First kiss?

[*snow*]

Ok i agree if you can't control yaself and like keep your hands in the right place...in ya pockets hahaha! but also you need to know what to do before you get married or it will be a shocker!!! get me? So if you are with someone that you think you are going to marry then kissing is kool. Practice makes perfect.

 

[janelle4christ]

Oh indeed!
Keep it for marrige-I am. I hope so atlesat-its hard. being a teen and all. I say"The one Im going to kiss first is the one im going to marry" thus leaving me to ..wait a LONG time. but question that comes to mind is--how do you know your going to marry him/her? well-pray

+He Lives+

 

[For Him]

to all of you out there who are going to save your first kiss, God bless ya!!! its a wonderful stand to take... and i am uber impressed by the conviction behind your words. i didnt, but im ok with that. but i totally respect your stand!

 

[coco]

lol goood question

i think this question varies from person to person .. i dun think you should wait for marriage but i also dun fink u shud jst kiss the first guy you meet .. it depends on who the relationship and if its right hey if any1 wants 2 see dis site go to its got discussions on pg 2 .. peace out

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[DaughterofEve]

Wow! At first, this thread only had 2 replie, but now it has 3 pages.

 

[MumsdollarFan]

though some people think they shouldn't kiss until marriage, i think it's fine in dating. God didn't say do not kiss until you're married he said do not have sex until you're married. a kiss with one person is never going to be the same with someone else. and a kiss with the one you love, whether before marriage or not, will always be exciting and never 'same old same old' - i mean, you wont kiss all your dates of course. wait til you know how you feel, how long you've been together, how mature you are, and when the time is right... =)

 

[MIMO]

I donnot know what are the traditions and rules in your country but i agree with you the first kiss should be after marriage ,here in Egypt girls are too careful not to give their heart to anyone,because of our traditons.the woman should kiss her husband onlyyyyyyyyy

 

[thankful]

yesssssssssssss!!!!

oh this is wonderful this has made my day. i believe this and i hold to it one hundred percent it is something i hold dear to my heart and i know God will help me with this as He does with everything else. i would really love the name of that book.

be blessed my brothers and sisters

 

[Sammeh_3]

Hiya

Well from my point of view i think God Would want you to have your first when you feel lyk the moment is right im 13 and iv had my first kiss alredy

 

[anthony]

Hello Julie,

As you know that God tell that Be Holly as I am. So I request you that please wait until you can't get a perfect man.

About Kiss I know that If you love so much deep from you heart that is love Kiss.

Anthony

 

[Rickeo]

I have two view points on this as follows:

A) I don't see that all the fuss is about with the kissing if you have a relationship with someone that goes beyong friends sex until married is out of the question full stop so you need something to make the differance between friends and boyfriend/girlfriend. I have many deep friendships with people where I cantalk to them about anything. However kissing should not be taken lightly because it does become same old same old boring blah blah blah, and then it becomes tempting to move on to more sinful things. But kissing is all good as long as it is done sensibly and your not going round kissing for the fun of it!!

B) The more you save for marriage the better!!! More fun it will be!!! Also the body is a temple for the holy spirit remember that. There are also loads of types of kissing the peck on the lips or the exchanging salava kissing or the really deep passionate kissing I can go on and on some are NOT approprieate and this can be judged by commen sense the least thing you want to happen is to get to carried away and faced with temptation and doing something you will regret.

Two differant opinioms I think it can be sumed up as to use your commen sense if in doubt dont do it full stop!!! Pray about it if you know God doesnt want you doing it DONT do it.

God Bless

 

[Angelwave]

no i dont agree but i do understand where you are coming from!kissing is fine from my point of view!its different though if its someone you dont intend on having any kind of relationship with!but sometimes you just dont know who is the right personso for some people its different to others!i kind of agree with tollo with the kissing is fine but save sex till marraige but i think that if you choose to kiss u should be able to kiss as deeply and passionately as you wish!please dont take this thewrong way as im just showing my view...honestly im not trying to be mean!everyone is different you just have to trust your own judgment!
god bless all
angelwave

 

[timnorman]

well.....i do think and agree with your point but i think in reality although i would like to agree and i would say i do ... i dont think i will...as bad as it is and you can call me a Hypocrite...but i think having the thought will help me comtroll myself more so than if i didnt think that.....wb ?...tim

 

[DaughterofEve]

Well, I've read all the posts here in this thread, and I still am sticking to my opinion. I'm saving my first kiss for marriage, at least that's what I'm going to try to do. But rember that not all things go as planned, so you just have to sick back, and let God take care of it!
Thanks everyone fpr not being mean no others while you put your opinion.

 

[rosewolf18]

You know, I used to think that I would save my first kiss for my future husband. I lasted until this past summer. I recieved my first kiss way before I wanted. Dont get me wrong, I wanted to be kissed, but looking back, I should have kept waiting. I am recommitting myself. The next time I am kissed it will be when I am engaged.
Keep to your idea, DaughterofEve. You will never regret it. Your first kiss is a very important thing. Dont ever let anyone make you comprimise that!
In Christ, sister

 

[1stCorinthians]

I dont really agree that you should wait until you are married. I think that is it great and shows real commitment that you are going to wait. I unfortunatly didn't. I mean sometime i wish i had waited and i dont just kiss every person i "go out" with but the guy that i kissed i really liked and we are like bestest friends now!!anyways... i hope you succeed in your goal of waiting.....buh bye now!!

1siCorinthians ....aka callie

 

[Zachsgurl]

hey i believe in kissing a few ppl not every other person,, ive personally Never been kissed, but i still think u should save them...

 

[Girl]

Hmm... Ive never given it much thought. Probably not, because c'mon, my first kiss. I will probably do something stupid, like bite his lip, squeal... Uncontrollably put on some weird face... Something bad would probably happen to ME.. because i am me..

And that could be incredibly embarrassing, considering that it will be in front of everyone.

 

[charsta01]

Hey, yea, I think its a nice conccept, I so wish I'd gotten hold of it before I had my first bf. I'm 17 and have had 2 boyfriends. I did kiss , like not hard out, but I've had my first kiss. Weirdly, in both situations, God kinda told me it wasn't quite right and I broke off the relationship. But now, I wana wait until I meet the right guy, the next guy I wana date I want to be the one who will be my husband. But do any of you think that having kissed other boys before the one who will be the one you spend the rest of your life with is wrong, or a big deal? hmm.. just want to know your opinions...

 

[CrazyForChrist]

I know that kissing is fine before marriage. Marriage is a long process anyways(thats another subject). But kissing in lust is wrong. Besides, God's marriage and marriage under law are two completly different things. So waiting untill your married under law to kiss is quite silly.


Much Hugs:shade: