we lift up the precious one who is so ill and present them to the Savior who sees all: the one who is so sick and the ones who carry them. It would be a great kindness if there are people who would join in prayer for those who are afflicted. I am willing are there others?
Hi Warrior Mom,
God Bless you, um... I am one of those sons, who has had issues.
In MY option, your son needs:
- Prayer (ask angels to surround your son, now and forever)
- a good doctor, pray about it, let our Lord direct you. Your son is going to need Psychotherapy. That is nothing special, it will just be his doctor asking him lots of questions, getting to know his personality and issues as the medication get into his body
- watch him, make sure he takes his medication, period. Don't worry, yes there a major spiritual components of mental illness. There is NOTHING wrong with dealing with BOTH issues at the same time. But, IMHO, your son needs medication, now, to stop his phycosis.
- relax, tonnes of folks have metal illness, including paranoid schizophrenia. It will take at least three months before the anti-psychotic medication takes effect. Your job is to keep him calm, wait, give him time for the phycosis to break. Physical work outside seems to help alot, at least it did with me
- in six-eight months, request if they can give you son a SPECT scan to look inside his brain. That will give you a better idea what his issues are, truely a schizophrenia disorder or a bi-polar disorder
- ENSURE YOUR SON IS IN CHRIST . Now he might have drifted due to his illness, believe in aliens, talking to himself, paranoid of everything, belief there are aliens or things around him, etc. Relax, pray in Christ name. There is more power in one drop of His Blood, than anything else. Just quietly pull yourself away, and pray Remember who you are talking to. DON'T give in to anxiety, even though some of this stuff is scary. It's all happened before, in many many others. Don't be afraid.
If he stepped away from church, when he is better, and ready, you will probably see him return right back to church when he feels better as he probably draws strength from church. He will probably be concerned what others think of him, I would say, don't push him to go back to church too early. You and he will know when it's right. Relax, don't judge him, talk to others who have family members with mental illness.
- Surround him with other friends who can help him embrace a more normal life. It will take a while before he will be fine
- If he currently works, try to keep him working! Try to get him to only talk to you, family and others outside of work about his issues so he can retain his job. Having a job for him will greatly help his self esteem.
May our Lord Bless you, your Son, and your support group which includes family, friends, doctors and nurses. Amen
and keep talking on this forum!
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